She was jilted in her first ever relationship. Since then, she has been been seeking for another good one that will eventually lead to marriage. Many have been coming but only interested in her forbidden fruit. She's is the only one left her family. I mean no parents, no brother no sister. All had died. She is alone to her own world but she keeps herself as a responsible woman. Now, she's desperately wants to settle down. Recently , she met a man who has been proposing to marry her. The man only saw her once and since then he has beencalling her, sending different types of messages and claiming to be a man of God though he's a lawyer. The questions now are; is it real for somebody to see a woman for the very first time and begin to propose to her without even know whom she is? Secondly, why the man is trying to prove holy all the time he's sending her message or calling her? Please,can somebody assist on how I should advice her.

can a man of God not be a lawyer?

That is is not not what I meant. Just to say his profession. U know some lawyers talk too much

Let her give him some chance. Hear him out.

You have to call him and talk with him. Let him understand your pains and what you are going through. Let him know going into any form of marriage with him without knowing each other well enough will be diastrous.

Allow him sometime, allow him to prove himself he is worthy of you. Don't be too picky. Tell him you can't jump into any vow with him unless you court for a while.

Well, maybe what he actually meant is not the real instant marriage with you. Maybe that's the best way he can forward his woo-ing message to you. Am very sure he is not talking about instant marriage, am very sure he only wants to accept to be his fiancee.

You can meet someone for the first time and have that conviction in you that this is someone i want to settle down with.However,there has to be a period of getting to know each other.
She can accept to date him.It doesn't mean she accepts to marry him.

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. Ar you a Lawyer?? You talk too much

Okay...

@inus try to be serious for once..

The man of God part worries me.

How does she know the man has never met her before?

In any case she should just find out more about him, but if she feels something is not right, then maybe it isn't.