Pls someone should tell me what else to do, I have learnt driving in two different places, even hired someone to teach me privately yet am scared to enter any busy road. The issue is really disturbing me because learning driving will help me alot in running around of day to day activities.

Why not try to relax ur mind...nd hav an open mind wen u want to drive....

jce:
Pls someone should tell me what else to do, I have learnt driving in two different places, even hired someone to teach me privately yet am scared to enter any busy road. The issue is really disturbing me because learning driving will help me alot in running around of day to day activities.

who owns d car anyways? Is it urs? Or ur husband's?

Driving is a very scary thing, and there's no denying that. It's a fact, especially for new drivers, such as yourself, as you're being thrown into a situation that you're unfamiliar with.

I know you're scared, but I'm going to be blunt -- you're never going to be a good driver until you conquer your fear. It might take you a while to conquer your fear. You might conquer it tomorrow, but if you want to learn how to drive safely, I really recommend getting out there and driving. When you get behind the wheel, it's really important to relax. Breathe. I know you might want to hyperventilate and cry, but you need to stay calm. It's one of the responsibilities of being a good driver -- you need to remain calm in any situation that may be thrown at you.

Sit up straight, and position your chair so that you're sitting up, and can see around you safely, but also make it comfortable. Make sure you're comfortable in the car, which means to adjust your mirrors so that you see the back door handles through the side-view mirrors, and that you have a panoramic view of the road behind you. Check your blind spots, your windshield wipers, your horn, your turn signals, and adjust your wheel to whatever height is good for you. You have to make sure you're comfortable in your car, or else it will be more difficult to concentrate and relax.

Even if you go one block behind the wheel before you have to pull over and switch drivers, that's good. It's a start. Part of learning to drive is taking baby steps. Go at your own pace. Maybe even sitting behind the wheel, adjusting the seat and mirrors like you're going to drive, but not being able to drive might be a good start. Do what you feel comfortable with.

Don't read too much about car accidents involving death or serious injuries, because that will birth this mindset, "What if that happens to me?" This is not a healthy mindset to have. It's good to be cautious about driving, but if you're paranoid, you won't be able to concentrate on the little things, such as turns, and watching for lights and pedestrians.

If you're driving with a licensed driver, LISTEN. I make the mistake in driver's classes of not paying as much attention to my instructor as I should. I missed a turn I was supposed to make, and then pressed on the gas while she had on the brake, so when she released, we shot forward. It's important to listen to whomever is in the front passenger seat. Drive with your mother. She does not want to hurt you, and she does not want to get hurt herself, so she will be cautious, courteous, and she will be able to guide you. If you drive with her, listen.

Again, you're new. It's okay to be nervous, and one of the important things about driving is to not throw yourself into a situation you're uncomfortable with. If you don't want to drive down the block, don't, but maybe sit behind the wheel and adjust the mirrors and seat and wheel like you're going to, as that might help you start taking baby steps to driving further than one block. It's important to remember to go at your own pace, but you'll never be a good driver if you can't conquer your fears.

lol u don't need to be afraid. the more u keep practicing the faster n more confident u will be in driving don't let that fear overcome u, u should overcome the fear dear. be going out with someone for sometime b4 u start driving alone, n don't forget to put ur Learners sign

EroticAngelina:
lol u don't need to be afraid. the more u keep practicing the faster n more confident u will be in driving don't let that fear overcome u, u should overcome the fear dear. be going out with someone for sometime b4 u start driving alone, n don't forget to put ur Learners sign

lmao..do u drive?

Cutehector4u:
lmao..do u drive?

sometimes : )

EroticAngelina:
sometimes : )

lol...manual or automatic

Cutehector4u:
lol...manual or automatic

automatic abeg tho I know manual..but I'm not so into it. I can drive automatic perfectly on any kinda road, but manual? abeg oo its so hard, plus I'm the type of person that don't like wasting time..I don't have the time n strength for gear wahala.

EroticAngelina:
automatic abeg tho I know manual..but I'm not so into it. I can drive automatic perfectly on any kinda road, but manual? abeg oo its so hard, plus I'm the type of person that don't like wasting time..I don't have the time n strength for gear wahala.

so if i buy a manual car as a goft for u , u will reject it abi

Cutehector4u:
so if i buy a manual car as a goft for u , u will reject it abi

lol I won't. I will accept n sell it but come in..u buy car for person? lwkmfly ^^ if u buy 100card for me sef, I go give testimony

EroticAngelina:
lol I won't. I will accept n sell it but come in..u buy car for person? lwkmfly ^^ if u buy 100card for me sef, I go give testimony

lol..why dont u think i cant buy a car for u...?

Cutehector4u:
who owns d car anyways? Is it urs? Or ur husband's?

is mine

jce:
is mine

haba..wats even dr to be afraid of,,, by the way is it automatic?

Cutehector4u:
lol..why dont u think i cant buy a car for u...?

lol nothing, just a feeling. at least u won't give me without SOMETHING in return lol

AutosBay:
Driving is a very scary thing, and there's no denying that. It's a fact, especially for new drivers, such as yourself, as you're being thrown into a situation that you're unfamiliar with.

I know you're scared, but I'm going to be blunt -- you're never going to be a good driver until you conquer your fear. It might take you a while to conquer your fear. You might conquer it tomorrow, but if you want to learn how to drive safely, I really recommend getting out there and driving. When you get behind the wheel, it's really important to relax. Breathe. I know you might want to hyperventilate and cry, but you need to stay calm. It's one of the responsibilities of being a good driver -- you need to remain calm in any situation that may be thrown at you.

