manutdadex:
not to dat extend...kids are like lame leg,u can hardly av control ova dem and dey wont understnd u dat much wen u start to explain,at dat moment dey will understnd u ,jst some mins latr dey are back to wat u scolded dem for...but cain na like constant reminder

MovingMax:
. Bros, ar u against the teachings in the holy books.Our problem is, we are confuse on which culture to raise our children. Some people that believe in western culture while abode in Nigeria will say is wrong to beat a child.spare the rod and spoil ur child. Pls beating the child when he\she do wrong & living examplary live worthy of emulation by ur children is the best way of raising a child. Do not swallow hook,line & sinker the western child right act because its paining them now

mirexxx:
the rod doesn't mean flogging alone na, there r oda ways u can discipline a child. if am grounded 4 an hour,without my gadgets n locked in my room chaii i give up on dat strong head o. beating kids sha. dey dont 4get it o and might hate u sef

tete7000:


My brother pain is part of life. We can't live in this life without undergoing one pain or the other. When pain is paired with a stimuli, you get a properly conditioned response. When a child recognises doing a particular stupid action, brings him/her pain then the child learns to avoid such stupid action. That's the logic behind discipline and reward. You punish (inflict pain on the offender for) wrong behaviours while you reward good behaviour.
Why should anyone be afraid to inflict pain on a silly and recalcitrant child. The bible says 'in the heart of a child is stored up folly, it's the rod of correction that drives it away'. Beat your child while he/she can still take correction or you spend your old age regretting when they won't mind inflicting on you the pain you are afraid of inflicting on them now.

Gbaskybabe:
when a child does something wrong and you say "hay leave that place" the child has the tendency of going back there because there was nothing to back up the shouting.but a little spanking will remind the child that you mean business when you said she should leave the place

FlyboyZee:

At what age would that begin to work? Bone that yarn, children wey dem no beat in my days all the behave like morrons, foools and iddiots now wey we all don become men and women with children. Bone all these your oyibo ish. My children no dey try nonsense where I dey, but dem dey use their mama do boju boju because she no dey beat dem, me I dey beat very well to treat their F' ups. Crying does not kill a child, it has never killed a child and it won't start killing a child now.

If you spare the rod for the child wetin you wan use the spared rod do? Just asking anyways...

Peterken05:


my boss, i know pain is part of life, what i'm saying is that inflicting pain on children is pure abuse.

I know it contradicts with your bible, but lets look at it from this perspective. Can a child reach his/her full potential in an environment where beating, tongue lashing is the best thing to do when a child misbehave.

Can a child develop confidence,courage, self esteem if he/she is always in fear?

Have you ever asked why the child is silly or irecalcitrant?

About the bible part, what about other part that says kill your rebellious son?

iconize:


The fagggot was even talking about kids, as if he can make babies with his fagggot biatch.

Tell us, what do you know about reproduction, you incestuous homo?

Is this not your homo partner professing love to you.

iconize:


The fagggot was even talking about kids, as if he can make babies with his fagggot biatch.

Tell us, what do you know about reproduction, you incestuous homo?

Is this not your homo partner professing love to you.

Sagamite:


Homofuuktard, is that not your homosexual community?

maonkz:


Leave saga alone. I love him

Sagamite:


Homofuuktard, are you not a product of a failed education system?

Homofuuktard, is he not from your homosexual community?

maonkz:


Leave saga alone. I love him

julisa2020:
its dicipline...but when it gets to a certain extent,it becomes abuse...e.g...regular beating of kids at every wrong done dose not always says dicipline...because at a certain stage,beating might become used to the child...so..at times its advisable to use other methods like;tongue lashing and punishments

Peterken05:
it is pure abuse, why would inflict pain on your child and be happy about it. Thats psycho. Most people beat their children because the holy books say so.

Riclord001:

i hope u won't be beating dem becos u were beaten

ShakurM:
Agreeably, differences dey in some pikins sha.

DaBullIT:
Honest answer

Scolding and flogging is African way of life. Unless you gave birth to half casts or your marry oyinbo. Flog Pikin when wife no dey. Apart from making then obedient. It makes your kids scared of you. . Easiest solution talk to your wife make her consent to normal flogging but play good cop bad cop. Daddy flings mummy begs. But a solid point has been passed across

zeroshadow:
A form of inflicting fear....

fr3do:



so you think it is happiness that is in the mind of a loving african parent when they discipline their children?

iconize:


Faggotm_oron, how can he be from my community? In my community, men don't wear diapers.

He professed love to you, asking me to stop beating you.

manutdadex:
i wud beat my kids!! because i was beaten and it helpd me...

manutdadex:
i wud beat my kids!! because i was beaten and it helpd me...

Sagamite:


Homofuuktard, your community seems to be standing up for you.

You are part of the homosexual brotherhood.

manutdadex:
i wud beat my kids!! because i was beaten and it helpd me...