SirShymex:


Are you sure he's hitting it right?

If he ain't, you know which toll-free number to call.

Ebi4life:
my wife does nt like sex, I married her as a virgin. We only do it once in 2 weeks, I have to respect her feelings. I would have been more happy if she has a higher libido that will get me moaning on bed.

anonnairaland:
In my case, i'm more sexually active than my wife and I don't blame her because she was sexually abused twice while growing up and it kind of affected her sex drive. It's quite frustrating for me most times, but then I need to support her and help her overcome her fears. Most times, she allows me have it because she knows i want it but not because she wants it so its one-sided, she says if she were to have her way, the frequency would be like once a week or thereabout. When we have sex on a weekend, she expects it to last till the next weekend. it is quite contrasting because i'm more like an everyday kind of guy. We've been married for 3 years now and I must say its getting better compared to how it was at the beginning; we are not there yet but it's improving gradually. I'm a one lady kind of guy and even though i dont get it as often as i want it, I've learnt over the years to cope with the situation. Sometimes i'm all tensed up and i get pissed off at any and every little thing, the real reason being the dearth of sex, but i've learnt to be more understanding, and i've learnt to accept her the way she is, and not to seek for relief outside.

anonnairaland:
In my case, i'm more sexually active than my wife and I don't blame her because she was sexually abused twice while growing up and it kind of affected her sex drive. It's quite frustrating for me most times, but then I need to support her and help her overcome her fears. Most times, she allows me have it because she knows i want it but not because she wants it so its one-sided, she says if she were to have her way, the frequency would be like once a week or thereabout. When we have sex on a weekend, she expects it to last till the next weekend. it is quite contrasting because i'm more like an everyday kind of guy. We've been married for 3 years now and I must say its getting better compared to how it was at the beginning; we are not there yet but it's improving gradually. I'm a one lady kind of guy and even though i dont get it as often as i want it, I've learnt over the years to cope with the situation. Sometimes i'm all tensed up and i get pissed off at any and every little thing, the real reason being the dearth of sex, but i've learnt to be more understanding, and i've learnt to accept her the way she is, and not to seek for relief outside.

iyabodeh:
Do you go subtly or hard? There is a health/psychological condition that makes the vaginal wall just close up oooo.
I don forget what they called it, but when she panics the muscles will stiffen. Na only strong caterpillar fit open m ooo. And you no go wan hurt your wife na.

iyabodeh:
Do you go subtly or hard? There is a health/psychological condition that makes the vaginal wall just close up oooo.
I don forget what they called it, but when she panics the muscles will stiffen. Na only strong caterpillar fit open m ooo. And you no go wan hurt your wife na.

soulglo:
No complaints

I do not love you anymore,this marriage is over....

anonnairaland:
In my case, i'm more sexually active than my wife and I don't blame her because she was sexually abused twice while growing up and it kind of affected her sex drive. It's quite frustrating for me most times, but then I need to support her and help her overcome her fears. Most times, she allows me have it because she knows i want it but not because she wants it so its one-sided, she says if she were to have her way, the frequency would be like once a week or thereabout. When we have sex on a weekend, she expects it to last till the next weekend. it is quite contrasting because i'm more like an everyday kind of guy. We've been married for 3 years now and I must say its getting better compared to how it was at the beginning; we are not there yet but it's improving gradually. I'm a one lady kind of guy and even though i dont get it as often as i want it, I've learnt over the years to cope with the situation. Sometimes i'm all tensed up and i get pissed off at any and every little thing, the real reason being the dearth of sex, but i've learnt to be more understanding, and i've learnt to accept her the way she is, and not to seek for relief outside.

jennybright:
Mine is d opposite of it all. He is so boring
No pre-intimacy no style
Climb u n hang ur legs in d air before u know it its over
Its so frustrating
What can u do
that's marriage for u

obongproff:
* Are u sexually compatible with ur spouse?

* Is ur spouse asking for too much sex or ur not getting enough of it?

* Is ur spouse too boring or too wild in bed?

* If ur not sexually compatible, how are u guys coping?

* Are u rily enjoying sex as a married person?

I would really like to hear from the married folks in the house.

who would go first?

TheNaijan:

Well--As I said it's my research-- and I do get attention from girls because of my body... so I know as I guy even when I get older -I should workout often(be in shape)...
And I never said pot belly is good and their is nothing like ''dad smell''--but there is something like a man not taking good care of himself [/b]because he is so tied up with work and family issues...No thanks to....
And I've met a couple of attractive girls(white ones) #Model standards #NoBragging or #ValidationSeeking ...All I had to do was [b]talk to them and....
But I am more focused on how to make money while I balance everything else...

obongproff:


Der is notin hilarious abt it in d real sense of it. I hav never met a woman with a higher libido, so I just day imagine how d tin want be. Is it now a crime to see sth funny in ur own way or to find humour in sth anoda man doesnt see any humour.

5minsmadness:

So you will learn from your mistakes abi
Good afternoon ma

5minsmadness:


Your wife is your husband? Or you forgot for a moment that you are posing on Nairaland as a male, madam?

Phema:


Which of my posts suggests that Sir?

stinggy:


*Wheeew*

Try sending me a PM

Phema:


What's hilarious about his wife having a higher libido?

spiceemman:
Spouse so boring in bed I had to be boring too in an attempt not to cheat uno. Any attempt at trying out new styles is met with "Emmanuel where did you learn this?" Instantly libido takes a knock while in my head I'm replying "I haven't cheated on you b, blame the porns." Seriously though, it's painful when one's spouse isn't sexually exciting in bed and they're not willing to learn. Sad!

missbronze:
i sent u a mail on ur mail. The id is
b******

I dnt know if its still functioning., but, if it is., then, reply my mail there.

CoCoLav:
Two things I am afraid of: Marrying a man with low libido and marrying a man who doesn't understand the essentials and importance of forep.lay.

stinggy:


All you need do is to marry me. I won't disappoint, trust me

CoCoLav:


But you are stinggy