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1. Some ladies think that acting like a wife will automatically persuade the guy to put the ring on their finger. That is faulty thinking and could lead you into big emotional problems.
2. Just so we are clear, until he puts the ring on your finger, you are NOT, I repeat, not, his wife. You go everywhere together, hold hands, kiss in public, he introduces you to his friends as ‘my wife’, all that is nonsense until he puts a legal ring on your finger.
3. You are dating him, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you. Dating and marriage are totally different things. Even if he is engaged to you, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you.
4. Some men demand that you cook for them, organise their apartment and give them sex to prove that you are good wife material. Don’t you fall for that. Any man who tells you that wants to use and dump you. And, DON’T move in with him because that will automatically make you his ‘in-house-mistress’ who will perform all his wife duties for him without the commitment of marriage.
5. You don’t have to submit to him until he puts that ring on your finger. Some men demand that you should submit to them because you are dating. If he wants you to submit to him when you are not dating, just think of what he would do to you if you are married to him.
6. Don’t give him your money unless you are sure that you will get it back. If you give him your money because he is a ‘potential husband’, you can kiss that money goodbye because you may never see it again.
7. Stop giving him your body whenever wherever. Anytime he wants sex, he calls you up, yet he hasn’t put the ring on your finger. Giving him sex is counter productive. Your objective is to get married to him, not to warm his bed. Pretending to be his wife by giving him sex will not make him put that ring on your finger.
8. It is not complex: if he wants you to perform wife duties for him like cooking, organising his life, sex and all other wife duties, tell him to take you to his family and organize a marriage.Stop being foolish. If he really loves you as he whispers in your ears, he should take you to the marriage registry.
9. If he gets all the wife duties from you for free, why on earth do you think that he will make you his wife? If he is not ready to make a life commitment to you, he doesn’t deserve any wife benefits.
10. Protect yourself from emotional and sexual abuse. Stop giving this man what he doesn’t deserve. If he is not willing to honor you by putting that ring on your finger, then he is not worthy to receive wife benefits from you. When you become his wife, then he will get treated like a husband.

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Very good....guys take note

nyc 1

You just said your mind.

Women by nature are capitalistic, materialistic, they enslave men with an idea of love and trap him into an overrated marriage and the man spends his whole life working for her while she fans the idea of being the weaker sex.

Women ordinarily don't want to work, some are just doing it these days because they have got no option. And why would they want to work when they can get a slave (man) who can do it even unbidden. A woman will have a flat tire an men will be glad to fix it for her even unasked. So why would she want to work.



Now what do men get for being slaves for women, nothing but occasional use of her vag.ina.

Men suffer to please women just for the use of her vag.ina

Kefetjey:
Very good....guys take note

u sound as if the guys force dr chics to do it.... Wen yu knw very well dat u girls do it voluntarily cuz he is ur boyfrnd

What's all these gender war about? The only reason why a woman must not have sex with a man she's not married to is cos the bible is against it. Stop all these gender war. Its totally not necessary. Fact is the man n woman r made to complement each other, so one gender wud alws want to take advance of that complement. Every woman who knows her worth wud never be used by a man. And every man who know the blessing of a good woman will never misuse a woman.

seen

Guys who are guilty of these are Yoruba guys, especially the ones who grew up in the west.

I don't mean to stereotype here.

NOTED.

Cutehector4u:
u sound as if the guys force dr chics to do it.... Wen yu knw very well dat u girls do it voluntarily cuz he is ur boyfrnd

I don't do it and l don't know why ladies do it

Kefetjey:
I don't do it and l don't know why ladies do it

well i advice the op should b advising the ladies nd not b like tellin the guys ....as if d guys forced dem to do it or smth... I hv been to off camps whr i c my guy's girfrnds b cookin nd washin his clothes...nd am like wtf!! Is she stupid or wat...

Cutehector4u:
well i advice the op should b advising the ladies nd not b like tellin the guys ....as if d guys forced dem to do it or smth... I hv been to off camps whr i c my guy's girfrnds b cookin nd washin his clothes...nd am like wtf!! Is she stupid or wat...

don't know.....l can't bring myself so low to do that....if that's the only way to prove to be a good wife material then l guess the guy should just fvck out

Kefetjey:
don't know.....l can't bring myself so low to do that....if that's the only way to prove to be a good wife material then l guess the guy should just fvck out

well its a pity u find many of such "wives" in off camp hostels...

To the best of my knowledge I am not interested in him putting a ring on my finger because it does not guarantee am his alone, I am mostly interested in putting a rng on his heart. Promiscuity rate s high coupled with STDs.

Cutehector4u:
well its a pity u find many of such "wives" in off camp hostels...

you talk as if you don't want that type of lady....most guys like them

Women en slaving men with their vag.INA since eve was born

Kefetjey:
you talk as if you don't want that type of lady....most guys like them

lol, buh the way the Op was sayn , i was like ah ah, why is she complainin, its not like the guys r forcind dem to do it na....shey u grab.... Well i was brought up frm a home whr i knw how to cook, nd take care of myself so i can pass...

Cutehector4u:
lol, buh the way the Op was sayn , i was like ah ah, why is she complainin, its not like the guys r forcind dem to do it na....shey u grab.... Well i was brought up frm a home whr i knw how to cook, nd take care of myself so i can pass...

