Hi ladies and gents. I have been in constant thoughts about this. After school, then the youth service. I am in a relationship, one that I hope will have a happy ending and he just graduated. I love and trust him but I also know that some men may flirt about but still have that one person they would return 2. During the service year, there would be lots of side attractions or distractions, ranging from the shorts on the pretty ladies to the cute guys and the 'dimpled' guys etc.
Is it possible 4 a guy 2 remain absolutely faithful during this time? How many of you guys were faithful 2 your spouses and how many of the ladies were faithful 2 their men?

divAnnie:
Hi ladies and gents. I have been in constant thoughts about this. After school, then the youth service. I am in a relationship, one that I hope will have a happy ending and he just graduated. I love and trust him but I also know that some men may flirt about but still have that one person they would return 2. During the service year, there would be lots of side attractions or distractions, ranging from the shorts on the pretty ladies to the cute guys and the 'dimpled' guys etc.
Is it possible 4 a guy 2 remain absolutely faithful during this time? How many of you guys were faithful 2 your spouses and how many of the ladies were faithful 2 their men?

u knw dat thr will be lots of side attractions and u still think ur boyfrnd will jump and pass.... If u knwdat he isnt the typ dat will be goin for anythin in skirt den why r u worryn urself

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Cutehector4u:
u knw dat thr will be lots of side attractions and u still think ur boyfrnd will jump and pass.... If u knwdat he isnt the typ dat will be goin for anythin in skirt den why r u worryn urself

Where him wan jump and pass go, I go cut the legs, lol. I'm jst wondering what it feels like 4 guys dats all

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Forget him he will be cheating on you with his side chicks..

divAnnie:

Where him wan jump and pass go, I go cut the legs, lol. I'm jst wondering what it feels like 4 guys dats all

lmao...so u will fly frm whr u r to the camp to cut his boytoy wen he is chykn anoda girl abi.... Well it feels like ur goin out thr to meet new people, new frnds, new minds,,... U knw... Some u may find so interesting dat u would want to get personal or intimate with dem...shey u grab.. U get to forget old frnds in school nd u meet new frnds.... So its cool... My dear, u hav to be realistic with urself sha.... U shuldnt b fantasizin oh mehn, will dis my boyfrnd be thinkin of me right now, wat will he be doin now, i hope he is not chykn another girll...etc lol... Trust me, he is meeting new people...nd probably due to the lots ov activities in camp, u hardly come acrosss his mind.... Wen u go for service, u too will forget abt him tooo...

It's a matter of choice. Simple.

Cutehector4u:
lmao...so u will fly frm whr u r to the camp to cut his boytoy wen he is chykn anoda girl abi.... Well it feels like ur goin out thr to meet new people, new frnds, new minds,,... U knw... Some u may find so interesting dat u would want to get personal or intimate with dem...shey u grab.. U get to forget old frnds in school nd u meet new frnds.... So its cool... My dear, u hav to be realistic with urself sha.... U shuldnt b fantasizin oh mehn, will dis my boyfrnd be thinkin of me right now, wat will he be doin now, i hope he is not chykn another girll...etc lol... Trust me, he is meeting new people...nd probably due to the lots ov activities in camp, u hardly come acrosss his mind.... Wen u go for service, u too will forget abt him tooo...

Ok, noted. I guess its one of the defining moments in a relationship. Thanks

DesChyko:
It's a matter of choice. Simple.

I agree with that

divAnnie:

Ok, noted. I guess its one of the defining moments in a relationship. Thanks

yeah it is.... It sieves out the unserious boyfrnds.....

There are temptations everywhere and a faithful guy will always remain faithful no matter the environment he found himself.

Tallesty1:
There are temptations everywhere and a faithful guy will always remain faithful no matter the environment he found himself.

