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Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
To start with, I dnt know why a MAN will choose to either physically or verbally abuse his woman. Either of the two happens to an average woman in the society, its either your spouse beat Ɣ☺u, or he uses words strong enough to linger till the last breath. Some will even beat and verbally abuse Ɣ☺u together, in my own view I think the pain of beating will go along with time, but the emotional pain of verbal abuse is forever. I know non is good, but which is better? Will you have him insult you verbally or through beating? |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
None 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
None of the above. Both have the same effect. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by adet991(f): 11:07pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
None |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by deuce7(m): 11:43pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Abuse is abuse and none should be allowed in a healthy relationship |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 1:22am On Oct 16, 2014 |
NEITHER. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 10:12am On Oct 16, 2014 |
...of two evils, choose the less. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 10:56am On Oct 16, 2014 |
I think physical abuse is worse. I can't fight back physically, so i could risk getting killed. But verbal abuse? What did God give me lips/mouth for? Come kuku add sharp tongue join. Let the abuse begin! 2 Likes |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by egopersonified(f): 12:54pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Abuse na abuse Insult na insult Beating na beating Degrading na degrading Regret na regret Divorce na divorce |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Phema:Verbal abuse is as harmful as physical abuse It may not cause physical damage, but it does cause emotional pain and scarring It can also lead to physical violence Physical abuse is so bad that as time goes on, you start believing the degrading words said by your partner You begin to think you're clueless, silly or ugly You begin to think you aren't good enough for anyone 1 Like |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by royalicon(m): 5:31pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
None. K'amari ogun esu |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by rezzy: 6:00pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
None pls. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by dre11(m): 8:18pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
None I jump past this thread |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by beeevan: 11:52pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Verbal is so much better, he will get a run for his money. Physical? Just slip him something, when he is dead to the world, pick a weapon of your choice and feed him his meal. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 12:02am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Such choices are never in the hands of victims. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Shirley07: 12:20am On Oct 17, 2014 |
beeevan:So cool. 2 Likes |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 7:54am On Oct 17, 2014 |
beeevan: Exactly! Verbal abuse ke? Na only him to run |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by beeevan: 8:03am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Phema: Only the most foolish of men will engage in a war of words with a woman. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 9:01am On Oct 17, 2014 |
beeevan: I dey tell you! |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Arsenate(m): 9:13am On Oct 17, 2014 |
beeevan:excellent point. this simply implies that any man who is verbally abused should physically deal with the woman. you make lots of sense. fair game. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 9:40am On Oct 17, 2014 |
I don't think men engage in verbal abuse as much as women do... Na women get Verbal while men get physical... Don't think a man can ever win a woman when it comes to war of words..they will even follow you about and support their insulting words with clapping 2 Likes |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by crackhaus: 10:05am On Oct 17, 2014 |
beeevan:Truly, you speak wisdom. So I guess the perfect response to a woman who's constantly running her mouth whenever she feels like it, is a slap or two to remind her of her place? Don't you agree? Or do you belong to the hypothetical school of thought where a real man must always possess the God-given gift of walking away whenever his wife's tongue begins it's normal evil routine? |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by beeevan: 11:26am On Oct 17, 2014 |
crackhaus: Did you read our conversation before this comment crackhaus? Please stop allowing your idiosyncrasies to make you delve into conversations without having a grasp on the Koko . Read the topic again, then the comments.... 1 Like |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by crackhaus: 11:59am On Oct 17, 2014 |
beeevan:As usual, attack when cornered as is common with you lot. I must admit I don't grasp the koko, conversations, or topic...it's rocket science and much too complicated for my simple mind. Now that i have made that clear, I asked a simple question: What should a man do when he is faced with a woman who has a degree in using her tongue to cut deep every time she wishes? Clearly, a man can't engage in a war of words with a woman like you have claimed and which is true...so what is he to do? I need to enrich my simple mind. 2 Likes |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 12:00pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
crackhaus: Why would you surround yourself with such women? You talk back or walk away or you do both. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by crackhaus: 12:09pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Do you ask women this same question, why would a woman surround herself with an abusive man? As for talking back, beevan and a few others have said a man can't engage a woman in a war of words...which is true. As for walking away, how long will he continue to do that? Or in some cases like your fellow woman on this thread says: MarvellousGod: I don't think men engage in verbal abuse as much as women do... Na women get Verbal while men get physical... Don't think a man can ever win a woman when it comes to war of words.. they will even follow you about and support their insulting words with clappingEmphasis on the text in bold. What should a man do to such women? 1 Like |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
crackhaus: I do. As for talking back, beevan and a few others have said a man can't engage a woman in a war of words...which is true. I don't agree. There are plenty of rhetorically gifted men and plenty of women who are rhetorically poor. As for walking away, how long will he continue to do that? When you walk away from a verbally abusive woman, stay away. Or in some cases like your fellow woman on this thread says: I have answered your question. Say your own and leave such a woman. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
crackhaus:heheheh... you want to know what I will say?? Like tell the man to slap or beat the lady? No, can never support physical abuse, it doesn't solve the problem at hand.. the lady may even try to fight back which worsens the situation. .. The man should simply ignore her, walk away, talk to his wife or record the woman's voice and play it for her when they're in a happy mood, the woman would be so ashamed to hear herself shouting like a dog (use this option only when you know she was ranting for nothing)... Again, the man should check himself to know if he's the actual cause of the woman's behaviour. .. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by MadCow1: 12:40pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
All forms of Abuse are bad. Infact, the less physical the abuse, the worse it is. An emotionally abused person is as good as a Zombie or a ticking timebomb.. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by destante(f): 12:50pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
verbal abuse lingers right, but physical abuse makes the man look like a beast. none anyways. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by crackhaus: 1:48pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:If only it were that easy for people to just up and walk out of their marriage... Your point is duly noted however. |
Re: Between Men That Physically Abuse Or Those That Verbally Abuse; Which Is Better? by JEITO: 2:12pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
Matters like these are not what we should be discussing. We should rather be talking of how to deal or curb abuse of all form in marriage |
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