Some relationships are just not meant to be. After a while, there's no magic any more, it just wears out. You're sure that this thing is dead but you don't know how to set yourself free... Maybe these tips will help you.





Don't just pull off like that, show him signs that you're not interested. Stop having sex (if you are). Don't get into intimate conversations with him, if he brings it up, change the subject. Stop smouching, hugging, kissing, pecking and reduce the way you visit, he'll begin to get the message.




Start to in-conspicuously remove your things from his place. Things he wouldn't notice. Little things like toothbrush and cd's can be written off so he doesn't notice.




Be Prepared: Be sure of the reason you're leaving. Even if you have to cram it. Preparing your reason is important because you don't want to get sucked in when it seems your not sure of what you're saying or when you bring up irrelevant issues that will turn around to make you look like the bad person or when he makes you feel guilty. You know him and you know the questions he might ask, be prepared for that too. This will help you keep things short. Its a painful process, there's no need to prolong things. Also prepare your mind that no matter what happens you're living him that day. Don't do it by text, or facebook face to face is always the best




You can start the conversation with something positive, the good times you shared (provided you don't get sucked in yourself) to lightened the mood. Then gradually transgress to the fact that you never understand each other for instance or whatever your issue is.




Do it in an open place: breaking up in a public place (like a fast food joint) reduces the risk of a dramatic scene. Except you know him to be the gentle type



Arrange with a friend to call u in an hours or 30minutes time so you'll have an excuse to leave.



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NeduLuiZ:
ladies are usually scared of being direct about breaking up because theres no guarantee that the next would be better than the ex ...so incase it all goes wrong theres someone to hold unto ...after all the break-up wasnt official ....fish-brained mammals

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