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Avoiding Bad Marriage. Part 1... Joshua Iondo by benuejosh: 9:18am On Nov 12, 2014
After salvation, the most important choice you will
need to make is who to marry. This choice is so
important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if
you get it right then you will enjoy forever. A bad
marriage can affect every other area of your life.
This subject is so important, so many married people
are hoping to be single again so as to make the right
choice. If you are single please don't just be in a
hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity
to prepare for it.
For two people to come together to live in peace and
harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and
physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant
so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an
elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a
goat marries a fish where would they meet? You
must look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to
marry, nothing can beat this.
The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that
everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two
wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting
the community and nations negatively. Ignore your
age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a
wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for
you but you must set your priorities right. What do
you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?
Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who
you need, that will make you better while you make
him better. It is about destiny. That is why you must
know your purpose before you get married. Genesis
2:18.
You must pray before you choose. God knows the
best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It
is very easy to know God's will when sex is not
involved. The moment sex is involved and you want
to know His will then He will blank you out. Why?
Because you have broken His first Law of NO SEX
before marriage.
If you have had sex in the past then you need to
repent totally and stay away from each other for
sometime then you can seek the face of God.
Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your
marriage will be honorable in the name of Jesus
Christ.
Don't marry for sex, don't marry because you are of
age, don't marry because you are getting old, don't
marry because you are lonely, don't marry because
you need someone to support you financially, don't
marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don't
marry because you don't want to lose the person,
don't marry because of family pressures, don't marry
because you like the idea of marriage and admire
every wedding gown you see, don't marry because
all your friends are getting married.
But get married because you want to fulfill destiny.
Get married because you want to be a help mate. As
a man, get married because you want to fulfill your
purpose. God will help you in choosing, please let His
will be done. In Jesus Name Amen

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