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She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by deeoneX(m): 10:28pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
We were frnds for over a year before we started dating. Its been 2years now in our relationship. Rarely does she open up her mind to tell me her depressing emotional issues when she has a troubled one except I compel her into talking. Recently, I did my engineering induction and would be going for my NYSC this November. Just Came home to grab the few things I'll need for camp and particularly, to spend time with her before I leave this week. All through the last week that I've been home, she had been noticeably dodging our dates for both of us to hang out while giving feeble, triffling and diaphanous excuses. On this particular evening, contrary to her manner of holding back her depressing emotions even though I'd noticed that, She eventually told me what even seemed awkward to her cast of mind..."She's Jealous". While apologizing for how she's been eschewing our planned dates, she said it after I asked what she's been jealous about. "She's Jealous of my success". My fingers were seized on my phone's keyboard for tens of seconds as I didn't know how best to reply or comfort her since I was struck with wonder . I've planned meeting her someplace without prior notice to talk to her. Nairalanders, is it normal or rather okay if she feels that way. Besides, how good enough do you suggest I chat her to calm and possibly inspire her mind without hurting her delicate heart? I strongly do aspire a future with her. |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by adonbilivit: 10:34pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
but you are not successful yet. your best is yet to come. you need to reassure her. seems she has written jamb four/five times to no avail... 1 Like |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by lirusehn(m): 10:38pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Letz read the success she'z jealous of 2 Likes |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by Nobody: 10:42pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
No no no, she is only jealous dat ur goin to camp nd u wol definitely meet oda ladies and forget abt her...so assure her dat she will always be in ur mind nd u wont folow any other girl....of course whch u knw definitely its a huge lie nd its very impossible....mk her feel wanted nd special.... 1 Like |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by OohMpa: 10:43pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
adonbilivit: Poster Bro, this your babe don buy office space for JAMB office..... She go reach there next year, one official go talk " Welcome miss, we have a special discount for you this year for the form. Shei na the usual course? You fit change university this time oooo" Admission don turn Nairabet 3 Likes |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by deeoneX(m): 10:44pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
adonbilivit: That was close to my reply. I asked her d question.."What success?" since then she's be coercing me to drop the talks saying she has made her point already |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by Tymax(m): 10:45pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
She's just scared cos of the stories she has heard about NYSC orientation camp. Ladies don't get jealous of their men. She may have said that to hide her anxiety. |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by Nobody: 10:45pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:seconded, |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by Nobody: 10:47pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Tymax:sure, |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by Nobody: 10:48pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Vikkyk10:lol vicky...d babe is just in love...... |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by Nobody: 10:48pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Myb she's feeln insecured |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by Nobody: 10:50pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:myb scared 2, |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by Nobody: 10:50pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
I DON'T THINK SHE IS REALY JEALOUS, SHE'S JUST SCARED THAT U'LL MEET BETTER AND HIGHLY EDUCATED LADIES AT CAMP AND U WILL DUMP HER. ALL U NEED TO DO IS REASSURE HER 1 Like |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by deeoneX(m): 10:50pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
OohMpa: U're outta point bro. She's gainfully employed. Works with one of these famous Nigerian comedians. |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by adonbilivit: 10:51pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
deeoneX:give her time. i believe she would change...if she does not want to welcome progress in your life ditch her in a nice way. |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by passionate88: 10:53pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by adonbilivit: 10:55pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
OohMpa:oohmpq! thought you are only knowledgeable in hardcore s*x and romance. |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by Nobody: 10:57pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Hm |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by Afrok(m): 2:28am On Oct 27, 2014 |
Jealous When she's supposed to be happy for U and be proud of ur success so far? that's serious... Some girls have been feeling insecured even with the best bodyguard (love) since the time of Adam and Eve. 1 Like |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by Nobody: 2:32am On Oct 27, 2014 |
She only feels you are better than her in all way,and she believe sooner or later she is gonna loose u...shikenna 2 Likes |
Re: She's Jealous Of My Success! How Do I Talk To Her by mecussey(m): 11:40am On Oct 27, 2014 |
deeoneX: Girls do that, it's just some part of insecurity that you may go AWOL after going ahead of them. 1 Like |
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