SirShymex:


Darn!! I need to say AMEN to this cos you're a virtuous woman. And hopefully, you'll make the right choice by selecting a thorough bred who understands what loyalty entails - loyalty above everything and death before dishonour! Amen and Amen-Ra!

SirShymex:


From the bottom of my heart, mate.

Got love for Yields, and I'll never allow no one hurt her. She knows init.

Yields:

Thank you, Shy.

Awww, *wipes tears*. That's sweet, thank you. Shymexx, my protector.
xoxo

happywife:
I need advice on how to cope with a cheating husband.

I have always suspected that my husband was cheating on me but confirmed it recently when i found some condoms were missing from our home n his bank statement showed payment for a hotel when i was away on a short trip .when i confronted him his stories ranged from his friend took it to i was mistaken in my counting n to i went to the room but changed my mind n left without doing anything. but his behaviour showed he was sorry for about 2 weeks then back to normal. problem now is i cant bring myself to trust him n my love for him is reducing daily.when he comes home late from work or doesn't take my calls all i can think about is that he is with another woman. To be honest it's killing me slowly cos i find myself calling him n quarrelling with him constantly.

I dont think i can leave him cos he cheated on me cos lets face it most men do i just need advice on how to cope with my emotions cos i m soo unhappy n its affecting every area of my life . Sometimes i feel like paying him in his own coin but i m a one man kind of babe.

I just want to concentrate on my kids now but how do i cope with being suspicious all d time n being jealous n bitter n a whole lot of emotions thats killing me.

naijababe:


I hope you won't be cheating on her either

Jahblessme:
Chaiiii so many pained souls here
I wonder why when a married woman has se x its refered to as desecration of body??
Its just s ex,mutual satisfaction,back breaking and mind numbing orga sms.
Chances that most of these women are hitting the big O with their hubbies are very low..after all he's busy with mistresses, what time will he have to satisfy the poor woman.
Imagine playing the good wife fr years and years ,ignoring the guys at work etc
One day,something will give especially if the woman is tired of being cheated on.Its just a matter of listening to the flattery, allowing yourself to be appreciated by another son of Adam,friendship develops from there and b4 u know it,sekem sekem sekem.Pure enjoyment and release of pent up frustration.
Forgot to add that the fact that its sooo forbidden makes it more exciting..

Chop with condom and clean mouth.Go home and continue your wifely duties. No more frustration, someone out there gets an erec tion just by hearing your name,hehehehehehe. Happy wife,happy kids,happy home.
The charade continues till una repent.

F117AA:
Keep sleeping with young players.
You are just a MILF to them.
Very soon the video of your sexual excapades will get viral.
There are many videos of married nigerian women being hammered to smithereens by players online nowadays.

Jahblessme:


Don't get twisted.Who De find love?I'm a Milf??All the better.S ex is just a transaction for mutual pleasure.That's all it is..
Na so.viral video my a ss.Is this one supposed to scare me??
Abeg,realise that some people know exactly what they want,how and where they want it.
Chop and move on.

roWzayy:
Im in d same shoes as well.my hubby is a cheat in disguise he claims to love me but yet still cheat,when I was pregnant he went outside to sleep with anoda girl I found out thru his chat with his friend imagine how many he might have slept with wen I had my baby n d process of trying to heal back#d worst is dat d men he hangs out with re all cheating on their wives*my fear now is when will he stop and my prayer is let him not come n infect me with std or Hiv(God forbid)

kamkechi:
did I hear u say God forbid? Hmmmmm u better protect urself Weneva u want to meet him as husband & wife b4 he will go & carry smtin frm ouytsyd & give to u. 4d d sake of ur children madam use protection with him

happywife:
Thanks 4 all d info advice guys i ve decided since my husband has adopted d married but living single life i will do same. 2 can play this game.may d best man/woman win .


m out.

Onegai:


If my husband was a WEALTHLY FORMER PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES, A WEALTHY EX-FOOTBALLER (MOST LIKELY TO END UP IN GOVT) or A WEALTHY BASKETBALL PLAYER (who will most likely sign a 6-figure deal to write his memoirs after he retires)....

Baby, I will fight any oloshi strolling around him, cook him egusi and pound yam daily and pray unceasingly for him

But y'all broke brothas, you will be cheating, giving me High BP, I cannot even afford to fly the kids and I out for a weekend in Dubai, instead I'm in your rented house, waiting to turn off the gen at 10pm and sleep in heat, skabashing in the darkness telling myself "he will return to my arms one day" whilst you are shouting "hallelujah!" on top of one woman in an air-conditioned hotel room somewhere....

As my aunt said to her ex-husband, "I'm leaving you because you're cheating and beating me and you cannot give me hypertension and AIDS when you haven't even built your house"

She went on to marry a widowed retired military General #CorrectWoman

Onegai:


Sigh. I will speak only on the case that I saw upclose and personal and leave you to pull out whatever you like from whereever you get it from.

Hillary Rodham-Clinton has always had political ambitions. Even when she was First Lady. However, America (for all its Liberal posturing) is a very Conservative arena. They will vote a black man over a white woman.

And if I were married to a philandering man who happens to be the Tinubu of the Democratic Party of the United States, I won't divorce him. I need his support down the line for when I want to declare my candidancy for the Democratic Presidential ticket. Having people vote me as a Senator is way different from having my party leaders endorse me to take a presidential ticket. A fight which Hillary lost, the first time already, to Barack Obama. Because her position wasn't strong.

A woman who wants something badly, can play the long game.

Now I'm sure you will have all sorts of answers for this, to show how I'm wrong. After all, this is NL.

Excuse me ladies and gentlemen. I have important stuff to do now.