kentozybee:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?


The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.


I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.


This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.


If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.


It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.


If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.


Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.


Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.


Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.


Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.


Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.


Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.


Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.


My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.


If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.


Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.


Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends in areas where necessary.

Sorry to quote all this .... I really love all this @poster

[quote
author=SachaelMaris post=27254670] if all other guys tink dat way, 99%
of d ladies will be lesbians. d remaining 1% will b my sisters and my gf
[/quote].....lol...see ur life nah

MrCork:



.. Letter to single guys or letters to single ladies".......bro...no ooofwnse but r u g@y?


....what is goin on in that Nigeria for god sake? .... U people mennnn!

I did not see where OP made a request for a hook up with male friend. so where are u getting ur conclusion that he is a gay. his post is an advice for singles but specifically single males

kessco:
Wish I could have you speak in one of my Seminars in Empowering the future.

I'm attracted to very intelligent people.

I like this post, I like you and do keep this mindset up.

Thanks

vivalavida:
Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex.



The part of the write up above is so gay. How can you be calling tom dick and harry when your advising guys? What happend to Tina,dorathy and hannah?

it's just a phrase

simdam500:
the letter is just another counter thread towards we players

good to know where u belong so dat adjustment can be made.

Thanks fr all d appreciation towards my post God bless y'all

Sagamite:


Moderators, please can you move this senseless, moronic junk to the Religion section on NL.

anoda demented being, religion extremist

olycholy:
I can't believe a guy in this generation wrote this. God bless ur soul. I hope other guys will read n learn.

and I hope d girls will make adjustment by not telling lies to d serious guys who are ready to get marry.

A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys,how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?
The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't an easy job,I must confess! But with God n
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.
I write this letter to you to point out some things which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.
This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.First concerning how you treat ladies.I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few are not.Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.
If you know she's not going to be your wife,there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.If you think you're smart,your smartness cannot prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that would one day catch up with you.
It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance.See,life doesn't go on a stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or relatives,you need to work on yourself.
Where do you put God in your life? Consider God in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will someday run back to Him for help.If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys,love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire with premarital sex but you can choose to abstain.
Apart from it being sin against God, it will make you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear life.
Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it for your wife.
Have you discovered your purpose in life?That very reason why God has created you? Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you miserable and waste away in life.
Know your purpose in life and be on track to attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.
Watch the company of friends you keep.Are they contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities? It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand of time.
Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall.There is a button of patience to press to control your anger.
Work on your mental development.Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't become a victim of false prophets or you become a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.
My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.
If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for your unborn children, don't tread the path now.I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm constrained due to space.Don't waste away chasing every Tom,Dick and
Harry for sex.Conserve your energies and channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this letter, share it or send it to a friend.
Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends urs:Eliborn

vivalavida:
Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex.



The part of the write up above is so gay. How can you be calling tom dick and harry when your advising guys? What happend to Tina,dorathy and hannah?

I can see u have little understanding about idioms. no wonder d word "GAY" is innacted in ur memory

Fourwinds:

I can see u have little understanding about idioms. no wonder d word "GAY" is innacted in ur memory

Who is this FOOL?
If you dont understand sarcasm,then go to hell

vivalavida:


Who is this FOOL?
If you dont understand sarcasm,then go to hell

u just expose who u are with d word u typed"fool" .
when replying someone u type plainly by explaining what u mean not by insult ok. we have people who are willing to learn here. and writing maturely is part of what d man OP wants a good husband to be. he couldn't exhaust his lists of advice

Fourwinds:

u just expose who u are with d word u typed"fool" .
when replying someone u type plainly by explaining what u mean not by insult ok. we have people who are willing to learn here. and writing maturely is part of what d man OP wants a good husband to be. he couldn't exhaust his lists of advice

If you dont catch the subtle joke in a comment,just slide. It is not a must u must quote anyone

vivalavida:


If you dont catch the subtle joke in a comment,just slide. It is not a must u must quote anyone

I can accept this reply not the former.

Fourwinds:

I can accept this reply not the former.

Whatever rocks your boat

@Op, this is a great piece of letter. But where is the one for the females? Or are we not entitled to one also?.....

MrCork:



.....see yor triangle head like spear battery.....so instead of comin to look for babe like every decent guy....u came to Nairaland to watch man write love poem letter to single men.... U find this romantic?....abi?

.....does this place looook like g@y chat rooooom or g@y fishing ground to u?

Do you have anything better than this to say? Wetin u read sound like love letter? I no take you serious sha. Cos person like you no get any serious thing to tell person (both male or female). If coming to NL to look for babe makes you decent, u must a very poor sense of decency. NL - Romance section resemble dating site for ur eye? Badoo no belleful u again.

Opytim:
@Op, this is a great piece of letter. But where is the one for the females? Or are we not entitled to one also?.....

I already posted dat d link is on this thread since yesterday

www.nairaland.com/1954454/letter-single-ladies
Dats d link fr d letter written to d singles (ladies version )

These are stuffs I wish to share with my sons

Fourwinds:

good to know where u belong so dat adjustment can be made.

no time for adjustment

I tink a word is a enough 4 d'wise

Thanks For The Word. True Talk

simdam500:
no time for adjustment

ok ooo. best of luck

missyhorlah:
Pls tell 'em
Logodwhiz
Kiddablings
Harlos
Dre11
Kelvingraphics

Please come and learn from this

Story for the gods.

Hmmm, very thought provoking.

[color=#000099][/color]@OP... thanking God and you that I subscribed this month. where are the doers of this letter? don't just be a reader.
@OP....I hope you are practicing this? if no, please adjust.
youve made a lot of senses here.@OP... thanking God and you that I subscribed this month. where are the doers of this letter? don't just be a reader.
@OP....I hope you are practicing this? if no, please adjust.
youve made a lot of senses here.@OP... thanking God and you that I subscribed this month. where are the doers of this letter? don't just be a reader.
@OP....I hope you are practicing this? if no, please adjust.
youve made a lot of senses here.

kentozybee:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?


The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.


I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.


This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.


If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.


It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.


If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.


Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.


Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.


Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.


Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.


Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.


Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.


Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.


My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.


If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.


Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.


Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends in areas where necessary.

oxygen mayor speaking in me through this letter

get more of this from https://m.facebook.com/handlingrelationshipissues?fref=nf&_rdr

kentozybee:
Hmm Sure

woman wrappering

MrCork:
..but why is a man writing letter to single guys?..... No females on nairaland?

the matter tire me o...all this woman wrappering got to stop o