@op I don't consider ds as an issue. I do that more often cos d necessary is done. The complimentary standing n waiting for d bus/plane to take off doesn't supersede d love making, money, walking n holding hands that d lady enjoyed. I'd rather expect to read a second visit full of appreciation for having such a nice guy!

U still dey sleep?
So the sex never do u abi u think say e dey easy? U are a greedy wench!

seriously he dint wait for you to board a voice
I tink that's bad but tink u should also ask him
why he behaved like that.
he might have a girl in the same town
that he would not like to see.
but for me I Dont get down with a girl I can't walk with.
he might have gotten a new Luv...
best u thread with caution so u would not say had I known...
act now and think fast...

Liability:
before i gained admission into higher institution 3 years back, i was in a relationship with this handsome dude.

Then we taught in the same secondary school. We had things going before he got employed as a staff in Nigerian Bottling Company Plc.

Since then distance has been a bane, serving as a militating factor to our relationship.

I craved almost every time for his touch. Just yesterday i had to risk my life, travelling for 4 hours just to see him (he told me he is in town), not wanting my siblings to see me cos they taught i was still in school. we saw and made love, so sweet and ecstatic it was that i want it all over again.

My greatest shock was that i ventured on going to back to my school, he only gave me transport and didnt even wait for me to even enter the car. He left me there with his friend. And left. The money is not the issue but the manner he left me is what is disturbing me.

Could it be he is less interested in me?

Am i the one forcing myself on him while he is loving some other lady?

Please advise a lady in distress.


Mature advise only!

My best shot is that he is feeling like you are seeing someone else..There is this general feeling amongst guys that whenever your girl gains admission you should forget her..He's probably imagining another banging the hell out of you..I only advise any of my girl that gains admission to always use a condom because it's almost impossible not to have a boy friend in a public university..

Liability:
before i gained admission into higher institution 3 years back, i was in a relationship with this handsome dude.

Then we taught in the same secondary school. We had things going before he got employed as a staff in Nigerian Bottling Company Plc.

Since then distance has been a bane, serving as a militating factor to our relationship.

I craved almost every time for his touch. Just yesterday i had to risk my life, travelling for 4 hours just to see him (he told me he is in town), not wanting my siblings to see me cos they taught i was still in school. we saw and made love, so sweet and ecstatic it was that i want it all over again.

My greatest shock was that i ventured on going to back to my school, he only gave me transport and didnt even wait for me to even enter the car. He left me there with his friend. And left. The money is not the issue but the manner he left me is what is disturbing me.

Could it be he is less interested in me?

Am i the one forcing myself on him while he is loving some other lady?

Please advise a lady in distress.


Mature advise only!

It's funny i'm just seeing this after two years, nice story tho, i fear cos that's where i work oo make e no go be say ur a babe i know, lol , just teasing, i trust u've gotten over him and found better guys right