Of recent, I been noticing a lot of changes in this young man and I don't want to draw conclusions.....

so I'm asking the guys here to help me interprets his actions....

He changed his phone security code and now uses a fingerprint security lock on his tab.

He is always messaging, either on Facebook, bbm or whatsapp. He does this more often even when we're together....

He doesn't let me touch his phone. He hides it as far as possible and he always go to the bathroom with his phone.....

if I ever try to confront him or question his actions, he would shy away from the discussion ......

I don't know what to think......

I don't want to wait till it starts hurting.....

I wanna know the meaning of his actions, to see if I should endure, take a walk or pick a race.......

Matured Advice please.......

Thank you guys.... in advance........

e be like HIV


E no dey show for face



Besides, who still does that relationship thing these days?

Well I don't knw what to say. But when that happened to me, I ended up hrtbroken and Boyfriendless 3weeks later.

Imminent break-up approach. He's cheating on social media, that's what.

pasqal09:
Imminent break-up approach. He's cheating on social media, that's what.

That's scary

You listed out all the ‘signs’ and everything.

I can't believe you are asking for ‘more’ .

Men only does that whenever they r hiding sumtin...

MEN
Chai..
Very heartless womanbeing...


**Back to the matter**
u shldnt conclude yet,
But I think he's cheating...

U only need to be sure abt one thing..

Find out if u r nt d side chick..

estyann:


That's scary

Yeah, so better fortify urself. You should know this, once ur boo starts getting sensitive over his phone, something is wrong.

I don't think the evidence you have is conclusive. At best it shows there may be something wrong, especially if he started behaving that strange only recently.

I think if you are not satisfied with the 'change' then you owe it to yourself to have a chat with.

Tell him, in clear terms, you are not happy with the new him and you would rather he starts paying a bit more attention to you and the relationship.

Someone else has his attention.

You don't need a prophet to tell you that....
Pls listen to the inner voice telling you that he's cheating.
If u can stand d competition, den hang on bt if u are very emotional lik me, biko kindly take a walk before it hurts much more.

don't arrive at a conclusion with this changes,he might be passing through a phase,have a sincere discussion with him

iamodenigbo1:
don't arrive at a conclusion with this changes,he might be passing through a phase,have a sincere discussion with him

I've tried striking a conversation with him a number of times, he gets angry unnecessarily and that's it...... end of discussion...... more like he doesn't want to talk about it..,,,

estyann:


I've tried striking a conversation with him a number of times, he gets angry unnecessarily and that's it...... end of discussion...... more like he doesn't want to talk about it..,,,

give him sometimes

iamodenigbo1:
don't arrive at a conclusion with this changes,he might be passing through a phase, have a sincere discussion with him

pls what phase?? I would like to knw.
Even to the extent of taking his phone to the bathroom even after locking it with finger print security lock


Madam Estyann, U r Single. Pele..

chymystique:


pls what phase?? I would like to knw.
Even to the extent of taking his phone to the bathroom even after locking it with finger print security lock


Madam Estyann, U r Single. Pele..

my dear this is trust issue,he who wear the shoe knows where it pinch

And you want guys to expose their secrete to you?

Lordabas:



OP don't conclude he's cheating yet.
Wait till you see him in bed with someone that's not you.

so that I'll develop high blood abi??

this is your clue to walk out of his life while you still have pride, you can waste it if you want to...

u better end the relationship now

estyann:
Of recent, I been noticing a lot of changes in this young man and I don't want to draw conclusions.....

so I'm asking the guys here to help me interprets his actions....

He changed his phone security code and now uses a fingerprint security lock on his tab.

He is always messaging, either on Facebook, bbm or whatsapp. He does this more often even when we're together....

He doesn't let me touch his phone. He hides it as far as possible and he always go to the bathroom with his phone.....

if I ever try to confront him or question his actions, he would shy away from the discussion ......

I don't know what to think......

I don't want to wait till it starts hurting.....

I wanna know the meaning of his actions, to see if I should endure, take a walk or pick a race.......

Matured Advice please.......

Thank you guys.... in advance........

i tink u are drawin conclusions way too early.. there is no proof yet he is cheating. all this tins u listed aren't substancial enough.

kendrick93:
i tink u are drawin conclusions way too early.. there is no proof yet he is cheating. all this tins u listed aren't substancial enough.

What's ur definiton for substantial proof? When he actually dumps her for another girl?

estyann:


so that I'll develop high blood abi??

Thats the best sign o.
Or when he calls you another chicks name

pasqal09:

What's ur definiton for substantial proof? When he actually dumps her for another girl?

maybe d guy wants a bit of privacy,who knows.. most guyz dislike girls who acts lyk pests..

kendrick93:
maybe d guy wants a bit of privacy,who knows.. most guyz dislike girls who acts lyk pests..

I don't act like a pest...... Besides, he goes through my phone at will and I let him. I've got nothing to hide anyways.........

I wouldn't be so curious if he wasn't so secretive.....

kendrick93:
maybe d guy wants a bit of privacy,who knows.. most guyz dislike girls who acts lyk pests..

Lol! Please let's call a spade a spade. What does he need that kind of privacy for? To hide something fishy.

Here are the interpretations young lady

He changed his phone security code and now uses a fingerprint security lock on his tab.

Interpretation:He is simply test running the fingerprint security lock on his tab

He is always messaging, either on Facebook, bbm or whatsapp. He does this more often even when we're together....

Interpretation:Business transactions have now gone social....

He doesn't let me touch his phone. He hides it as far as possible and he always go to the bathroom with his phone....

Interpretation:He doesn't want you to make any credit transfer to your phone again...

if I ever try to confront him or question his actions, he would shy away from the discussion

Interpretation:Questioning his actions with regards to how he uses his electronic gadgets? Sweet Jesus! Na you buy dem for the guy?

icebot:
Here are the interpretations young lady

He changed his phone security code and now uses a fingerprint security lock on his tab.

Interpretation:He is simply test running the fingerprint security lock on his tab....



He is always messaging, either on Facebook, bbm or whatsapp. He does this more often even when we're together....

Interpretation:Business transactions have now gone social....

He doesn't let me touch his phone. He hides it as far as possible and he always go to the bathroom with his phone....

Interpretation:He doesn't want you to make any credit transfer to your phone again...

if I ever try to confront him or question his actions, he would shy away from the discussion

Interpretation:Questioning his actions with regards to how he uses his electronic gadgets? Sweet Jesus! Na you buy dem for the guy?

he goes through my phone
he didn't buy it for me either....
talking about business, he does that in the bathroom/toilet too?
like 24/7 business transaction?


aaaah guy, what page are you on?

@icebot, you get mind of..... @OP, go and settle with your man and stop suspecting your man......


People like icebox will never make heaven.

hmmmmm

It's obvious you've made him the centre of your world that's why you're concerned with what he does with his phones. Get busy with your life., stop worrying about him cheating or not. For him to change his phone security, someone else might have caught his attention. Don't focus on that, focus on yourself instead. If he eventually call ΐτ̅ quits, you can find your feet. Be strong girl..