Ploy:
I know this is childish but I really need your view on it. If you can't help but to insult, make it bearable.

I met this girl about three years ago but then I was into a serious relationship. I never mind her, despite the fact that I was infatuated to her then. I believed it will phase out with time.

Unfortunately, I lost my babe to ''a more committed person'', in her words. And I have never talked to this new girl. I always stare, without a Hi or Hello.

Now I need her like never before, but I feel stupid because how do I tell someone I stared at for about three years that I love her?

Ploy:
I know this is childish but I really need your view on it. If you can't help but to insult, make it bearable.

I met this girl about three years ago but then I was into a serious relationship. I never mind her, despite the fact that I was infatuated to her then. I believed it will phase out with time.

Unfortunately, I lost my babe to ''a more committed person'', in her words. And I have never talked to this new girl. I always stare, without a Hi or Hello.

Now I need her like never before, but I feel stupid because how do I tell someone I stared at for about three years that I love her?

Emmysteve:
And this post should call for insults you think? See how we Nigerian have degraded ourselves.

Ploy:
I know this is childish but I really need your view on it. If you can't help but to insult, make it bearable.

I met this girl about three years ago but then I was into a serious relationship. I never mind her, despite the fact that I was infatuated to her then. I believed it will phase out with time.

Unfortunately, I lost my babe to ''a more committed person'', in her words. And I have never talked to this new girl. I always stare, without a Hi or Hello.

Now I need her like never before, but I feel stupid because how do I tell someone I stared at for about three years that I love her?

Elantracey:
I have someone like you in my dept right now n I always feel like giving him a hot slap whenever I catch him staring at me , what stops you from talking to her and at least be a friend for the past three years ?

Ploy:
@Mprex, I really appreciate your contribution, thank you so much.

@kaeboy, not only number address, thank you anyway.

Elantracey:
I have someone like you in my dept right now n I always feel like giving him a hot slap whenever I catch him staring at me , what stops you from talking to her and at least be a friend for the past three years ?

Begonia:
Why would you think we'd insult you? There's nothing wrong with your post. In fact, this is an insult to all sensible nairalanders.. lol
@topic; you don't love her. It's not possible to love a girl you know nothing about. Too many Nigerian guys have abused the word 'love' way too much. I really don't get why chatting her up is a big deal. You don't have to tell her 'you've been staring at her for three years'. That could even creep her out if she never noticed you. If she's single and you're ready to date again, go for it. Dealing with regrets can be nasty..

Mprex:

Ploy:


Mprex I enjoyed your encouragement but there is something I still don't understand in her reaction. I couldn't pin down yesterday because of her unit in the church. She left when I was still attending to somethings.

I eventually got her number from a lady who may tell her I did. When I called her she picked but didn't talk. I was just talking like radio, this made me presume the network was bad. I decided to text her, which I did. Since, she got the text, she stopped picking my calls completely. Seriously, I need your opinion, I don't want to come of as a desperate jack

Mprex:

there are a lot of possibilities:
-maybe she saw it coming, considering the fact that she knows you have been staring @ her for a long time and she just wanna play the hard to get game

-maybe the lady you got her number from is a jerk that told her something negative

-maybe she is been very cautious considering the fact that you guys attend the same church.

But what ever the case, its not too late to make ammends. Talk to her when next you see her in church with a free mindset. Tell her you were just calling to apologize for getting her number from someone else instead of her.
Tell her you just wanna be friends. Start from there. Let things escalate @ a steady pace. There is no rush. Another important thing is this, dont avoid her in church.. This might give her a wrong notion about you.


Goodluck.
sorry for the looooonnnng epistle
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Mprex:

there are a lot of possibilities:
-maybe she saw it coming, considering the fact that she knows you have been staring @ her for a long time and she just wanna play the hard to get game

-maybe the lady you got her number from is a jerk that told her something negative

-maybe she is been very cautious considering the fact that you guys attend the same church.

But what ever the case, its not too late to make ammends. Talk to her when next you see her in church with a free mindset. Tell her you were just calling to apologize for getting her number from someone else instead of her.
Tell her you just wanna be friends. Start from there. Let things escalate @ a steady pace. There is no rush. Another important thing is this, dont avoid her in church.. This might give her a wrong notion about you.


Goodluck.
sorry for the looooonnnng epistle
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mesoade:
And some people will say there are no sensible peeps on NL romance section.

Mprex:
Psychologically, a crush is meant to last for a maximum of four months, anything that exceeds that could be love.








Op, you have been staring @ this lady for three complete years and you still call it a crush

Elantracey:
I have someone like you in my dept right now n I always feel like giving him a hot slap whenever I catch him staring at me , what stops you from talking to her and at least be a friend for the past three years ?

Mprex:
Psychologically, a crush is meant to last for a maximum of four months, anything that exceeds that could be love.








Op, you have been staring @ this lady for three complete years and you still call it a crush







You have been in love with her but either you just didnt realize it or you have been trying to supress it.








Better go for her now before you will loose her too to a "more commited person"






goodluck JONATHAN TILL 2019

Liamm:
FIXED

philtrum:

The intelligent ones are on nairaland

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