| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Samabu07(m): 9:07am On Oct 18, 2014 |
ugwum007:
all dis people reading dis post, dont u ve homes to sweep...dis is Saturday morning for Christ sake Shey na broom u use type this nonsense?  2 Likes |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by EduParis(m): 9:12am On Oct 18, 2014 |
zyzxx:
Nice op. most times we knw what is Gud and best but we find ourselves doing d wrong thing base on our flesh,
God help us make we be d doer not only d reader of dis word  Yeah,az well az writers too! 1 Like |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by 2scorehigh(m): 9:34am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Oh my God! I'm getting so tired of these clichés... |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Sijioke(m): 9:36am On Oct 18, 2014 |
kentozybee:
Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. as if she too wont have a taste of you. 1 Like |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Harkynkunle(m): 9:43am On Oct 18, 2014 |
[quote author=Ladycloud post=27213425]nyc one dear! if all guyz fink this way...d world will be a better place Just shut up and be reasonable for once. |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by clemz85(m): 9:49am On Oct 18, 2014 |
aside the thread, d response of my guys gladens my heart, God bless d Op, God bless d singles. |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by MrCork: 10:12am On Oct 18, 2014 |
komek:
Just shut up and be reasonable for once. ...calm down bro ther ix no nid for violence...the tread only makes sense to REAL MEN who get punny & who clearly under stand wot it means not to share.
....u wii under stand when reach pubaty (noo ofence) 1 Like |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by bigiyaro(m): 10:28am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Nice write up, but realistically, it won't change a thing. |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Truckpusher(m): 10:30am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Why the too many mention about God? Until you guys stop believing on any imaginary friend and a father , that letter wouldn't save your lazy asss.  |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Truckpusher(m): 10:31am On Oct 18, 2014 |
MrCork:
...calm down bro ther ix no nid for violence...the tread only makes sense to REAL MEN who get punny & who clearly under stand wot it means not to share.
....u wii under stand when reach pubaty (noo ofence)  
|
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Joshuadon: 10:35am On Oct 18, 2014 |
NICE ONE 
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| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by ugwum007(m): 10:35am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Samabu07:
Shey na broom u use type this nonsense? my tecno phone can accept input from a single stick of broom. broom-touch |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Dcmg(m): 10:43am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Nice one.I knew all these since I was 20.
I know my purpose hear on earth and i know where am going to.
When i knew what really matters to me and the cause i'm to commit to,i can now differentiate CLEARY what is neccesary to me and what not is.And i enjoy that life
I rarely have/make friends,becos most of them don't think or reason the same way i do.People try to force their friendship on me but their thinking/attitude Just doesn't click with mine becos they alway think waywardly and that's the reason i have few friends.All what most of them do/think about is women,sex,partying,bigboy,drinking,whatsapp,facebook,twitter e.t.c
And i dnt do all these,and they think i'm crazy or an introvert living a boring life.But i know i'm not crazy or an introvert,the fact is they dnt reason the way i do,they think i'm living a boring life but i know i'm being my best self.
When you tell a lady you dnt want a relationship,the more they want to force themselves on you thinking they can convince you.If you dnt give in to them,they think you are gay,impotent or just crazy.
Mehn,it's not easy,you are always the topic of discussion just becos you decide not to party,make friends with cowards or get a girlfriend.
The world is a mess,where the real crazy people are seeing the upright people as the crazy ones.
If you have money but you decide not to drink,smoke,womanise,party or make friends with cowards,they call you names.Smh 3 Likes |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 10:45am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Warrisdis?? |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by kenny1991: 10:56am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Gud write up . THanks Man |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by adexsimply(m): 10:57am On Oct 18, 2014 |
nuelldido:
this should be given award for post of d year. God bless u cos I need words like dis to keep my focus and stay away from unnecessary relationship and friendship.. I remain single to avoid distraction until I am ready. If you need words like this to "keep your focus" then... |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by virginboy1(m): 10:59am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Chai, guity conscience, many of us knows what is right, just that some of us no longer trust women because of how some teared our heart apart while we were been loyal then.
Some guys no longer use their heart to love,they prefer using thier brain.
All is well |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by PTAwal: 11:00am On Oct 18, 2014 |
kentozybee:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?
The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.
