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How To Get Better With Women Almost Instantly by donyjohn: 7:42pm On Nov 21, 2014
For most guys, the idea that they can get better with women seems a little bit far fetched. Almost too good to be true. I understand that line of thinking. If you are not used to getting great results, the idea that you can suddenly start to get them seems straight out of a fantasy world.

However, most guys are limiting themselves in their ability to get better with women and they don't even realize it.

Once those limitations come off... The results can be amazing.

And they can happen fast... as in almost instantly.

Limitations are just chains that bind us and keep us in a "box" and most of the time, those limitations are completely unnecessary. They are there because we have been conditioned to believe that they are supposed to be there. That it is supposed to be the way that it is.

Let's explore one limitation that most guys have that cripple their chances of having a lot of success with women.

It's the idea that you have to "compete" with other men.

It comes from the idea that women are scarce.

So, if you find one that you are attracted to, you have to do everything and anything to try to win her over.

It totally doesn't have to be that way at all.

Competition breeds anxiety for most men.

So, if anything, the idea that you have to compete for a woman's affection is a quick route to feeling anxious.

Anxious is not attractive.

Without realizing it, if you feel anxious... you are pushing women away from you.

You are giving off that "vibe" that they may not be able to describe, but they know they don't like.

You don't have to compete with other men.

There are PLENTY of single women out there.

Plenty of good looking women who will have the personality that meshes with yours.

If you get that idea out of your head... right away, you'll be sending out a different vibe to women. Instead of repelling them, you'll be attracting them.

And the results that you will get will be apparent right away.

Another limitation that most men have is the fear of the approach.

They will see a woman they are attracted to and hope that she will somehow just approach them. You'll see this all of the time in clubs and bars. The guys standing in the corner, checking women out, but never actually approaching a woman.

It is a BIG limitation.

If you can't make an approach, the only hope that you have is that someone will introduce you to a woman or that you'll find that one in a million who decides to approach you.

Not exactly a winning strategy, wouldn't you agree.

So, why is it so hard to make an approach?

Most of the time, it is because you have already decided what the outcome will be in your head. Without even testing to see if you came to the right conclusion.

What I mean is, a lot of guys assume failure. Assume rejection.

However, that is just something that they are assuming in their mind.

Not something that they "know" for sure.

Approaches become EASIER when you make them.

You really can't read a strategy about approaching women and feel the confidence that you need to feel. It has to be developed through actual practice.

Kind of like shooting a basketball.

You don't get better by reading about how to shoot a basketball.

You get better by picking it up, hitting the court, and taking your shots.

Reading might help you make some improvements to your form.

But, it is the actual practice that really makes you get better. And it is watching the ball go in that gives you the confidence that you can make the shot again and again.

Each approach that you make gives you more confidence for the next one.

And just like basketball where you are not going to make EVERY shot, you are not going to win over every woman that you approach.

That's just something that you have to accept.

The quicker you do, the quicker you can move on to the next woman and the next.

And then, you will get to a point where it does become easy, you will feel confident and you'll actually find that you are better than most guys are.

The instant that you decide to make approaches instead of just "checking women out" is the instant that you move closer to success.

Another limitation that I want to touch base on... is the idea that you need to be rich to attract women.

It's a common belief that guys have.

So, if they don't have a lot of money, they assume that they have to be lonely.

Or settle.

Most of the time, that is not true at all.

It's true that there are some women who are only interested in a guy with money. That is something that you do have to be realistic about.

However, most don't care all that much.

As long as you can support yourself and you are not sponging off of them... The amount of money in your bank account is NOT a major factor.

These 3 limitations: The idea that you have to compete, the fear of approaching women, and the belief that you have to be rich are unnecessary in most situations.

Once you drop them... you will instantly get better with women.

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Re: How To Get Better With Women Almost Instantly by bjayx: 8:11pm On Nov 21, 2014
U really need a job o. One jobless guy too will read all of d above before comment. If i read all, make i burst.
Re: How To Get Better With Women Almost Instantly by ALKARULEZ615(m): 8:24pm On Nov 21, 2014
Too long....

Gat lots of ECN textbooks to cover already

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