Kachisbarbie:


@Agapecharis.
We do a lot of tolerating in marriage.
Let me tell you a lil story. My husband used to be one of the most careless person in the world, when I say careless____ I mean careless!! He can misplace himself gaan, let alone an item...lolz. Being a very meticulous person, that attitude was making me mad while we were dating. He was also hot tempered.

I talk tire__ very little change. Then I decreed that anytime he gets angry unnecessarily/misplaces any item, he would pay me N500. He didn't even care, he kept on misplacing things and would tell me to calculate the weekly fine for him. I increased it to N700, he reduced *smalll, I increased it to N1000___ then N1500, he would now be pricing two for N2500.

One day after months, I noticed REASONABLE CHANGES, I sat him down and we talked extensively.
I used that money, to take us out for a dinner...hahaha. Then I gave him *smallll* out of it, I took the rest, I can guarantee you, it was very plenty...lolz.
It has been years now, the man I moulded is definitely the best man.

kuphid:


Wow! Great wisdom there...just learnt a thing

AgapeCharis:
if d change is really gross... Hw r u gna decline in the presence of everybody? And abt tolerating... U mean u can go into marriage knowing u'll have to tolerate something probably for d rest of ur life??

destante:

hello, someborry declined hundreds of iphone6 proposal recently nau, I can try
On tolerating a thing, everybody will have to tolerate one bad thing or the other from their spouse for the rest of their lives.

AgapeCharis:
@bolded
Really??
Everyone?
I thought there's something called perfect match

Kachisbarbie:


The perfection is that, both parties have come to understand each other.
__ accepted themselves for the good/bad.

annita19:
Lol I saw this on facebook

Kachisbarbie:
sorry, I won't say yes.

I will form shy and run away
___bobo, so na onlookers come make the proposal big way?
Tchheeew,I thought u will say- the ring dey inside Rolls Royce.

did your hubby buy you even a camry? 



 


na joke o 

AgapeCharis:
Now, we all know that the ladies this days droll over that perfect engagement like we see in the movies.

Aiite. U'v been dating this guy for some time now. Let's say like 2 years. For some time now, u'v noticed a negative change in his character which u'v tried to correct but isn't working. Then one day, u guys are out somewhere with a lot of onlookers around and he dips his hand into his pocket, brings out the ring and drops the million dollar question will u marry me?
What will u do?
Knowing that u'r expected to say yes
And his/ur friends are watching also

tpiah2:


What else can you do but say yes?

You wanna break a guitar on his head?

Natasha2:
lolz okay honestly I wouldn't want to hurt the guy in such a place so I'll say yes to save him the embarrassment, will tell him my mind later.

AgapeCharis:
surest!
But breaking dt kinda news is somehow

lol true but he should be thankful I didn't do it in front of everyone.


Imagine everyone present announcing it to their friends later about one wicked girl who refused a nice guys proposal

Natasha2:

lol true but he should be thankful I didn't do it in front of everyone.


Imagine everyone present announcing it to their friends later about one wicked girl who refused a nice guys proposal

AgapeCharis:
and imagine d different news dt'll be flying in d lips of everyone dt was present wen u accepted.

lol at least na better news, and its not like they'll be doing a follow up to see if we finally got married so its safe to accept.

Natasha2:


lol at least na better news, and its not like they'll be doing a follow up to see if we finally got married so its safe to accept.

AgapeCharis:


Well, who cares? I can't take a vital step in my life in d wrong direction jx because of what people ll say

Hws ya day

Natasha2:

lol true but my stand is not really on what they'll say rather its about hurting someone like that in public. My day was fine jare hbu?

AgapeCharis:
same. In fact, it was finer

lol I don't trust this your wink ohhhh, that girl came to see you abi?

Natasha2:

lol I don't trust this your wink ohhhh, that girl came to see you abi?

AgapeCharis:
hehehehehee
Sheybi u b prophetess ni?

no but I dey receive signals from above . She came abi? answer ohhhhh

Natasha2:


no but I dey receive signals from above . She came abi? answer ohhhhh

AgapeCharis:
Lol!
At the present, there's no she

but there is "her"

Natasha2:

but there is "her"

AgapeCharis:
Lol
There's no "her" either

Natasha2:


lolz okies, so you're single and freeeee, I miss that.

AgapeCharis:
and u'r hooked up I guess.......I muss that

Hws ur night jare

Yeah I am, its stressful sometimes, but I'm happy. My night was short slept late woke up early just when the sleep was at its sweetest

Natasha2:


Yeah I am, its stressful sometimes, but I'm happy. My night was short slept late woke up early just when the sleep was at its sweetest

AgapeCharis:
Lol! I knw dt feeling.

Dt stress is one thing I miss and long for now

Lol are you serious?? enjoy your single life jejely oh tomorrow na you go come open thread say Nigerian girls are too stressful