wroskian:

Fear of feminists is the beginning of wisdom for any man who wants a peaceful home

davide470:
I like the bolded..

Am good dear. Hope your day wasn't stressful.?

tolutweety:
#My 2 cent
I am scarce.
If you must find me,you must dig well.

naanxie:


What's so scary about feminism that you guys are running from it??

According to Wikipedia: 'Feminism is a range of movements and
ideologies that share a common goal: to
define, establish, and achieve equal political-
equal economic, cultural, personal, and social rights
for women. This includes seeking to
establish equal opportunities for women in
education and employment. A feminist
advocates or supports the rights and equality
of women.'

That doesn't sound so scary to me :-/

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My day was filled with mixed emotions.

tolutweety:
#My 2 cent I am scarce. If you must find me,you must dig well.

Prinzofparis:


Lol,..no one said 'husbands are not scarce'......


Sugbon, WIVES ARE SCARCE SHAAA


Lol been a while I played online. You girls are cool.

naanxie:

'Feminism is a range of movements and
ideologies that share a common goal: to
define, establish, and achieve equal political,
economic, cultural, personal, and social rights
for women. This includes seeking to
establish equal opportunities for women in
education and employment. A feminist
advocates or supports the rights and equality
of women.'

That doesn't sound so scary to me :-/

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My day was filled with mixed emotions.

I have chosen to no longer be apologetic for my
femaleness and my femininity. And I want to be
respected in all of my femaleness because I demand to be.

We teach girls shame. “Close your legs. Cover yourself.” We make them feel as though being born female they’re already guilty of something. And so, girls
grow up to be women who cannot say they have desire. They grow up to be women who silence themselves. They grow up to be women who cannot say what they truly think. And they grow up — and this is the worst thing we do to girls — they grow up to be women who have turned pretense into an art form.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, We Should All Be Feminists

naanxie:

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My day was filled with mixed emotions.

wroskian:

Fear of feminists is the beginning of wisdom for any man who wants a peaceful home

Prinzofparis:

Lol.
Fear is an understatement.

wroskian:


The truth is as there's neither a perfect man nor perfect lady out there as most of us inadvertently crave,there's no marriage devoid of challenges and frictions, but with mutual trust, understanding and God factor, the home could still be a haven.
The key to marital bliss is to match style with ambition while still searching, in other words developing good character and hanging out with folks of like minds because like dissolves like.

XtraSmooth404:

blesseenE:
Mmm... Nice, boys are becoming MEN

MizMyColi:
Hello House!
Hi Jamean!!!
Thanks for the mention.
I didn't quite notice on time
Good Evening.

MarvellousGod:
Same way fear of traditional men/master-slave marriage is for women

Prinzofparis:


Hmmmmmm....in Nigeria; in our African home; in our christian home- any woman who is seeking the bolded is looking for trouble in the long run.
She better marry an extremely 'Loyal guy'.

wroskian:

You know what? Men who treat their wives like slaves all in the name of "Head of the family" are uncivilized (I'm sorry if dats harsh). But, feminists for house? na for everything she go dey claim right . I think feminists deserve traditional men, maybe that would make them submissive

cutetonye009:

You have a point tho...
But there are general weaknesses that we men can't tolerate., such as pride and lies. I say these, because these weakness ain't adjustable..
I can deal with a bad cook, low/poor bedroom activist et al, but pride is a "no no" for me.

davide470:
Aww.. what happened in it?

Prinzofparis:

Tolu!!!....long time....we need to relate off here.

cutetonye009:

I can deal with a bad cook, low/poor bedroom activist et al, but pride is a "no no" for me.

Hollabesea:
Hi

naanxie:


So if we changed settings and location, then you will be okay with it??

FYI, I'm not here to drag issues. I just really want to understand why it scares you guys. Being a feminist doesn't stop me from being a woman and expressing myself in that light( my personal view.)

Truth is, things are changing, rapidly. If I understand correctly, I believe what they seek is equal understanding, equal rights, equal opportunities. I fail to see how advocating for these rights stops me from being the ' supportive woman and wife' in my home.

Forgive my post, my thoughts are scattered.

wroskian:


The truth is as there's neither a perfect man nor perfect lady out there as most of us inadvertently crave,there's no marriage devoid of challenges and frictions, but with mutual trust, understanding and God factor, the home could still be a haven.
The key to marital bliss is to match style with ambition while still searching, in other words developing good character and hanging out with folks of like minds because like dissolves like.

Lero15:
Please, who's next to marry na
Make una marry. No one is perfect.

WORD !!!

Enought of these talks .
Find each other on this thread and hook up #Gbam

davide470:

In as much as I love and respect my lady, if she decides to follow and demand the quoted, then husband and wives are many in Nigeria.

tolutweety:

We sure do,prinze .
I see all your activities too.decided to keep low to wait for the rainy day.

Lero15:


And blesseenE is becoming madam

tolutweety:

WORD !!!

Enought of these talks .
Find each other on this thread and hook up #Gbam

cutetonye009:


[b]Nobody is dragging with anybody[\b] ... We are here to learn from one another..

Prinzofparis:

You and this your crayon!!!
Agbaya!!!

My Associated mail is inactive...how do I contact?

Mail : tolutweety@ymail.com
Whatsapp : (pls no flashing or night calls )

Lero15:


I don't even know why I am quoting you

It's brotherly loff