kennygee:
Have a back up plan.

A bird at hand is worth a whole lot more in the bush.

BRAV0O:
What's your best advice for this best friend of myn, her fiancé based in uk and he always promise to come back for her sooner or later she's being so faithful and now she's about to give up on him cuz he promise to come around this month and fail again , pls advice a sister

YungwizzzyPt7:
Lol

There is this babe that left me for one guy like that just because the guy was about travelling abroad

Since the guy traveled all her updates na about the guy, she pixmix picture taya

she was so inlove but I always laff when I see her stupidity

just few days ago she learnt that the guy got married to a whitee and just had a child


lwkm when she was narrating everything the day we met

I don't really know why girls like abroad guys so much, some are even ready to stay for 10 years for the guy to come

very funny and stupid

drnoel:


It's ur decision really whatever u decide u will have to live with the repercusion. I see lots of threads on NL were they talk rubbish advising the lady to move on and all those bullshit.
I don't normally like talking about myself on public forums but I will make an exception in this case cos something here struck me like Deja vu and I felt a jolt of pain going down memory lane.
I was in ur guys situation some years back. Had to leave my sweetheart for years in naija cos I was schooling and couldn't afford sending for her till much later. She waited, it was hard cos she had a long line of suitors and after a while of always hearing her crying and begging me to return I just lost it and asked her to move on. She didn't. I returned to her with a ring two yrs ago and she is now my wifey and just joined me some months back. I am glad she waited cos she means the world to me.
Listen to ur heart. It's all a gamble, life is a gamble but u have to decide where u play ur hand. Yes, some Nigerian men keep white women here and promise heaven to our Nigerian sisters, yes most nigerians sisters have been disappointed in the process but would u rather ask urself in the future why u didn't wait and live in regret or would u rather suffer it and smile. I know a friend who married a guy she didnt want to marry. She had 3 kids for the man but still calls her ex boyfriend (who by the way is also married) till today telling him she misses him. No one can give u an advice here but u urself. Remember if u wait and get disappointed u got to live with it and if he returns to do the needful then u also got to live with he smiles. Goodluck.

BRAV0O:
as u've is a matter of self decision and depend on the kind of relationship both involve , I just feel this could be a very hard decision the lady to make , I remember her telling all this few yrs ago about this abroad fiancé and from my own understanding most of this abroad fiancé never walk alone out there , I actually don't what say to this ? Should tell her to move ? What if the guy have good intention for her , if only I were the one I won't even bother myself to involve in such relationship cuz our naija brothers out there no dey try at all...

drnoel:


Very true talk but I am also a naija broda out there. If I could return to marry my sweetheart of years ago. I would want to believe many Nigerian brodas could do too.

BRAV0O:
She said : Getting gifts n gifts is not going to fill he's presence





What's your best advice for this best friend of myn, her fiancé based in uk and the guy still care and send her gifts , support her for everything , I'll pity some ladies if they actually open up to tell you what they are going truo...
he always promise to come back for her sooner or later she's being so faithful and now she's about to give up on him cuz he promise to come around this month and fail again , pls advice a sister

kennygee:
Have a back up plan.

A bird at hand is worth a whole lot more in the bush.

Cheating Well this is why I will promise no one here marriage if I finally make it out of here.. It may not be too easy for him over dia to come for her.. She should tell him point blank whatever is in her mind.. A Lotta successful guys in here who can't wait to hear her say yes..and also many for the guy over there jare... Someone shouldn't be playing smart