Wow, true talk bro

Guys get tempted everywhere...... If he wants to be faithful, he will! If he doesn't, nothing said here will stop him, right?
But I'm glad you know there's always a particular lady a guy can't do without. Pray you're that lady!
Service distractions will come and go.

hmmnn... Story for the gods

I had always find it hard to cheat on my girl . . Unlike my friends . . I dunno why i'm like this,but i which to change cos i dnt tink gals are worth my loyalty . . I remembered when i went to my home community . . Having sex dia is like taking breakfast . . A gal ws offered to me on a platter,but i rejected her . . My pals dia b like,"guy u dull o" . . Bt i didnt giv an eff

BreezyRita:
Guys get tempted everywhere...... If he wants to be faithful, he will! If he doesn't, nothing said here will stop him, right?
But I'm glad you know there's always a particular lady a guy can't do without. Pray you're that lady!
Service distractions will come and go.

Ooohh, nice words. Thanks dear

mesoade:
I had always find it hard to cheat on my girl . . Unlike my friends . . I dunno why i'm like this,but i which to change cos i dnt tink gals are worth my loyalty . . I remembered when i went to my home community . . Having sex dia is like taking breakfast . . A gal ws offered to me on a platter,but i rejected her . . My pals dia b like,"guy u dull o" . . Bt i didnt giv an eff

Guys like you are quite rare so do not compromise who you are because of what some girls are. Keep it up!!

Mrfils:
hmmnn... Story for the gods

You are entitled 2 your opinions

divAnnie:

You are entitled 2 your opinions

Glad u recognized dat

divAnnie:
Hi ladies and gents. I have been in constant thoughts about this. After school, then the youth service. I am in a relationship, one that I hope will have a happy ending and he just graduated. I love and trust him but I also know that some men may flirt about but still have that one person they would return 2. During the service year, there would be lots of side attractions or distractions, ranging from the shorts on the pretty ladies to the cute guys and the 'dimpled' guys etc.
Is it possible 4 a guy 2 remain absolutely faithful during this time? How many of you guys were faithful 2 your spouses and how many of the ladies were faithful 2 their men?

Well, I didn't date all tru my service year but virtually all my friends den dt were in a relationship were faithful to their spouse....though I knw a few dt were nt. But that shouldn't be d determinant factor for ur decision.


Yes! It us absolutely possible for a guy to be absolutely faithful during service year

AgapeCharis:
Well, I didn't date all tru my service year but virtually all my friends den dt were in a relationship were faithful to their spouse....though I knw a few dt were nt. But that shouldn't be d determinant factor for ur decision.


Yes! It us absolutely possible for a guy to be absolutely faithful during service year

Thanks Chris.

divAnnie:

Thanks Chris.

uwc

divAnnie:

Thanks Chris.

you sound mature...

I like the way you sound and respond to posts...

nice one gyal... keep it up.

gyals like you are rare to come by :-)

danchuzzy:


you sound mature...

I like the way you sound and respond to posts...

nice one gyal... keep it up.

gyals like you are rare to come by :-)

Thanks, am honored

No1,ur TOPiC dint match wit wat u saying+not all guys/ladies cheat,hv not been Der sha buh frm wat i hear around"E NO EASY

FLAWLES:
No1,ur TOPiC dint match wit wat u saying+not all guys/ladies cheat,hv not been Der sha buh frm wat i hear around"E NO EASY

Ok oo, help me with a matching topic biko

I c no reason y u should b scared abt ur guy going to serve.If there is love n trust btw u guys,definately u ar gud to go.But seriously going to an unknown land to serve is nt easy oooo.Besides it depends on d kind of person ur guy is.

Tipiflexy:
I c no reason y u should b scared abt ur guy going to serve.If there is love n trust btw u guys,definately u ar gud to go.But seriously going to an unknown land to serve is nt easy oooo.Besides it depends on d kind of person ur guy is.

Alright, thanks 4 the advice, I appreciate

nysc, a lot of things happens there. One just need the grace of God.