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Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 6:53pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
crackhaus:overtime I found out majority of folks on here relate their personal experiences to majority, while these is just a problem with minor who have got different orientation and exposure. If majority of mother in laws are bad , how many women will still be willing to marry knowing fully well they will have to deal with a " wicked family inlaw". |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by thorpido(m): 6:54pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
cKaiser:The men who know are either cheating themselves or stay for some reasons beneficial to them.If Kema Chikwe is cheating,I bet the husband must be enjoying the booty.She a strong PDP woman you know.What do you expect of Abiola's wives?They had a husband who was not available except for the money.Even Abiola couldn't hate on that.He only wanted to ensure he paid for the kids that were his. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 6:55pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
thorpido:oh you have not met a frustrated man, he is worse than that mil you think is frustrated. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by GoodFaith: 6:57pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
saucechilli:"You also have men married to mummy, their wives are just for breeding, nothing else."-- U have a mess up mentality 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by cKaiser: 6:57pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
majekdom2: Now we are talking. Nigerian men are evil unlike other races, Nigerian Mother in laws are evil, Sister In law are demons, Nigerian employers are evil, Nigerian drivers are evil, Nigerian family in laws are evil, drivers are bad, maids are terrible, co-workers are monsters The only saints in this Nigeria are those women ONLY. Atimes the best question is to ask what they really want and how have they deserved it 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by etungha08: 6:57pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
Judging a story heard from one side is haif judgement-two wrongs don't make a right, if you want to pay him in his own coin,its you that will loose-reason,he can easily pick a 16yr old, dust and polished her to his taste and marry her, assuming you guys call it quits-but you, it will take the grace of God to have a suitor after 2,3... How many kids Pls my dear,continuing giving him all the attension,he is your eartly LORD,by so doing,you'll be heaping coals of burning fire on him-it won't be easy,but its possible. Goodluck |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 6:58pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
thorpido:and so character flaws is never a gender thing... This has been my message. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by pickabeau1: 6:59pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
majekdom2: Bolded. ... You may be onto something.... Interesting |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:01pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
crackhaus:she may be right in the end.... You know problem with most couples is the like the " leave us alone , its our life" |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by crackhaus: 7:02pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
thorpido:Your first paragraph would have been enough until you added the next bit I put in bold. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by cKaiser: 7:04pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
cococandy: Well because most men dont gather a pity party doesn't mean they dont know or are not dealing with it. Ini Edo's husband divorced her this year, They been married for 7yrs. Do you think he just found out about the cheating Ini this year? The good thing about women is they think men are dumb who can't even think. You see a girl dump her 7yr boyfriend for a richer guy and claims it was because of love, the rich guy too wont say anything and simply play along. To women, they would believe their scheme worked. WHen all those women were dumping their husband to marry Abiola they probably thought MKO was a fool. A poor boy sleeps with them for 7yrs no pregnancy, one day a guy working in Shell sleeps with them the following week they are preganant WHy because na the Shell guy spermm strong pass. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by thorpido(m): 7:05pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
majekdom2:You're missing the point.There are frustrated men.They usually don't take out their frustrations on their children's families. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by cKaiser: 7:08pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
Someone said Nigerian married women cheat also, How come we dont usually have threads on here everyday of wifes cheating like we do for husbands Well we can conclude Nigerian married women are saints who would/have never cheat |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:10pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
cKaiser: |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by GoodFaith: 7:10pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
cKaiser:Please repeat "The good thing about women is they think men are dumb who can't even think" Men are patient lion --women are not out smarting men Lot of men just watch u out playing yourself 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by GoodFaith: 7:12pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
cKaiser:Lying. secretive and manipulative soul |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by crackhaus: 7:17pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
cococandy:Now do you understand your bias? Women in blissful marriages make excellent mothers-in-law while women in sh1tty marriages make terrible mothers-in-law...this is your logic right? Would you apply this same logic regarding children raised in single-mother homes/broken homes versus children raised in homes complete with both mom and dad? Do you need me to tell you the similarities between the two? 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by cococandy(f): 7:28pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
crackhaus:there is no similarity. How did you even THINK of such a comparison? A woman can and should be able to decide when she's had enough. Rather than sit and watch a marriage ruin your person and who you set out to be in life. A kid has no control over who the parents are. A full grown woman has a measure of control over who she's spends the rest of her life with and if to continue in a marriage with a partner who's only goal in life is to make her as miserable as possible because he knows he can get away with it. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by crackhaus: 7:29pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
majekdom2:It definitely has to be personal experience, which is why anytime I see comments about the evils of Nigerian men, my mind automatically assumes it must be from some terrible personal experience (boyfriend, ex-boyfriend, brother, father, husband, etc.) No pun intended. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by cococandy(f): 7:31pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
cKaiser:I was the one who said it. Maybe for some reason you've been getting the last parts of my posts wrong.I'm fully aware women cheat as much as men. I just don't fancy the silly excuses ppl make for men who cheat and the women who clearly can't bear it but decide to stay put and then take out their frustrations on those around them. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by crackhaus: 7:32pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
majekdom2:Indeed. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by cococandy(f): 7:35pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
majekdom2:who said a majority of mothers in law are bad? So saying frustrated wives end up as mean mothers in law automatically means majority of mothers in law are bad? I forgot it is nairaland where things are twisted out of context. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by cococandy(f): 7:39pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
cKaiser:this bit is funny. I had to laugh |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by crackhaus: 7:46pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
cococandy:A full grown woman(MIL) has a measure of control over how her own sh1tty marriage can directly affect her relationship with her DIL. So you didn't deduce the similarity between the two huh? That's what happens with someone who's biased. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:49pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
GoodFaith: E pain am! I guess you are also used for breeding. Go unto the world and multiply 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by raumdeuter: 7:51pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
Interesting |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:52pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
cococandy:that was how the other lady put it, been a fan of your posts until your wrong assumptions came up . An unhappy marriage isn't just about a partner cheating . There are faithful partners who are unhappy in their marriages. Isnt t right to conclude such women in these marriages can turn out to be frustrated MILs. You are who you are because of your orientation and exposure which defines your character. I won't compare myself with anyone, but I don't see myself doing evil to the next person because I am frustrated knowing fully well they are not the cause. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by GoodFaith: 7:55pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
saucechilli:I am a dude "You also have men married to mummy, their wives are just for breeding, nothing else."-- U have a mess up mentality If any person think that people only marry for breeding is sickening People don't have to marry but just have baby mama Some people want to tell the world that the man just used her for breeding |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:59pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
GoldCircle: I know but there plenty of women who r thinking like that in real world. Loads of example of desperate wish of him to change loool. To be honest i regret marrying |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by happywife: 8:03pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
Thanks everyone for the advice I really appreciate . believe it or not posting my story here and reading all your different opinions has help me make up my mind. .also i talked to a lady who is married but once cheated on her husband and she explained that though it was fun at the time she totally regrets it now and spends nights feeling guilty n hoping her husband never finds out. I have decided to fight for my marriage by prayer, making some personal changes and planning alot of family trips n outings . I have spoken to my man n explained that i m willing to try again so long as he is willing to change n ended with a warning that if it happens again he will never see me n d kids again.I will continue using the condoms 4 now till i can fully trust him again. I dont think it makes sense for me to give another woman power over my home.we ve worked too hard to get to where we at. Well thanks again all. God bless u all. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 8:04pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
Amebo!!!!!gbegborun Sophyrocks: |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 8:04pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
GoodFaith: If you don't know that some men marry for breeding then we have nothing to talk about. I don't even know what you are yapping about ? |
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