jayedu108:
u need cane u dis old woman live dat small boy alone nah nw u dey find love wen u don dey reach menopause!

valmunich:
How do people fall in love with someone they've not seen before

tosyne2much:
broda, this is so rude.. Is it fun giving harsh comment that would embitter the heart of those you need your comment(s) to get out of their predicament ? What gives you the assurance that you would also get married when due ?

Rapsainot:
i got you on this one

marieolae:
its sad lol but it happens oh. Seriously

tosyne2much:
marie person report you to me oooooo.. Did you stumble upon our chat ?

marieolae:
who is dat person lool

tosyne2much:
his moniker is 01karma.. E pain me say mods don close down the thread sef, I for say make you go read the allegations against you.. He say make I follow you talk cos I be your padi

marieolae:
lol ah beg leave dat one jor. Not everybody is gonna like u na haba. Wetin concern me

tosyne2much:
**sure now**you knw am abi ? He sounded so pained oooo.. I presume both of you have engaged in an exchange of insults exercise at one point in tym ?

Niwdog:
Na bcus of these nonsense,na em make u join nairaland

Hi.
I am 32 and in luv with a 25 year old guy. Altho, I hve someone who works abroad to marry but hve not set ma eyes on him xcept his pics(matchmaking). He said he wld be home dis dec. I hve known him for a year plus now. Communication is vital in every reltionship, ther4 he calls once a week at most twice, claims he is always busy. And I complained to him dat his communication is poor. I used to be d one to call sometimes and I stopped so it won't seem asif m desperate.I now wonder if I get married to him, is dis what I will face cos he said I wld be in nija till he gets his papers which wld be in 3 - 5 yrs time or God knows wen. Now, I recently met a 25 year old guy and he shows me all wht I need in a man(name it ) and I m now so in LOVE with this guy and this guy too is not in d same state wt me but we do see and he proposed marriage to me.mehn! I am madly in luv with this guy. Right now I am confused. First, m older dan this guy or else I won't giv his propsal a second thot. Second, do u think I shuld marry abroad guy.
Pls I need candid and mature advises. No insults pls but feel free to air ur views
Thanks landers!

tosyne2much:
abi I no talk am well ni ?

Hi.
I am 32 and in luv with a 25 year old guy. Altho, I hve someone who works abroad to marry but hve not set ma eyes on him xcept his pics(matchmaking). He said he wld be home dis dec. I hve known him for a year plus now. Communication is vital in every reltionship, ther4 he calls once a week at most twice, claims he is always busy. And I complained to him dat his communication is poor. I used to be d one to call sometimes and I stopped so it won't seem asif m desperate.I now wonder if I get married to him, is dis what I will face cos he said I wld be in nija till he gets his papers which wld be in 3 - 5 yrs time or God knows wen. Now, I recently met a 25 year old guy and he shows me all wht I need in a man(name it ) and I m now so in LOVE with this guy and this guy too is not in d same state wt me but we do see and he proposed marriage to me.mehn! I am madly in luv with this guy. Right now I am confused. First, m older dan this guy or else I won't giv his propsal a second thot. Second, do u think I shuld marry abroad guy.
Pls I need candid and mature advises. No insults pls but feel free to air ur views
Thanks landers!

Hi.
I am 32 and in luv with a 25 year old guy. Altho, I hve someone who works abroad to marry but hve not set ma eyes on him xcept his pics(matchmaking). He said he wld be home dis dec. I hve known him for a year plus now. Communication is vital in every reltionship, ther4 he calls once a week at most twice, claims he is always busy. And I complained to him dat his communication is poor. I used to be d one to call sometimes and I stopped so it won't seem asif m desperate.I now wonder if I get married to him, is dis what I will face cos he said I wld be in nija till he gets his papers which wld be in 3 - 5 yrs time or God knows wen. Now, I recently met a 25 year old guy and he shows me all wht I need in a man(name it ) and I m now so in LOVE with this guy and this guy too is not in d same state wt me but we do see and he proposed marriage to me.mehn! I am madly in luv with this guy. Right now I am confused. First, m older dan this guy or else I won't giv his propsal a second thot. Second, do u think I shuld marry abroad guy.
Pls I need candid and mature advises. No insults pls but feel free to air ur views
Thanks landers!

valmunich:
How do people fall in love with someone they've not seen before

sauceny:


There are certain things you really have to look out for,like;
His way of life(character)
Is he capable of taking care of a family.

