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Should She Go to visit her husband wife's family??? by barackodam: 8:33am On Nov 23, 2014
here is what happened.

She's married, already have a grown up son[teenage], her husband is a polygamist. He married another wife, but she's too gentle to display usual madness women did.

The lady came in the house, although leaving in another house though.

After 10yrs, she died, second wife.
As usual, the Yoruba people accused her, she said nothing, accepted and went to plead with the said family.

A year later, she reminded her husband that it's one year that the woman died.

The husband went to the ladies house to pay respect.

Now the problem is here.

The husband wants her to pay respect also, but her question is, for what??

She said she can't go anywhere, the deceased family are superstitious. And they can go any length.

She's had scary dreams, afraid to go, but her husband insists she goes.

The husband starts keeping malice with her.
Says nothing, doesn't give feeding allowance again, and it's almost two months now.

She's confused, what should she do??
Please, serious advice is needed
Re: Should She Go to visit her husband wife's family??? by LEERICIST(m): 8:37am On Nov 23, 2014
She should.
Re: Should She Go to visit her husband wife's family??? by chiefinalowo: 8:51am On Nov 23, 2014
The husband went to the ladies house to pay respect.

He shouldn't have gone there without the first wife except she refuses.
The husband created the problem and he should face it alone.

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Re: Should She Go to visit her husband wife's family??? by Nobody: 8:56am On Nov 23, 2014
she shouldn't! after they've accused her for killing her. she should leave that marriage and go n settle down with a responsible man, not a polygamist freak undecided only God knows what they will do to her if she goes. the bible says run from any appearance of evil. she can call or send letter of condolence, but shouldn't visit !
Re: Should She Go to visit her husband wife's family??? by GentleMimi: 9:03am On Nov 23, 2014
She owes nobody any explanations. Since she is having negative feelings, and feels reluctant to go..... then I will suggest that she maintains her stand. When the man got married to the second lady, did he involve her? Why forcing her to pay respect to a dead woman's family? They shld let her be, mbok! She shld trust her instincts.
If the man likes, let him hit his head on the wall. He sounds selfish. Mtchewww

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Re: Should She Go to visit her husband wife's family??? by Nobody: 9:15am On Nov 23, 2014
A united polygamous family again.
Re: Should She Go to visit her husband wife's family??? by veave(f): 9:24am On Nov 23, 2014
undecided

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