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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:07pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Well, the girl wasn't sensible. She should have told her sister that the work was too much, and not told the man. As for the man, that's for another day. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by cococandy(f): 1:08pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Strong and sensible opinion? Ok I've heard you. I hope that settles it TribalEAST: |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:16pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05:you just gotta enjoy this guy's comment. These feminists are just plain foolish and wicked. Just cos she differs in opinion with hers, she decided to dig around just to find something to use against her. Smh! That's why debates with carefreewannabe never ends; she veers off topic and takes you through a merry go round till you start sensing you've lost direction, a feeling she terms as victory on her part. 3 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:18pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
TribalEAST: I didn't bring envy in families into the discussion. 4 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 1:20pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:You are right on this but this lady is just a victim of circumstance and you trying to rub it in her face is not fair. I am happy for her, despite all the competition and envy in her family, she turned out really fine and thats something only few people can achieve. She went from being a victim to a victrix so step back and stop what you trying to do to her. Again, its not fair. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 1:22pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:How would I when you find it difficult to ignore me, huh? |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:23pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Amelian: why will i remove my eyes when i was the one supporting you during that crisis. Is that how you treat a sister . Anyway, make sure its not lagos marriage, if not. meanwhile, your pics is scattered all over nairaland by you. are you not the yellow sisi, with a fashion shop |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:23pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:you made it a subject when you pulled it from her comment with its subtle nature and blew it beyond proportion. 3 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:25pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
TribalEAST: everything here, you find a way to turn it into gender war, dont you people get tired ni i don talk my own, talk your own then move on. ah ah. na wah 5 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:26pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: I don't consider her a victim because she was born into a polygamous home. I have a problem with this mindset "My mother was better than the other wives." Either you marry into a polygamous home and consider the other wives your family or you better stay out of it. And as a child from a polygamous home, you better learn to show more respect to the mothers of your half-siblings. Are you a family or not? What now? I am happy for her, despite all the competition and envy in her family, she turned out really fine and thats something only few people can achieve. She went from being a victim to a victrix so step back and stop what you trying to do to her. Again, its not fair. Maybe she turned out just fine, maybe not. I don't know. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:28pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
TribalEAST: Nothing was subtle about it. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:36pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:it was subtle cos it was just chipped into her comment and not the topic nor the main body, but you singled that little line out and sat on it like it's a new thread. Go back and check the amount of posts you've had over the issue. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:37pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
TribalEAST: And your point is? 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 1:40pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Am I a family?, really carefree? What if, just what if her mother was indeed a better wife to her father?, oh please stop acting like you know her story. You know nothing about her and her family so you have no right to condemn or chastise her on whatever it is she say about her family. And yes publicly or publicly. 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 1:43pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Lay off her. Trying to ridicule her for some cheap browny point is very low of you. And to think you doing all that just cause she got a differing opinion to yours. 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:44pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: I wasn't talking about you. What if, just what if her mother was indeed a better wife to her father?, oh please stop acting like you know her story. You know nothing about her and her family so you have no right to condemn or chastise her on whatever it is she say about her family. And yes publicly or publicly. I am not acting like I know her story, I am only referring to what she chose to share with us. Is it a crime? 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 1:47pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:YES |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:48pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: Or else? Trying to ridicule her for some cheap browny point is very low of you. And to think you doing all that just cause she got a differing opinion to yours. Yeah, I really think it is ridiculous from someone from a polygamous family to come online and to tell everyone, who cares, how her mother was so much better than the mothers of her other siblings. My family is a unity, not a war zone so I find her message quite disturbing. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:49pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: Then call the police. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 1:51pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Then call a police. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:51pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: Why, is it a crime? |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 1:53pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:If her post is disturbing you in anyway then YES its a crime. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:54pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: Then call the police. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 1:56pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:I will if that will help you find peace. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:58pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: I have a lot of peace. My mama did not have to compete against other wives to get daddy's love. Neither will I have to endure such stress. 3 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by UjSizzle(f): 2:03pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Very entertaining section on a hot day My only problem with this young girl is the level of her confusion. If you think men should help out in the home, then he should do so irrespective of his employment status. If you think he shouldn't, same goes. But to wake up one morning and decide he must help because now he's unemployed? even though he's proven to be capable in keeping his own end of providing finances. Anyway, I think men should help out when they can (and make out time even when they think they can't sef). It's hard juggling work and house chores and feels bad when the men are lounging around doing nothing. Is this even a feminist thing? 4 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 2:08pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Oh miss carefree, miss-i-have-a-perfectlife-and-a-perfectfamily. Now, clap for yourself. I'm sure many people on here dont think you have peace, now thats something to worry about. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 2:10pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: MOST PEOPLE HERE ARE RE*TARDS. I am happy those re*tards think something is wrong with me and my life. It actually means that everything is ok. 4 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 2:20pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 2:21pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:It cant be luck all these "retards" think the same thing of you, maybe you should go sit somewhere quiet and do some re-evaluation about your life. Think about it. 3 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 2:22pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: It is not luck, it is collective backwardness. 4 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 2:24pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: Yeah yeah yeah, now you all defend her family because you like her opinion but when she insulted the family of the person she described, nobody mentioned anything. 3 Likes |
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