For me;i think they both aren't an option,cos if d guy overseas is ready,he would/should have sent his pple ova & made it known to his family about you...Or better still,he should call on daily basis to keep d fire burning.

As for the other dude,just b really ready to face his family, especially d mother nt wanting d son to marry a woman almost twice his age.

But what has kept you from nt getting married during ur 20s,when u had d tym to make a good choice ¿....

Tymax:
Wait o! This is double dating na!

If na guy post this tin, una go dey criticize am. Na wa o. See double standard of NL critics. Especially that 3cycle lady.

Well, OP you are not too old for him. He may be 25 but when a man decides on his woman that decision is solid. Go for the younger guy and don't wait on that guy abroad who doesn't have your time.

3cycle:

Kill yourself then

tosyne2much:
his moniker is 01karma.. E pain me say mods don close down the thread sef, I for say make you go read the allegations against you.. He say make I follow you talk cos I be your padi

Mariopgomery:
stop talking búllshít jare.

Mariopgomery:
Wtf is wrong with folks on nairaland sef .. How is she too old 4 the guy? If you love this guy and he loves you too and u think he is ready for marriage go for it. Dont miss out on love because of what ignorant people think.

Hi.
I am 32 and in luv with a 25 year old guy. Altho, I hve someone who works abroad to marry but hve not set ma eyes on him xcept his pics(matchmaking). He said he wld be home dis dec. I hve known him for a year plus now. Communication is vital in every reltionship, ther4 he calls once a week at most twice, claims he is always busy. And I complained to him dat his communication is poor. I used to be d one to call sometimes and I stopped so it won't seem asif m desperate.I now wonder if I get married to him, is dis what I will face cos he said I wld be in nija till he gets his papers which wld be in 3 - 5 yrs time or God knows wen. Now, I recently met a 25 year old guy and he shows me all wht I need in a man(name it ) and I m now so in LOVE with this guy and this guy too is not in d same state wt me but we do see and he proposed marriage to me.mehn! I am madly in luv with this guy. Right now I am confused. First, m older dan this guy or else I won't giv his propsal a second thot. Second, do u think I shuld marry abroad guy.
Pls I need candid and mature advises. No insults pls but feel free to air ur views
Thanks landers!

jayedu108:
shut the Bleep up and say somtin reasonable.

coolzeal:
Why is it acceptable in our society that men can marry significantly younger women and it's accepted and viewed as normal, but it's not so acceptable and even frowned upon if an older women to date or marry younger men. That's double standard and to my knowledge, age is just a number. The ideal relationship we all seek of regardless of the age gap, probably some one that you can talk to effortlessly Someone who is similar to you in some ways and that can compliment your negatives with a positive and vice versa. Someone who looks to help you bring out the best in you. Someone that you can open up completely to. Someone who makes you feel like you're the most important / luckiest person in the world. Someone that can see all of your flaws and still love you like you were perfect much less understand you better. Why is it a taboo for older women dating/marrying younger men?

dagentility:
Op i really feel your pain, it is not easy when heart is already involved, if u'r sure you love the 25 yr old guy and he is ready to marry you, babe jst go for your happiness first, your love for him will keep you going. ' screw age, screw what people will say' your happiness first.

Mariopgomery:
Wtf is wrong with folks on nairaland sef .. How is she too old 4 the guy? If you love this guy and he loves you too and u think he is ready for marriage go for it. Dont miss out on love because of what ignorant people think.

adepiero:
Screw everyone on this thread condemning age difference.
Love knows no bound regardless of age. If you truly love the young man, go for him. Its better than waiting for a guy that may never show up. and he has to get married to a white woman to get his papers in that short period in case you don't know.
what makes you so sure he will like you when you meet in person?
use your head sister, A bird at hand is the very bird, nothing dey for bush!

Mariopgomery:
Wtf is wrong with folks on nairaland sef .. How is she too old 4 the guy? If you love this guy and he loves you too and u think he is ready for marriage go for it. Dont miss out on love because of what ignorant people think.