This is from a friend and i'm @ loss as per what to advice her thats why i decided to share with us here because i know we've got some awesome relationship counsellors in this section


she just broke up her relationship because of some reasons that i am not permitted to share here. There is this guy that has been begging her for a relationship for over a year. Having ended her first relationship, she decided to go out with this other guy that have been pestering her for a long time.

Barely two weeks into the new relationship, she found out that her new boyfriend has another serious relationship with another lady. Funny enough, she is already falling for him and she is hurting real bad now.

I dunno what to tell her because if i ask her to stay, she will be smarting from the realization and if i ask her to walk away she will stil be hurt because she already loves him



members of the nairaland romance section. Pls help me out. Whats your advice

Its simple..... Leave!!!

Na so the love dey quick?

I don't believe the girl is so deeply in love just after two weeks, she is just afraid of being alone.

She should leave the two love birds alone. IMO

Walk away and don't look back

Hmm,bt your frnd is funny o,she expects a guy dat has been begging r 4love for over a year to stil remain single nd nt 2 be in a serious relationship.my advice 4 r is to face reality.she should b responsible 4 her own happiness no mata wat happened to r in the past.she shuld quit the relationship d earlier the beta,because this same guy wil nd i mean wil neva leave his gal 4 ur frnd.yes it mite hurt r but it's beta it hurts now that d rlshp is jst starting then leta wen she is madly in love.in conclusion,she shuld 4get abt rlshp 4 nw and direct her energy into something else that gives r satisfaction.rlshp is nt abt hook up today brk up tomorrow.

sorry girl, but in this situation, it doesnt seem like hes any more than a player. he's trying to be with her and his current gf, and this isnt good for either one of them. she shud just tell him she cant see him any more and move on.

i know, alot easier said than done, but its easier to break everything off with him than deal with the drama thats heading your way

Mprex:
This is from a friend and i'm @ loss as per what to advice her thats why i decided to share with us here because i know we've got some awesome relationship counsellors in this section


she just broke up her relationship because of some reasons that i am not permitted to share here. There is this guy that has been begging her for a relationship for over a year. Having ended her first relationship, she decided to go out with this other guy that have been pestering her for a long time.

Barely two weeks into the new relationship, she found out that her new boyfriend has another serious relationship with another lady. Funny enough, she is already falling for him and she is hurting real bad now.

I dunno what to tell her because if i ask her to stay, she will be smarting from the realization and if i ask her to walk away she will stil be hurt because she already loves him



members of the nairaland romance section. Pls help me out. Whats your advice

the guy has been pestering her for a relationship over a year
probably the guy was not in any relationship as of then
now she still expect to meet the guy single

the only thing I see is the guy taking advantage of her crashed relationship to fucckk her pussyy

The reason she ended her previous relationship was because she wanted to give the new guy a chance.












Yes

Emotion is a lady's greatest enemy...Not knowing how and when to unleash it to whom and when, puts sets her on a pedestal of incessant and unnecessary heartbreaks...SMH

Mprex:
This is from a friend and i'm @ loss as per what to advice her thats why i decided to share with us here because i know we've got some awesome relationship counsellors in this section


she just broke up her relationship because of some reasons that i am not permitted to share here. There is this guy that has been begging her for a relationship for over a year. Having ended her first relationship, she decided to go out with this other guy that have been pestering her for a long time.

Barely two weeks into the new relationship, she found out that her new boyfriend has another serious relationship with another lady. Funny enough, she is already falling for him and she is hurting real bad now.

I dunno what to tell her because if i ask her to stay, she will be smarting from the realization and if i ask her to walk away she will stil be hurt because she already loves him



members of the nairaland romance section. Pls help me out. Whats your advice

Is it mandatory to be in a relationship? So she broke up with a friend and had to go into another. Fish brains

Emotion is a lady's greatest enemy...Not knowing how and when to unleash it to whom and when, sets her on a pedestal of incessant and unnecessary heartbreaks...SMH
My Candid Advice: Is what she knows in her heart is right for her joy, health and career.
Fall in love koor? She better expose herself to books on love, sex and dating so the eyes of her understanding can be enlightened.

Abbey2sam:


the guy has been pestering her for a relationship over a year
probably the guy was not in any relationship as of then
now she still expect to meet the guy single

the only thing I see is the guy taking advantage of her crashed relationship to fucckk her pussyy

to the very best of my knowledge, they havent had sex yet because the guy is @ uyo while my friend is @ Abuja. Moreover, the source that informed her about the other lady said that according to him, he doesnt joke with that lady because she helped him fix some bills back then in school and its over two years he graduated from school. Which means that he had this lady before he started asking her out

Shupid girls be claiming love anyhow,must you date someone?

mecussey:


Is it mandatory to be in a relationship? So she broke up with a friend and had to go into another. Fish brains

is it mandatory to comment

Tallesty1:
The reason she ended her previous relationship was because she wanted to give the new guy a chance.












