I have observed different things of resent about distance among singles and the crying for suitors, the lack or unavailability of it, even when the streets is full of them. It seem the gaps are as wide as close as they actually are. This post however is the mature guys aspect. You will agree with me or perhaps you have observed that, unlike the younger bachelors who are still naive, mature single guys are more critical about ladies when they eventually want to settle down, they are no longer looking out only for the most so called beautiful ladies with all the physical attributes, but women with extra qualities beyond what young fox look out for. You will agree with me that even guys that have gotten it all successes and what have you, are still cut up in the web of been critical when it comes to marriage. Why do you think it mature guys becomes more critical? Open to guys and girls alike

Clears throat

dyttt:
Clears throat

Hello deary

@OP
That's mostly because a lot of people are not realistic about their expectations & the rest don't even know what they want

Oxone:


Hello deary

do you mean Lords chosen?

Mclick:
I have observed different things of resent about distance among singles and the crying for suitors, the lack or unavailability of it, even when the streets is full of them. It seem the gaps are as wide as close as they actually are. This post however is the mature guys aspect. You will agree with me or perhaps you have observed that, unlike the younger bachelors who are still naive, mature single guys are more critical about ladies when they eventually want to settle down, they are no longer looking out only for the most so called beautiful ladies with all the physical attributes, but women with extra qualities beyond what young fox look out for. You will agree with me that even guys that have gotten it all successes and what have you, are still cut up in the web of been critical when it comes to marriage. Why do you think it mature guys becomes more critical? Open to guys and girls alike

Bros,it's not easy.
The older u get,
-the more money u earn
- the more devilish girls will smile at u pretending to be angels
- the more examples of failed marriages you witness
-the more u realise that beauty without brains and character is worthless and
- the more u realise how fv.ckd u will be as a man if u marry the wrong woman.

I no dey rush into marriage. I'm taking my time.

sexylogan:


Bros,it's not easy.
The older u get,
-the more money u earn
- the more devilish girls will smile at u pretending to be angels
- the more examples of failed marriages you witness
-the more u realise that beauty without brains and character is worthless and
- the more u realise how fv.ckd u will be as a man if u marry the wrong woman.

I no dey rush into marriage. I'm taking my time.

sexylogan:


Bros,it's not easy.
The older u get,
-the more money u earn
- the more devilish girls will smile at u pretending to be angels
- the more examples of failed marriages you witness
-the more u realise that beauty without brains and character is worthless and
- the more u realise how fv.ckd u will be as a man if u marry the wrong woman.

I no dey rush into marriage. I'm taking my time.

haaaaaaaa just got me thinking, even amidst numerous single ladies, mature guys finds it difficult. But really is it that been over critical, because in the end, you have to make a choice, or the good ones are taken

adepiero:
do you mean Lords chosen?

Oxone:


Hello deary

@OP
That's mostly because a lot of people are not realistic about their expectations & the rest don't even know what they want

explain so people can learn. You could have valid points that will save someone some time you know

Op, did you read this thread?. » Two Years In Marriage : The Feeling , The Realization And Surprise« ... Here's the link

www.nairaland.com/1952016/two-years-marriage-feeling-realization

Try to read it

passionate88:
Op, did you read this thread?. » Two Years In Marriage : The Feeling , The Realization And Surprise« ... Here's the link Try to read it

I think I did

When u see the rate marriages are crashing. It makes one paranoid of the lady he really needs as you know women can be all you want before marriage then when she thinks she has settled, here comes her true color.

The thought of making that mistake and taking that " till death do us apart" oath is scarier than "no escape in Sobibor"

Besides why rush to make a mistake when you know its a forever thingy... better be Critical or end up with a Joker.