j-girl:

@ trooe, you have more time that I do.

What rubbish am I reading on this thread? I always tell anyone that cares to listen that I'm a feminist. Submission is not a word in my dictionary. Compromise is more like it. How can my husband tell me to go and do something and I will act like a mugun and do it regardless of whether it's senseless or not? No man wants a doormat for a wife. Any man who wants that is a complete coward. It's better to have a woman who is not afraid to have and voice her own opinions.

As for cooking, we will compromise on that. I have no problem feeding my husband till his stomach pops out. My problem lies in the fact that he won't appreciate it or think it's my job to do it. Don't get me wrong. I will cater to my man but the feminist in me will also realize that I need to be catered to once in a while too.
If a man can put his career over his family because he feels that his wife is holding things down at home, who's the real boss of the house?
If any of you cared to listen, Obama praises Michelle like there's no tomorrow. I have never heard more adoration in a man's voice. Michelle is a strong woman and she's not a slave to him like most Nigerian men would want us to be. Most of you need to listen to what the man says about Michelle before you start calling her submissive all because she's carrying a flower.

You need to start a new website - www.hotair.org  

When you get married please type this and give ur husband, tell us the results.

DavidDylan:

You need to start a new website - www.hotair.org

When you get married please type this and give ur husband, tell us the results.

LOL! I don't blame you. My husband won't mind. I know.

whatever90:

what a terrible name

See coal tar road calling shine-shine bo-bo black.

You just can't compare strong, mighty, powerful RichyBlack to small, tiny, teenybopper, lowly whatever90.

RichyBlacK:

KarmaMod,

I'm waiting for you to get married first na .

What's the hurry? I'm considering a workable scheme to get me four wives at once. Here in Somalia, the women appreciate my moderate view (some guys shoot for six wives). My fiance is even okay with it. Don't worry, everything is being worked out .

You're 20 yrs older than me.

Better start your life else you will be like those men who are already using a cane when the kid is done with highschool not to talk of college

afi 4 wives naa. alajenu.

Make una go marry first jare . . . too much argument.

See small girls dey claim feminist.   If dem see trouble now na under bed you go find them.

KarmaMod:

You're 20 years older than me.

Better start your life else you will be like those men who are already using a cane when the kid is done with highschool not to talk of college

afi 4 wives naa. alajenu.

RichyBlacK:

See coal tar road calling shine-shine bo-bo black.

You just can't compare strong, mighty, powerful RichyBlack to small, tiny, teenybopper, lowly whatever90.

ok,drink cold water,because u r heading for heart attack soon,karma please release him ejoooo,u r making him work his tiny brain out

DavidDylan:

Make una go marry first jare . . . too much argument.

See small girls dey claim feminist. If them see trouble now na under bed you go find them.

When I get married, I'll let you know what's up. Don't worry.
My feminist buddy is not here. You would have seen the real meaning of feminist today.

j-girl:

LOL! I don't blame you. My husband won't mind. I know.

that husband you've been creating in ur sweet dreams abi? U too like sleep . . . wake up.

j-girl:

@ trooe, you have more time that I do.

What rubbish am I reading on this thread? I always tell anyone that cares to listen that I'm a feminist. Submission is not a word in my dictionary. Compromise is more like it. How can my husband tell me to go and do something and I will act like a mugun and do it regardless of whether it's senseless or not? No man wants a doormat for a wife. Any man who wants that is a complete coward. It's better to have a woman who is not afraid to have and voice her own opinions.

As for cooking, we will compromise on that. I have no problem feeding my husband till his stomach pops out. My problem lies in the fact that he won't appreciate it or think it's my job to do it. Don't get me wrong. I will cater to my man but the feminist in me will also realize that I need to be catered to once in a while too.
If a man can put his career over his family because he feels that his wife is holding things down at home, who's the real boss of the house?
If any of you cared to listen, Obama praises Michelle like there's no tomorrow. I have never heard more adoration in a man's voice. Michelle is a strong woman and she's not a slave to him like most Nigerian men would want us to be. Most of you need to listen to what the man says about Michelle before you start calling her submissive all because she's carrying a flower.

The problem may be English o. Some people don't know the meaning of the word "slave", hence they throw it around trying to scare impressionable young ladies.

There is nothing slavish about respecting and submitting to your husband!

RichyBlacK:


The problem may be English o. Some people don't know the meaning of the word "slave", hence they throw it around trying to scare impressionable young ladies.

There is nothing slavish about respecting and submitting to your husband!

dont mind J-girl, she must have followed India's new rocket to the moon.

No be dis planet she dey.

j-girl:

@ trooe, you have more time that I do.

What rubbish am I reading on this thread? I always tell anyone that cares to listen that I'm a feminist. Submission is not a word in my dictionary. Compromise is more like it. How can my husband tell me to go and do something and I will act like a mugun and do it regardless of whether it's senseless or not? No man wants a doormat for a wife. Any man who wants that is a complete coward. It's better to have a woman who is not afraid to have and voice her own opinions.
As for cooking, we will compromise on that. I have no problem feeding my husband till his stomach pops out. My problem lies in the fact that he won't appreciate it or think it's my job to do it. Don't get me wrong. I will cater to my man but the feminist in me will also realize that I need to be catered to once in a while too.
If a man can put his career over his family because he feels that his wife is holding things down at home, who's the real boss of the house?
If any of you cared to listen, Obama praises Michelle like there's no tomorrow. I have never heard more adoration in a man's voice. Michelle is a strong woman and she's not a slave to him like most Nigerian men would want us to be. Most of you need to listen to what the man says about Michelle before you start calling her submissive all because she's carrying a flower.