Sit up straight, and position your chair so that you're sitting up, and can see around you safely, but also make it comfortable. Make sure you're comfortable in the car, which means to adjust your mirrors so that you see the back door handles through the side-view mirrors, and that you have a panoramic view of the road behind you. Check your blind spots, your windshield wipers, your horn, your turn signals, and adjust your wheel to whatever height is good for you. You have to make sure you're comfortable in your car, or else it will be more difficult to concentrate and relax.

Even if you go one block behind the wheel before you have to pull over and switch drivers, that's good. It's a start. Part of learning to drive is taking baby steps. Go at your own pace. Maybe even sitting behind the wheel, adjusting the seat and mirrors like you're going to drive, but not being able to drive might be a good start. Do what you feel comfortable with.

Don't read too much about car accidents involving death or serious injuries, because that will birth this mindset, "What if that happens to me?" This is not a healthy mindset to have. It's good to be cautious about driving, but if you're paranoid, you won't be able to concentrate on the little things, such as turns, and watching for lights and pedestrians.

If you're driving with a licensed driver, LISTEN. I make the mistake in driver's classes of not paying as much attention to my instructor as I should. I missed a turn I was supposed to make, and then pressed on the gas while she had on the brake, so when she released, we shot forward. It's important to listen to whomever is in the front passenger seat. Drive with your mother. She does not want to hurt you, and she does not want to get hurt herself, so she will be cautious, courteous, and she will be able to guide you. If you drive with her, listen.

Again, you're new. It's okay to be nervous, and one of the important things about driving is to not throw yourself into a situation you're uncomfortable with. If you don't want to drive down the block, don't, but maybe sit behind the wheel and adjust the mirrors and seat and wheel like you're going to, as that might help you start taking baby steps to driving further than one block. It's important to remember to go at your own pace, but you'll never be a good driver if you can't conquer your fears.

good one thanks

Just attach your learner"s sign permanently.
It should help to know that people would avoid you..but if na Lagos...em...na few people go give you space. Just go slow and steady for as long as you feel scared and if possible always have someone with you on the passengers side. Keep practicing. Everyday and your confidence will grow slowly.

EroticAngelina:
lol nothing, just a feeling. at least u won't give me without SOMETHING in return lol

looool..now dat brings us to a whole different topic altogether.... Dis is gettn so interestin..... Why do ladies think guys hav an ulterior motiv wen dey buy dem gifts...

Cutehector4u:
haba..wats even dr to be afraid of,,, by the way is it automatic?

yes it is automatic, I can drive in a lonely street but once I see major road fear overwhelms me

liricyst:
Just attach your learner"s sign permanently.
It should help to know that people would avoid you..but if na Lagos...em...na few people go give you space. Just go slow and steady for as long as you feel scared and if possible always have someone with you on the passengers side. Keep practicing. Everyday and your confidence will grow slowly.

that is the problem lagos road nawa

jce:
yes it is automatic, I can drive in a lonely street but once I see major road fear overwhelms me

awww... Like as iv somebody will come frm no whr nd jam u or u would knock down a person ....i get the feeling....

Cutehector4u:
looool..now dat brings us to a whole different topic altogether.... Dis is gettn so interestin..... Why do ladies think guys hav an ulterior motiv wen dey buy dem gifts...

lol coz u guys always have an ulterior motive oo bye!

jce:
is mine

can i be your daily driver, tho am a learner too

EroticAngelina:
lol nothing, just a feeling. at least u won't give me without SOME THING in return lol

this one you are using THING and winks smiley at the same time remember here is CarTalk Section... that is a forum for driving not riding.

jce:
yes it is automatic, I can drive in a lonely street but once I see major road fear overwhelms me

which car are you even using for this, cox we might be advising you, not knowing that it is actually an automatic Toyota Tundra 5.7L V8 iForce that we are talking about.

EroticAngelina:
automatic abeg tho I know manual..but I'm not so into it. I can drive automatic perfectly on any kinda road, but manual? abeg oo its so hard, plus I'm the type of person that don't like wasting time..I don't have the time n strength for gear wahala.

i have a hummer 2 come and show me how you drive perfectly Lekki-Epe express way is kinda free on Sunday morning.
NOTE i will use a 99 Toyota Avensis Manual gear for the challenge.

Lomomike spoilt all the fun

EroticAngelina and Cutehector4u this isn't Romance or family section where you guys can make out. This is cartalk where we get down to our business, hobby, lifestyle etc we talk strictly cars here. So if you're here to stay do the needful or you'll be kicked out by a moderator for derailing topics.


@ Bossforeva, abeg no dey ask people about the cars they drive. Most people won't find it funny especially folks who aren't conversant with this section and don't know you via your online chat lifestyle.

jce:
yes it is automatic, I can drive in a lonely street but once I see major road fear overwhelms me

Madam leave your heart in your bag just for one day and take the car out, bearing in mind the worst that can happen is death.
May sound harsh though but I started driving as a minor without vehicle papers or a license. I jejely hang learner, make nobody disturb me.
Be bold and try it once, alone, not with anybody guiding you.

GAZZUZZ:
Lomomike spoilt starts all the fun

Fixed!