Strictly for matured people. A friend needs your advise

"Please, please help me. I am
going through hell!! I am
twenty-eight years old,
married with a three-year-
old daughter. For the past
three years, my wife has
avoided being sexual with
me, my wife is not
interested in sex. It has
slowly gone from having sex
maybe twice a week to now,
if I'm lucky, once a month. And even then, it's not
really having sex. It's more like her saying, "Hurry up
and get in here and let's do this before our child
wakes up." There is no pre-intimacy. She doesn't even
kiss me. I'm the one who always is initiating any sort
of affection"

talk to her about your observations, and how u will want her to change for the sake of ur marriage, u might be annoying her in some ways,

and if no lucky, ur pastor is always available

So it will require LUCK?

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Start dating her again and help her with the child.

You mean he should tell his pastor wifey doesn't give it to him like he wants?
What will the pastor do please, cast and bind the spirit of s.ex.ual starvation?

GindoX:
talk to her about your observations, and how u will want her to change for the sake of ur marriage, u might be annoying her in some ways,

and if no lucky, ur pastor is always available

No woman wud want to have sex wt her three yr old dauta arnd

Perhaps she feels you are always pressuring her for intimacy. And yes its is very annoying if the only reason a guy kisses you is because he immediately has ulterior motives. Both of you should go to counseling though because this issue can get much worse in a hurry.

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@Ochiban, tnx for the advise