Yes

no moreover, the guy aint new. Its over a year

Mprex:

is it mandatory to comment

Now I know you are the victim. After breaking up with this one, take sometime off relationship and enjoy single hood. You should be able to make yourself happy without a guy otherwise, you will never find peace in life

mecussey:


Now I know you are the victim. After breaking up with this one, take sometime off relationship and enjoy single hood. You should be able to make yourself happy without a guy otherwise, you will never find peace in life

awwww. Sorry to disappoint. If i were to be the victim, i wouldnt hesitate to mention it in my post. Nobody will beat me for doing that okay?

Mprex:
This is from a friend and i'm @ loss as per what to advice her thats why i decided to share with us here because i know we've got some awesome relationship counsellors in this section


she just broke up her relationship because of some reasons that i am not permitted to share here. There is this guy that has been begging her for a relationship for over a year. Having ended her first relationship, she decided to go out with this other guy that have been pestering her for a long time.

Barely two weeks into the new relationship, she found out that her new boyfriend has another serious relationship with another lady. Funny enough, she is already falling for him and she is hurting real bad now.

I dunno what to tell her because if i ask her to stay, she will be smarting from the realization and if i ask her to walk away she will stil be hurt because she already loves him



members of the nairaland romance section. Pls help me out. Whats your advice

I will be sincere with you, your friend who for whatever reasons known to her broke up with the guy who loves her sand was in a serious relationship with her because another nigga was sweet tonguing her to give him a chance in her occupied heart made a very nasty mistake. Before leaving her other relationship ( ie if she should have left in the first place) she would have carried out an investigation so as to know the present relationship status of the other nigga that was pestering her. I am sure that is she did that, she would have found out that the nigga was only trying to get a tad the of her. Talking about love for the nigga that deceived her, is she trying to say that she never loved her other guy she was in a relationship with, because love does not just fine and resurrect. If she loved her other guy then whatever she must be feeling for this nigga should be lust and not love. I sincerely advice her to forget about that nigga and either make up with her other love or face her life alone. Simpe

almacherish:
Its simple..... Leave!!!

you fine o

lymelyte:
Na so the love dey quick?

no mind her na God punish am,she thought all that glitters...it obvious she broke up with her ex because this new guy but little did she know that the grass is always greener when viewed from afar!

Tallesty1:
The reason she ended her previous relationship was because she wanted to give the new guy a chance.












Yes

exactly?

mecussey:


Is it mandatory to be in a relationship? So she broke up with a friend and had to go into another. Fish brains

lol

Tabh:
Shupid girls be claiming love anyhow,must you date someone?

I wonder

boxer022:
I will be sincere with you, your friend who for whatever reasons known to her broke up with the guy who loves her sand was in a serious relationship with her because another nigga was sweet tonguing her to give him a chance in her occupied heart made a very nasty mistake. Before leaving her other relationship ( ie if she should have left in the first place) she would have carried out an investigation so as to know the present relationship status of the other nigga that was pestering her. I am sure that is she did that, she would have found out that the nigga was only trying to get a tad the of her. Talking about love for the nigga that deceived her, is she trying to say that she never loved her other guy she was in a relationship with, because love does not just fine and resurrect. If she loved her other guy then whatever she must be feeling for this nigga should be lust and not love. I sincerely advice her to forget about that nigga and either make up with her other love or face her life alone. Simpe

shame won't let her makeup with her ex,you know how ladies behaves if they want to breakup with someone,so she is falling for this new guy cos he was all her only hope and she can't afford to loose both,I'm sure she now regrets leaving her ex...c`est la vie!

Tnk u o

Youngpo413:
you fine o

madame op, this dilemma happened to you or your friend and how do you know they haven't had sex.

Sometimes, is more reasonable to take the pain 1ce and for all time. I'll advice her to take the pain now... Walk out now!!!

Abbey2sam:


the guy has been pestering her for a relationship over a year
probably the guy was not in any relationship as of then
now she still expect to meet the guy single

the only thing I see is the guy taking advantage of her crashed relationship to fucckk her pussyy

lol...not all that glitters are gold

mecussey:


Is it mandatory to be in a relationship? So she broke up with a friend and had to go into another. Fish brains

ladies cant stay without relationship,its a crime for their pusy to rest,it needs to digged,serviced and fuccccked every now and then...besides they are called fish brains for nothing.

Tabh:
Shupid girls be claiming love anyhow,must you date someone?

lmao

almacherish:
Its simple..... Leave!!!

I concur, Love comes in various packages