Good guys are those guys that are often shy to approach their crush or girl the have been eyeing while andonce the get the girl treats her with respect. Bad guys are those guys who are very bold and specialize in breaking girls heart. A friend once told me that good girls fall for bad guys while bad girls fall for good guys. do u agree.if yes or no, explain

I think its much more complicated than that. Good guys/girls don't automatically end up with "bad" guys/girls.
But I think you've got to really know yourself and know what kind of relationship u want.. guess that's a good starting point

semioyin:
I think its much more complicated than that. Good guys/girls don't automatically end up with "bad" guys/girls.
But I think you've got to really know yourself and know what kind of relationship u want.. guess that's a good starting point

but there are some ladies/girls who really dont know what they want and just cant help it especially the good girls who believe they can change the bad boys

iceberylin:
question for the Gods

guy the gods are directly asking u the question

iceberylin:
question for the Gods

guy the gods are directly asking u the question

dozieinspired:
but there are some ladies/girls who really dont know what they want and just cant help it especially the good girls who believe they can change the bad boys

So true, I agree. However same goes for the guys. So when u have an idea of what kind of relationship u want and what it takes from both parties it's easier to see who's a match. But knowledge often must come from (bad) experience

semioyin:


So true, I agree. However same goes for the guys. So when u have an idea of what kind of relationship u want and what it takes from both parties it's easier to see who's a match. But knowledge often must come from (bad) experience

seems u have somewhat of an experience do u mind sharing

dozieinspired:
seems u have somewhat of an experience do u mind sharing

Haha yes, I've been blessed with many life lessons

I am a private person, but I will say this much. I've learned through my mistakes that any relationship is doomed if both don't share the same goal and aren't committed to reaching it together, working as a team.

And also, actions really do speak louder than words, so don't be blinded by all the promises and sweet words.

semioyin:


Haha yes, I've been blessed with many life lessons

I am a private person, but I will say this much. I've learned through my mistakes that any relationship is doomed if both don't share the same goal and aren't committed to reaching it together, working as a team.

And also, actions really do speak louder than words, so don't be blinded by all the promises and sweet words.

interesting. pls other viewere/guest feel free to share ur experience

dozieinspired:
interesting. pls other viewere/guest feel free to share ur experience

Yes, all views are welcomed.

Dozieinspired, what are your experiences/ thoughts ?

semioyin:


Yes, all views are welcomed.

Dozieinspired, what are your experiences/ thoughts ?

well was a good guy and still a good guy but attracted both parties especially the bad girls

dozieinspired:
well was a good guy and still a good guy but attracted both parties especially the bad girls

Sorry to hear that but good thing u remained a good guy.

The real shame is when a guy or girl after getting their hearts broken get a that "F** love" attitude cus of the hurt

semioyin:


Sorry to hear that but good thing u remained a good guy.

The real shame is when a guy or girl after getting their hearts broken get a that "F** love" attitude cus of the hurt

on point

dozieinspired:
on point

But that's life, u live and u learn, right
Hope to see others share their thoughts on the matter

The truth is u re who u attract...u can't sow corn n expect bean na...so u attract who u re

Rexnegro:
The truth is u re who u attract...u can't sow corn n expect bean na...so u attract who u re

the truth is that once u have the desired qualities then u attract both the good,bad and the ugly

Rexnegro:
The truth is u re who u attract...u can't sow corn n expect bean na...so u attract who u re

To some extent I agree with you but at the same time ppl can change or decieve u. But of course if u stay with someone despite the deceive and so on, you've kind of accepted it

semioyin:


To some extent I agree with you but at the same time ppl can change or decieve u. But of course if u stay with someone despite the deceive and so on, you've kind of accepted it

what if u cant just let go of the person

semioyin:


To some extent I agree with you but at the same time ppl can change or decieve u. But of course if u stay with someone despite the deceive and so on, you've kind of accepted it

what if u really love/lust the person and cant let go

dozieinspired:
what if u cant just let go of the person

In my opinion, then you've accepted the situation if you stay with the person.

For example if a guy has cheated on his girlfriend not one or twice but three times.. if you still stay then don't be surprised if he does it the fourth time.

dozieinspired:
what if u really love/lust the person and cant let go

In the end it depends what you're willing to tolerate. Everyone has their deal breakers. I can't put a general rule up that fits everyone but for me I know what I can accept and not accept regardless of love

semioyin:


In my opinion, then you've accepted the situation if you stay with the person.

For example if a guy has cheated on his girlfriend not one or twice but three times.. if you still stay then don't be surprised if he does it the fourth time.

wow i said it seems u are experienced

dozieinspired:
wow i said it seems u are experienced

Haha my first example was if a guy was addicted to gambling (maybe should have stuck with that)
but I will neither confirm or deny anything lol

semioyin:


Haha my first example was if a guy was addicted to gambling (maybe should have stuck with that)
but I will neither confirm or deny anything lol

u sound intelligent... pls kindly ff back

dozieinspired:
u sound intelligent... pls kindly ff back

Thank you, that's nice of u to say

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okk lets not derail wats ur view on this issue

dozieinspired:
okk lets not derail wats ur view on this issue

Yes it's true that some ladies tend to like bad boys more. Reason is because bad boys are adventuristic nature, very rude and they exhibit a wild lifestyle. Ladies are drawn to these qualities because they themselves are adventure loving creatures.
Unfortunately relationships with bad guys don't last. Bad guys, just like bad girls are fun seekers. When the fun is over they are off.
Good guys can be more irresistible if they could shed off their timid nature and explore the world. Like doing something extra ordinary. Something cool and exciting. Ladies like activities that will take their breath away. If good guys do this, bad boys won't have a chance.