uchdollar111:
Ok, I'm Uche I hail from Abia State. I've been in a relationship with this pretty girl since January I just graduated from the Uni waiting for my NYSC and currently, I don't have a paid job and can't cope with all that, and she knows that, but she keeps on telling me to buckle up,buy her things, make-up, phone etc. show her care, take her out, unless I'll loose her
She tells me that a guy should buy things for his girlfriend and that women love surprises. I've been thinking what I'm not doing right. I call her at least 3 times a week and send her texts regularly. On her part, I can't even remember the last time she called me now when I confronted her about it, she told that it's her habit that she does'nt call, that it is the men in her life that does the calling, I still love this girl, now I'm thinking what should I do?

boxer022:

Uche my brother I feel your pain. Your girlfriend is the material type of girl, who expect her boyfriend to do everything for her. The fact that she told you that it is your duty as her guy to buy her things knowing your present predicament shows that she might be planning of moving out of the relationship because to her you cannot take care of her. I am sure either her friends that are dating rich guys who bought them things may be advicing her to forget about you or another guy is sweet talking her into dating him. I know you really love this girl and all thing been equal you will like to take your relationship to the next level. I believe what you can do is either get a job so as to be able to take care of her or let her go and face your life alone till you find the right person. Your girlfriend is not in that relationship for love but rather for lust and things she can get from it.

uchdollar111:

Thanks bro, but I'm not a person who will get a job just to take care of a girl, I'm not a maga bro, I use my head.

uchdollar111:
Ok, I'm Uche I hail from Abia State. I've been in a relationship with this pretty girl since January I just graduated from the Uni waiting for my NYSC and currently, I don't have a paid job and can't cope with all that, and she knows that, but she keeps on telling me to buckle up,buy her things, make-up, phone etc. show her care, take her out, unless I'll loose her
She tells me that a guy should buy things for his girlfriend and that women love surprises. I've been thinking what I'm not doing right. I call her at least 3 times a week and send her texts regularly. On her part, I can't even remember the last time she called me now when I confronted her about it, she told that it's her habit that she does'nt call, that it is the men in her life that does the calling, I still love this girl, now I'm thinking what should I do?

adepiero:
Emancipate yourself from mental slavery. your girl is a gold digger #NoOffense

She loves material possession and not the bearer. if you give her a penny then you have successfully opened a no refund savings account. even your #19800 no go reach you to spend.

The truth is that you don't love her, you are just weakened by emotion. Guy look ahead, NYSC is waiting for you! many fishes abound

Good luck

uchdollar111:

Thanks bro, but I'm not a person who will get a job just to take care of a girl, I'm not a maga bro, I use my head.

ammyluv2002:
chancing in progress..........some rich dude wan chance you

uchdollar111:

Bro I reason that way some times, I feel like it is emotions playing tricks on me. Today has been one of my worse days in a long time, at this point, I feel like telling her to go and find those her rich dudes who will buy her the whole world and leave little me alone to arrange my life for the brighter future.

If you reason that way, its better you start acting it too! don't breakup with her, just let the relationship die by avoiding communications. e go pain her die

uchdollar111:
Ok, I'm Uche I hail from Abia State. I've been in a relationship with this pretty girl since January I just graduated from the Uni waiting for my NYSC and currently, I don't have a paid job and can't cope with all that, and she knows that, but she keeps on telling me to buckle up,buy her things, make-up, phone etc. show her care, take her out, unless I'll loose her
She tells me that a guy should buy things for his girlfriend and that women love surprises. I've been thinking what I'm not doing right. I call her at least 3 times a week and send her texts regularly. On her part, I can't even remember the last time she called me now when I confronted her about it, she told that it's her habit that she does'nt call, that it is the men in her life that does the calling, I still love this girl, now I'm thinking what should I do?