RollingFella:


@rationalmind, please do not get too worked up. NL is a forum were everyone can learn new things from real life experiences of others. You actually have a valid point in your line of arguement and thoughts. And you need a basis and facts to be able to establish your line of thoughts too as regards the claims made by 'some men' of not indulging in infidelity. But unfortunately, the basis and facts you need to establish and firm up your arguement and line of thoughts may not be available on NL because its a social internet and faceless forum. But again, as a parable...'you can not break and throw away all the eggs in a crate just becuase only one egg is rotten'.....Marital fidelity doubts among so many is a direct result of societal moral degredation. Believe it rationalmind, a lot of men have have never cheated on their spouse!

Nonso23:

You aren't.

A runs babe understands that she is not allowed to cheat after marriage but the man is due to his DNA.
As long as she can hide her own cheating expertly and tolerate the flambuoyant cheating of the husband due to his DNA issues her father will not have to refund her brideprice. Everybody is happy.

Nonso23:

I disagree.

The marriage is open at one end only. The man's end to balance the effects cheating has on the DNA.
He doesn't have to hide.
The woman must hide and also prevent suspicion around herself unless her father will pay back a huge sum of money.

Mondisweets:
If i get a faithful husband i will even cook tripes for him at 2am sef

rationalmind:


You know, if I were a cheating husband whose wife is on nairaland, I know of no better way to reinforce her trust in me other than coming to threads like this to say I've never cheated on my wife.

So, instead of pretending there's anything wrong with the question, why not answer it.



Lol, you seem to know so much about me.

So, how did you arrive at the bolded?

How did you know what I'll do if situation is reversed?

I hope your case won't be like that of someone who when asked to defend her claims resorted to insults and personal attacks

alutacontinua:
Present!
Since I got married to my wife, she's been the only woman in my universe.
Even some women on NL here try to seduce me (names witheld) but I am too committed to my wife for them to succeed.

iykedare:
Nice thread. I`m in.
You guys need to know that faithful men could become unfaithful and vice versa. The steps to tacking this kind of problem is to find out why men cheat and circumstances which could push men to cheat. No man was born to cheat. Women are just being unrealistic and selfish when they refuse to understand that some men have genuine reason to cheat.
Its not just enough for you to want your husband to be faithful because you are jealous or because you made a marital vow. NA na na na .


Instead of opening hundreds of threads on faithful and unfaithful men every hour,ask yourself ``[size=14pt]why do men cheat[/size]``??

Nonso23:

I disagree.

The marriage is open at one end only. The man's end to balance the effects cheating has on the DNA.
He doesn't have to hide.
The woman must hide and also prevent suspicion around herself unless her father will pay back a huge sum of money.

Nonso23:


Agreement is Agreement. They will settle according to the tenets of tradition. That's how it is.
Whether it is 5 naira or 5 billion he must be refunded it doesn't matter whether you changed or not.

Nonso23:


Na so o!
No man should fight against his nature. DNA issues are next to impossible to correct. So we have to continue cheating.
Women are not allowed!

Nonso23:

Did I create myself Thankfully, God is not like amadioha. He is all merciful!

Nonso23:

Exactly the reason why he will be merciful!
IT IS IN OUR DNA!

Please don't come to spoil this thread

If a man is NOT satisfied with the conduct of his wife sexually or otherwise, it is HIS duty to tell her where he needs improvement lovingly and if she does not bulge, report to his/her parents, pastors, elders, ignore, separate or divorce.

There is no excuse for a man to cheat; none!

I believe you do not realize women have 'reasons' to cheat too? or it is the sole rights of men? If the woman in that cheating tread decides to cheat, she is seen as a cheat whether her husband pushed her or pulled her. if she does not repent, she will be punished as an individual for it and vice versa.

I thank God that everyone will be judged individually and accordingly.

Nonso23:


Thank you jare!
Afterall i can't do otherwise because IT IS IN OUR DNA!

Nonso23:

Na so o!
No man should fight against his nature. DNA issues are next to impossible to correct. So we have to continue cheating.
Women are not allowed!