Forgiveness, at a minimum, is a
decision to let go of the desire for revenge and ill-
will toward the person who wronged you. It may
also include feelings of goodwill toward the other
person. Forgiveness is also a natural resolution of
the grief process, which is the necessary
acknowledgment of pain and loss- Psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky

Forgiveness is not forgetting. “Forgive and
forget” seem to go together. However, the process
of forgiving involves acknowledging to yourself the
wrong that was done to you, reflecting on it, and
deciding how you want to think about it. Focusing
on forgetting a wrong might lead to denying or
suppressing feelings about it, which is not the
same as forgiveness. Forgiveness has taken place
when you can remember the wrong that was done
without feeling resentment or a desire to pursue
revenge. Sometimes, after we get to this point, we
may forget about some of the wrongs people have
done to us. But we don’t have to forget in order to
forgive.

SO MY NAIRALANDERS, can u Forgive and at d same time FORGET

mooremedia:
It's not in our nature as humans to forget
the only person who forgives and forgets is God.

Infact forgiving and forgetting is dangerous.
A good memory of the past
will prevent you from allowing it to ever happen again.
Imagine someone that tried to poison you 2 years ago
brings food for you,even though you've forgiven the person
will you eat

It is good to forgive,but if you forget
my brethren,you're O your own o

Gbam.

You photocopied my mind

forgive yes forget NO

Forgive your enemy but don't forget his name

You can forgive but forgetting is quite difficult.

iamodenigbo1:
forgive yes forget NO

seconded

The best thing is to forgive and forget. Unfortunately for human beings, it's difficult to forgive and hell very difficult to forget.

I knw of a girl who can forgiv nd forget,...its so amazing..i hv wronged her so many times nd she keeps on forgvn me... I cherish her so so much....

It depends on the situation first I can always forgive but sometimes not forget.

Missmossy:
It depends on the situation first I can always forgive but sometimes not forget.

ok,so wats d worst u cant forgiv?

I even forget before forgiving.

Hence my getting hurt the second time.

Cutehector4u:
ok,so wats d worst u cant forgiv?

I'd rather keep it to myself somethings are better left unsaid.

Missmossy:

I'd rather keep it to myself somethings are better left unsaid.

no no no.... It leaves room for ppo to do it to u over and over again.. Let it out.. Who knws, ur future husband might note it down....lol

Cutehector4u:
no no no.... It leaves room for ppo to do it to u over and over again.. Let it out.. Who knws, ur future husband might note it down....lol

Lollz he knows what it is already

No need to say it as its difficult for various ladies.

Missmossy:

Lollz he knows what it is already

No need to say it as its difficult for various ladies.

i need u to tell me... I wouldnt want to commit it u knw...pleeeease..

major466:
The best thing is to forgive and forget. Unfortunately for human beings, it's difficult to forgive and hell very difficult to forget.

hey!

Stop generalizing.... I forgive easily... if you don't then then then then that's your problem...

Cutehector4u:
I knw of a girl who can forgiv nd forget,...its so amazing..i hv wronged her so many times nd she keeps on forgvn me... I cherish her so so much....

Bros! I bet u, she get plan 4 u...lol

mooremedia:
It's not in our nature as humans to forget
the only person who forgives and forgets is God.

Infact forgiving and forgetting is dangerous.
A good memory of the past
will prevent you from allowing it to ever happen again.
Imagine someone that tried to poison you 2 years ago
brings food for you,even though you've forgiven the person
will you eat

It is good to forgive,but if you forget
my brethren,you're O your own o

U re 101% rite...
Even if s/he had tested d fud, ion tink I wud risk eating.

saintuu:


Bros! I bet u, she get plan 4 u...lol

loooool..... She isnt the kind dat hides her feelings..she dey tell me whoha say if i buy ring for am, she go sell am...

Missmossy:
It depends on the situation first I can always forgive but sometimes not forget.

Dat d point... It 2 hard 2 4get if not impossible

Cutehector4u:
loooool..... She isnt the kind dat hides her feelings..she dey tell me whoha say if i buy ring for am, she go sell am...

Ma broda! At dis point I,ll advice u run 4 ur precious life o... Dat kind girl fit sell u, show u d moni

saintuu:


Ma broda! At dis point I,ll advice u run 4 ur precious life o... Dat kind girl fit sell u, show u d moni

she is so cute..... Oh lawd!! I think i will keep her as my mistress....lol nd marry another wife...