Baddestguyp:
op, you got me more confused than you are. I'm not even sure ur write-up is in English

marieolae:
loool

ERCROSS:
Andyblaze wife....

Busted... !!!

jokky4u:
hello nairalander,met dis man month ago,he was d asst registra of a known university,he is married wt 4 kids ,he is loving nd caring,he truly luv m.av accepted his proposal but i dont really lyk him,just of recent i met anoda guy,although he is a student in his flnal year nd am also in my final year.however av nt accepted his proposal nd he is disturbng m,i was chatting wt him yesterday nd he told m dier was dis girl dt is trying 2 hook her up but he didnt lyk d girl,its m she like shuld i still accept his proposal or i should stay wt d married man.pls i nid mature answer frm mature pple.

Baddestguyp:
woah, so you're still around, haven't seen ur posts for a while

marieolae:
hmm I am oh. Wassup wid u naa

priscaoge:



Bae still awake?

marieolae:
hmm I am oh. Wassup wid u naa

Baddestguyp:
I'm just into a lot of things, skul stuff and all

marieolae:
ok hw r ur frends..kolade femi nd ko?

Baddestguyp:
they're good, I still met gky, femi not long ago. you still in lag?

marieolae:
yh but I'm travellin soon. dnt tell nebody oo ssshh I'm going to bed later x

jokky4u:
hello nairalander,met dis man month ago,he was d asst registra of a known university,he is married wt 4 kids ,he is loving nd caring,he truly luv m.av accepted his proposal but i dont really lyk him,just of recent i met anoda guy,although he is a student in his flnal year nd am also in my final year.however av nt accepted his proposal nd he is disturbng m,i was chatting wt him yesterday nd he told m dier was dis girl dt is trying 2 hook her up but he didnt lyk d girl,its m she like shuld i still accept his proposal or i should stay wt d married man.pls i nid mature answer frm mature pple.

Ymodulus:
A lucky woman, indeed, to have two men in your life who love want to be with you and with whom you can imagine a future. Although on the face of it, the DEPUTY REGISTRAR is the representative of more mature and lasting love, while the FINAL YEAR STUDENT has the advantage of being the one who makes your heart swoon. Neither would be a bad choice – as long as you committed to the choice you made.

However — I don’t think your problem is who to choose. It sounds like your could be happy with either. The problem as I see it is that you are very scared to make any choice at all. By staying ambivalent and by thinking about the charms of these two men as different but equal, you forestall making any decision. If you delay long enough, one of these guys is going to give up. Then you will have to choose between the one who stayed or no choice at all. Meanwhile, you are being dishonest with both. When either of them finds out about the other, that may decide the issue for you as well.

The common denominator of these possibilities is the result: You avoid making an active choice and taking responsibility for it. Please don’t hear this as a scold. It’s not. It’s intended to provoke you to do some thinking about just what you are doing. I wonder why you are so reluctant to choose. I wonder why taking responsibility for the course of your life makes you stop in your tracks. What has happened in your life that you have reached your 30s so scared of commitment that you let yourself deceive good men who love you?

You could make good use of some sessions with a sympathetic empathetic counselor (MIZMYCOLI) who would push you to be honest with yourself.


I wish you well.

Ymodulus, for this, I love you and I'm proud of you.

For making known your points, without resorting to insults nor scarring nor brow beating, as is the attitude of some.

That's the spirit.

Now lemme goan read the OP



*modified*

Ymodulus, thank you for not throwing Jabs at her, honestly this story triggered a rage of sorts within me. But I will try to be calm.


Jokky4u, why dating a married man, with four children, why?
Is it a right thing to do?

Looks like you haven't quite sad down to take a cursory look at yourself, what you want and what you don't.

Honestly, I give up.

Ymodulus has spoken in a manner, any sensible lady would ascribe to.

It's now your call.

#SMH

jokky4u:
hello nairalander,met dis man month ago,he was d asst registra of a known university,he is married wt 4 kids ,he is loving nd caring,he truly luv m.av accepted his proposal but i dont really lyk him,just of recent i met anoda guy,although he is a student in his flnal year nd am also in my final year.however av nt accepted his proposal nd he is disturbng m,i was chatting wt him yesterday nd he told m dier was dis girl dt is trying 2 hook her up but he didnt lyk d girl,its m she like shuld i still accept his proposal or i should stay wt d married man.pls i nid mature answer frm mature pple.

jokky4u:
hello nairalander,met dis man month ago,he was d asst registra of a known university,he is married wt 4 kids ,he is loving nd caring,he truly luv m.av accepted his proposal but i dont really lyk him,just of recent i met anoda guy,although he is a student in his flnal year nd am also in my final year.however av nt accepted his proposal nd he is disturbng m,i was chatting wt him yesterday nd he told m dier was dis girl dt is trying 2 hook her up but he didnt lyk d girl,its m she like shuld i still accept his proposal or i should stay wt d married man.pls i nid mature answer frm mature pple.