Ploy:

I have come again o. I have done virtually all you asked me to do and the way you asked me to do them. She became friendly that I almost regretted staring that long.

She saw something coming one day when we were gisting and she opt for BBM chat instead of face to face conversation. So, she left the scene and initiated the chat immediately.

When we started chatting, I went straight for the kill, only to be stopped by the statement: "I have someone". I still can't believe her cos, she refused to tell me who the person is.

Now, she has stopped picking my calls. In fact, she is avoiding me. It feels like I'm losing it now. To be sincere I just realised it, I love her than I initially thought. I need your mature opinion pls. I don't want to lose her

One thing you should know is that females don't like desperation in males. Just play it cool with her, another thing is don't tell a girl you want to date her. That statement triggers the hard to get mode in them.

Impulse80:
One thing you should know is that females don't like desperation in males. Just play it cool with her, another thing is don't tell a girl you want to date her. That statement triggers the hard to get mode in them.

Thanks bro but I already did. I felt I should cos I've wasted a whole lot of tym staring.

Should I then stop calling and texting her? And if I stopped calling won't she think I'm chicken out?

Elantracey:
I have someone like you in my dept right now n I always feel like giving him a hot slap whenever I catch him staring at me , what stops you from talking to her and at least be a friend for the past three years ?

Elantracey, I'm the guy in ur dept o, please don't slap me whenever I finally walk up to you.
The love I have for u is lyk photocopied assignment, I can't explain it.
That's why I stare if only I could decipher it through staring.

Ploy:

I have come again o. I have done virtually all you asked me to do and the way you asked me to do them. She became friendly that I almost regretted staring that long.

She saw something coming one day when we were gisting and she opt for BBM chat instead of face to face conversation. So, she left the scene and initiated the chat immediately.

When we started chatting, I went straight for the kill, only to be stopped by the statement: "I have someone". I still can't believe her cos, she refused to tell me who the person is.

Now, she has stopped picking my calls. In fact, she is avoiding me. It feels like I'm losing it now. To be sincere I just realised it, I love her than I initially thought. I need your mature opinion pls. I don't want to lose her

*lol. Good old "hard to get" games. Dont worry. Dont stop calling here. If she aint picking, send her text messages. Dont complain about her not picking your calls. This will make her feel her efforts is paying off.

Behave as if you dont mind her ignoring your calls. Chat with her. Dont bring up the relationship issue again. Try to get her around to been friendly again. Get really close to her. Dont bring sex into the scene yet. Just be nice to her.


When she is now basking in the euphoria of your love and care. You bring another girl into the scene. Let her see you with this girl, take photos and upload on social networks that you have her.

Meanwhile dont stop been nice to her.

*if she asks you who the girl is- she is jealous and is probably falling for you.

*if she doesnt ask but turns cold and aloof towards you- she is jealous but wont say it. Its left to you to talk to her and try to make her talk.

If she doesnt show any interest @ all, then she just doesnt give a hoot about you.

Whatever the case, you lemme know.

Goodluck

ps: the other girl might b a relative or friend that understands that your playing games

Ploy:


Thanks bro but I already did. I felt I should cos I've wasted a whole lot of tym staring.

Should I then stop calling and texting her? And if I stopped calling won't she think I'm chicken out?

Remember that you call the shots JJust like Mprex said just let her be for now. Talk to her and do so without coming off as being needy and ddon't stare anymore! My girlfriend was like that initially until she saw i had changed and stopped giving a f*ck then it became her turn to chase me .
Bottom line is everyone wants what they can't have, so present yourself to her as someone worthy. The worthy ones don't beg, do not call her every minute of the day! Twice a week is ok. What I meant when i said don't ask her out is don't ask for her permission to date her.


Normally my format is quite simple: we hang out together first time, second time i go to her place and the third time she comes to my place. If she doesn't know my intentions by then then she's a slowpoke

Mprex:

*lol. Good old "hard to get" games.

Whatever and wherever this leads, I have won the game cos I know you on this platform cos of this. I am happy I posted this post the time I did.

Thank you so much, you're my hero. You may not know what you have done for me but I do and I heartily appreciate it. Thank you so so much.

If she doesn't give a danm about me at the end of the day, I will forever appreciate the lil friendship of two weeks with her. It was with true vim and vitality. I have learnt something too. I now know I should get out of my shell.

Ploy:


Whatever and wherever this leads, I have won the game cos I know you on this platform cos of this. I am happy I posted this post the time I did.

Thank you so much, you're my hero. You may not know what you have done for me but I do and I heartily appreciate it. Thank you so so much.

If she doesn't give a danm about me at the end of the day, I will forever appreciate the lil friendship of two weeks with her. It was with true vim and vitality. I have learnt something too. I now know I should get out of my shell.

wow, i feel so wow! I never knew i had helped that much.

what i'll tell you is this, dont give up on her. Nothing good comes easy. Take it easy. Dont come off as desperate, needy or weak to her.

Just play the role, i gave you. You will be wowed by the outcome

Mprex:

wow, i feel so wow! I never knew i had helped that much.

what i'll tell you is this, dont give up on her. Nothing good comes easy. Take it easy. Dont come off as desperate, needy or weak to her.

Just play the role, i gave you. You will be wowed by the outcome

Okay, I will try my best. Thank you.

I don't flatter but you have really done something that will take a very long time before I forget. I was not expecting sensible response, the topic of my post bears witness to that because people are just too abusive.

I must say that you have changed my opinion of nairaland forum. Other people's comment on your responses show that I am not the only one that doesn't expect sensible responses.

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Mprex:

wow, i feel so wow! I never knew i had helped that much.

what i'll tell you is this, dont give up on her. Nothing good comes easy. Take it easy. Dont come off as desperate, needy or weak to her.

Just play the role, i gave you. You will be wowed by the outcome

Okay, I will try my best. Thank you.

I don't flatter but you have really done something that will take a very long time before I forget. I was not expecting sensible response, the topic of my post bears witness to that because people are just too abusive.

I must say that you have changed my opinion of nairaland forum. Other people's comment on your responses show that I am not the only one that doesn't expect sensible responses.

Victormimi:


Elantracey, I'm the guy in ur dept o, please don't slap me whenever I finally walk up to you.
The love I have for u is lyk photocopied assignment, I can't explain it.
That's why I stare if only I could decipher it through staring.