[size=13pt]2day na my relaxation day jare, if not i won't be online.
babe you too much, 100% correct, no be that nonsense Sista dey yawn [/size]

Women wouldnt be bothered so much by the word "submissive" if guys didnt take advantage of it

It's as simple as that.

Thread is officially boring

RichyBlacK:


The problem may be English o. Some people don't know the meaning of the word "slave", hence they throw it around trying to scare impressionable young ladies.

There is nothing slavish about respecting and submitting to your husband!

There is nothing slavish about respecting and submitting to my husband, I agree. However, the definition of submission in a naija guy's dictionary is him ruling her life. If you think I'm lying, ask the naija guys here what they think submission is.

tRoOE:

[size=13pt]2day na my relaxation day jare, if not i won't be online.
babe you too much, 100% correct, no be that nonsense Sista dey yawn [/size]

Sista is in serious love. What else will she say?

tRoOE:

[size=13pt]2day na my relaxation day jare, if not i won't be online.
babe you too much, 100% correct, no be that nonsense Sista dey yawn [/size]

Dreamland.

j-girl:

There is nothing slavish about respecting and submitting to my husband, I agree. However, the definition of submission in a naija guy's dictionary is him ruling her life. If you think I'm lying, ask the naija guys here what they think submission is. Sista is in serious love. What else will she say?

[size=13pt]Are you sure nah love, maybe the guy use juju , the AA I know that are married to Naija do not submit like that

@David
Dreams does come through[/size]

j-girl:
Sista is in serious love. What else will she say?

blive me,im tired of reading the sermons dat comes with that love.sermons and praises that might end one day,after the tenure is over

Why Do You Think Over %70 Of Black Ladies In America Are Single?

Intransigence!!!

tenure abi when the greencard finally comes in the mail for mr Akure-Anambra

whatever90:

blive me,I'm tired of reading the sermons that comes with that love.sermons and praises that might end one day,after the tenure is over

LOL! You sef? I thought it was only me sha. She makes these guys feel like they are the ish. See all of them praising her.

tRoOE:

Are you sure nah love, maybe the guy use juju , the AA I know that are married to Naija do not submit like that

I don't even know. As far as I'm sure of, it must be deep love.

Kai! KarmaMod has taken it a step further.

tRoOE:

[size=13pt]2day na my relaxation day jare, if not i won't be online.
babe you too much, 100% correct, no be that nonsense Sista dey yawn [/size]

Siddon dia. Berra shange before you go clock 50 still dey single

J-girl and her insecurities.  If you honor and respect yourself, who's to say the husband you marry won't do the same?
It's not like you plan on marrying a heartless man whose goal is to devour you in your relationship.
Confused christian.

KarmaMod:

tenure abi when the greencard finally comes in the mail for mr Akure-Anambra

ehen naaa,we all know d man married her only for green card,so let her keep quiet ojare,love ko love ni,she go come dey talk like say na real marriage

H2O2:

J-girl and her insecurities.  If you honor and respect yourself, who's to say the husband you marry won't do the same?
It's not like you plan on marrying a heartless man whose goal is to devour you in your relationship.
Confused christian.

Don't mind her!

j-girl:

LOL! You sef? I thought it was only me sha. She makes these guys feel like they are the ish. See all of them praising her.I don't even know. As far as I'm

let them continue praising her and her contract marriage

RichyBlacK:

Siddon dia. Berra shange before you go clock 50 still dey single

[size=13pt]ahahah single ke

@jgirl
serious love no be small thing, [/size]

[size=13pt]you girls are so mean ohhhhhh[/size]

whatever90:

blive me,I'm tired of reading the sermons that comes with that love.sermons and praises that might end one day,after the tenure is over

KarmaMod:

tenure abi when the greencard finally comes in the mail for mr Akure-Anambra

What is this thread about??

RichyBlacK:

You girls are horrible. So, because sistawoman is not as angry and depressed as you all, you've resorted to abusing her? You all should be ashamed of doing this to one of your own just because she has the common sense many of you lack.

if u get married,whos goning to be d man?u or ur wife?i think its ur wife,cos u act like a woman

tRoOE:

[size=13pt]you girls are so mean ohhhhhh[/size]

there is nothing like being mean,i just said it now,cos so many men here r always telling us to copy from her marriage,i cant copy from a contract marriage,i only do real ones

harsh?im not ,just stating fact here

H2O2:

J-girl and her insecurities. If you honor and respect yourself, who's to say the husband you marry won't do the same?
It's not like you plan on marrying a heartless man whose goal is to devour you in your relationship.
Confused christian.

H2O2, you have come again! I will not marry a heartless man for sure but I refuse to let my husband use me as a doormat. Which one is confused christian again? Who told you I'm a christian? My faith has nothing to do with this because I will not use the word "submit" to refer to what I do to my husband. Naija men don't know the meaning of submission. My husband will understand better hopefully.

LOL - Trooe stop hating jare!

whatever90:

let them continue praising her and her contract marriage

KAI!

RichyBlacK:

You girls are horrible. So, because sistawoman is not as angry and depressed as you all, you've resorted to abusing her? You all should be ashamed of doing this to one of your own just because she has the common sense many of you lack.

We are not abusing her. Common sense we lack? Did you read her posts at all? Making it seem like we were a bunch of troublesome girls just looking to fight with our husbands no matter what. Obviously, she is talking like that because she thinks all naija men are like her husband.