I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.
This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.
If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.
It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.
If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.
Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.
Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.
Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.
Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.
Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.
Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.
Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.
My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.
If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.
Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.
Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends in areas where necessary. You have no idea how positively you changed my mind-set with this little write-up. God bless you. !!! |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by pedro08: 11:12am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Hmmm.a fatherly advice crested 4rm proverbs and ecclesiastics.nice one op.wish guys out dere heed this advice. |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Noxidi(m): 11:56am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Nice one. Touching Gat to change ma ways now |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by snadguy007(m): 11:57am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Bookmarked !!! |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by StepG: 11:59am On Oct 18, 2014 |
kentozybee:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?
The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.
I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.
This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.
If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.
It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.
If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.
Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.
Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.
Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.
Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.
Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.
Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.
Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.
My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.
If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.
Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.
Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends in areas where necessary. |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by podosci(m): 12:08pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
kentozybee:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?
The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.
I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.
This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.
If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.
It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.
If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.
Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.
Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.
Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.
Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.
Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.
Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.
Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.
My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.
If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.
Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.
Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends in areas where necessary. Many men have fallen not from their fellow men but from women....am a decent honest guy with a satisfiable craving for sex,,,so i cured ma cravings by finding ma self a girl, just wan girl who could satisfy ma emotional and sexual needs,,,After 2 years of dating i proposed and we re to be married soon,,,,,i later discoverd i got tired of sex,,sex jst become an activity and nothing else and the tin that bonds mi and ma girl together is the time we spend together gisting and talking for hours,,the love we share is unrivaled, and we stil have sex but the sex is not as important has the love we share..........Men need to look ahead and sought out there future,,,,u can find a girl to sought it out with u, but chasing after many girls is detrimental to ur future 1 Like |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by YourCoffin: 12:50pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Lubbish! Next! |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by yesboss20(m): 1:05pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
..."Think about your future and life
hereafter. Don't give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife." That is my favourite part of the letter. It seems sex especially premarital sex is happening everywhere and at all ages these days.
I watched the "Half of a Yellow Sun" the other day and was utterly disappointed at what the directors and actors were portraying through the hyper-sensual scenes.
Lord have mercy on us. |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Suavestchic(f): 1:25pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Dumb Thread |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Suavestchic(f): 1:27pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
yesboss20:
..."Think about your future and life
hereafter. Don't give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife." That is my favourite part of the letter. It seems sex especially premarital sex is happening everywhere and at all ages these days.
I watched the "Half of a Yellow Sun" the other day and was utterly disappointed at what the directors and actors were portraying through the hyper-sensual scenes.
Lord have mercy on us. I've Watched That Movie And I Don't See Anything Wrong With It. All These Hyper Religious Peeps Ehn |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by abbey621(m): 1:28pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Pointless posting, seriously you've not given any new information, just same old recycled stuff. In addition, what authority do you have to tell people how to live their lives? Print your autobiography and let's see if your life is perfect, my friend I think you are just bored and looking for attention. Like most Nigerians here on Nairaland, offering advice and making the mistake of believing that one size fits all. Not all single guys want to settle down, not all single guys treat women like trash, not all single guys believe in religious sentiments. So my friend in a nutshell, life is too short, let single guys live the way they want to, live and let live! |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:33pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Maybe 2% will listen....'maybe' o...not that they even will |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by kentozybee(m): 1:34pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
abbey621:
Pointless posting, seriously you've not given any new information, just same old recycled stuff. In addition, what authority do you have to tell people how to live their lives? Print your autobiography and let's see if your life is perfect, my friend I think you are just bored and looking for attention. Like most Nigerians here on Nairaland, offering advice and making the mistake of believing that one size fits all. Not all single guys want to settle down, not all single guys treat women like trash, not all single guys believe in religious sentiments. So my friend in a nutshell, life is too short, let single guys live the way they want to, live and let live! Pls to whom is dis referred to? I hope it's Nt me |
| Re: A Letter To Single Guys by ONYEBALL: 2:33pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
kentozybee:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?
The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.
I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.
This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.
If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.
It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.
If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.
Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.
Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.
Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.
Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.
Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.
Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.
Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.
My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.
If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.
Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.
Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends in areas where necessary. I can't believe i'm reading this on nairaland.what a wonderful piece of advice!  1 Like |