Gentle man

Kefetjey:
Gentle man

sort of....

pieces2:
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1. Some ladies think that acting like a wife will automatically persuade the guy to put the ring on their finger. That is faulty thinking and could lead you into big emotional problems.
2. Just so we are clear, until he puts the ring on your finger, you are NOT, I repeat, not, his wife. You go everywhere together, hold hands, kiss in public, he introduces you to his friends as ‘my wife’, all that is nonsense until he puts a legal ring on your finger.
3. You are dating him, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you. Dating and marriage are totally different things. Even if he is engaged to you, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you.
4. Some men demand that you cook for them, organise their apartment and give them sex to prove that you are good wife material. Don’t you fall for that. Any man who tells you that wants to use and dump you. And, DON’T move in with him because that will automatically make you his ‘in-house-mistress’ who will perform all his wife duties for him without the commitment of marriage.
5. You don’t have to submit to him until he puts that ring on your finger. Some men demand that you should submit to them because you are dating. If he wants you to submit to him when you are not dating, just think of what he would do to you if you are married to him.
6. Don’t give him your money unless you are sure that you will get it back. If you give him your money because he is a ‘potential husband’, you can kiss that money goodbye because you may never see it again.
7. Stop giving him your body whenever wherever. Anytime he wants sex, he calls you up, yet he hasn’t put the ring on your finger. Giving him sex is counter productive. Your objective is to get married to him, not to warm his bed. Pretending to be his wife by giving him sex will not make him put that ring on your finger.
8. It is not complex: if he wants you to perform wife duties for him like cooking, organising his life, sex and all other wife duties, tell him to take you to his family and organize a marriage.Stop being foolish. If he really loves you as he whispers in your ears, he should take you to the marriage registry.
9. If he gets all the wife duties from you for free, why on earth do you think that he will make you his wife? If he is not ready to make a life commitment to you, he doesn’t deserve any wife benefits.
10. Protect yourself from emotional and sexual abuse. Stop giving this man what he doesn’t deserve. If he is not willing to honor you by putting that ring on your finger, then he is not worthy to receive wife benefits from you. When you become his wife, then he will get treated like a husband.

relationship is a risk, it works for some while it doesnt for some. do wat works for u. not everyone is like u, or reason like u. let everyone be abeg, stop forming holier than thou........ only God knows the worst ones u have done

You keep saying, "don't GIVE him sex" sex is a two way thing.
And my take on this matter is, a girl who would not do at least some of these things before marriage, will not do them after.

pieces2:
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9. If he gets all the wife duties from you for free, why on earth do you think that he will make you his wife? If he is not ready to make a life commitment to you, he doesn’t deserve any wife benefits.

Typical why-buy-the-cow-when-the-milk-is-free scenario...

All you said there in context is not to have sex with him... are you a rape victim? you just posted perpetual rubbish. #humbleopinion.

pieces2:
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1. Some ladies think that acting like a wife will automatically persuade the guy to put the ring on their finger. That is faulty thinking and could lead you into big emotional problems.
2. Just so we are clear, until he puts the ring on your finger, you are NOT, I repeat, not, his wife. You go everywhere together, hold hands, kiss in public, he introduces you to his friends as ‘my wife’, all that is nonsense until he puts a legal ring on your finger.
3. You are dating him, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you. Dating and marriage are totally different things. Even if he is engaged to you, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you.
4. Some men demand that you cook for them, organise their apartment and give them sex to prove that you are good wife material. Don’t you fall for that. Any man who tells you that wants to use and dump you. And, DON’T move in with him because that will automatically make you his ‘in-house-mistress’ who will perform all his wife duties for him without the commitment of marriage.
5. You don’t have to submit to him until he puts that ring on your finger. Some men demand that you should submit to them because you are dating. If he wants you to submit to him when you are not dating, just think of what he would do to you if you are married to him.
6. Don’t give him your money unless you are sure that you will get it back. If you give him your money because he is a ‘potential husband’, you can kiss that money goodbye because you may never see it again.
7. Stop giving him your body whenever wherever. Anytime he wants sex, he calls you up, yet he hasn’t put the ring on your finger. Giving him sex is counter productive. Your objective is to get married to him, not to warm his bed. Pretending to be his wife by giving him sex will not make him put that ring on your finger.
8. It is not complex: if he wants you to perform wife duties for him like cooking, organising his life, sex and all other wife duties, tell him to take you to his family and organize a marriage.Stop being foolish. If he really loves you as he whispers in your ears, he should take you to the marriage registry.
9. If he gets all the wife duties from you for free, why on earth do you think that he will make you his wife? If he is not ready to make a life commitment to you, he doesn’t deserve any wife benefits.
10. Protect yourself from emotional and sexual abuse. Stop giving this man what he doesn’t deserve. If he is not willing to honor you by putting that ring on your finger, then he is not worthy to receive wife benefits from you. When you become his wife, then he will get treated like a husband.

I dnt undstand...

When you become his wife, then he will get treated like a husband.

I totally agree with you op

If I can understand one of your points clearly. You mean ring before submission?
Are you a learner?

op..
if dis really comes from you. .....I can see you going to be in ur dad house for very long time. ...

Okk..The 4pts frm ur writeup is no MOVIN IN, no MONEY GIVING, no COOKING, and no SEX... The rest points were basically same tin...,They are good points sha even tho most ladies willingly do these tins to show their love..I dnt subscribe to ladies becoming househelps sha but they culd always assist "voluntarily" also..Wateva rocks their boat sha