gnykelly:
there is this girl that caught my attention earlier this year. love her, love her attitude. perfect example of wife material. wooed her and she agreed.
after some time I discover that there is another guy at the end of the table. she never told me, but was able to figure it out. I asked her she replied she is her friend. and he is based in dubai. I told her she should put my pics on her DP and I will do the same. she refused flatly.

I waited and study the whole thing. one of the possibility that came to my head was that she wanted to use me as a buffer in case that guy fail him. so I decided to ask her this question' if you and I are walking on the street someone ask you who i was'. **she said just friend'.**

then I told her I don't want her **friendship again.** she was furious but I wasn't bulged because I will be at the loosing end if I invested time and money.
do you guys think I've been selfish with my attitude or acted right in my best interest.

GboyegaD:
You are more than selfish because you chose to end the relationship because she wouldn't use you as her DP. It is her DP and not yours and she has the right to use whoever or whatever she wants.

Wonderlands:


you talk like a fool.

ronald4lif:
You did the right thing fam, she's not into you, she's rather into the other guy, she's a time waster. Move on, earlier the better

GboyegaD:


If I do not belong to your school of reasoning you call me by a name right? So who then reasons like a fool between us?
If you do not like my reasoning then ignore instead of exposing yourself on here.

MisterLongman:

Sorry to say this but that guy is right.....
You don't need holy water to wash your face to see that the dude is being played.

GboyegaD:


It depends on how you choose to see it. He is just her boyfriend and she is not obliged to live by his dictates. It is her phone and she chooses what she is comfortable with as her DP. If he isn't comfortable with her decision, he should move on as he has. Trying to run someone else's life because you are dating the person is highly selfish and a sign of insecurity.

MisterLongman:

Did you miss the part where she said she would call him just a friend if she was asked by anyone while strolling together on the street.
I don't agree with forcing her to use his pic as her dp but with those two instances, the girl has another plan on her mind

GboyegaD:


I'm not sure that part was in the original post and if it was, then I must have missed it. It is good he has moved on.

Wonderlands:


you talk like a fool.

GboyegaD:


It depends on how you choose to see it. He is just her boyfriend and she is not obliged to live by his dictates. It is her phone and she chooses what she is comfortable with as her DP. If he isn't comfortable with her decision, he should move on as he has. Trying to run someone else's life because you are dating the person is highly selfish and a sign of insecurity.

Taleeysun:
Op Are you sure you need my advice?

FLAWLES:
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pinkiepetite:
dis gal.u b clown! lmao

gnykelly:
there is this girl that caught my attention earlier this year. love her, love her attitude. perfect example of wife material. wooed her and she agreed.
after some time I discover that there is another guy at the end of the table. she never told me, but was able to figure it out. I asked her she replied she is her friend. and he is based in dubai. I told her she should put my pics on her DP and I will do the same. she refused flatly.

I waited and study the whole thing. one of the possibility that came to my head was that she wanted to use me as a buffer in case that guy fail him. so I decided to ask her this question' if you and I are walking on the street someone ask you who i was'. she said just friend'.

then I told her I don't want her friendship again. she was furious but I wasn't bulged because I will be at the loosing end if I invested time and money.
do you guys think I've been selfish with my attitude or acted right in my best interest.

gnykelly:


well I wanted to love her completely. but don't you think it is wise for me to clarify before I placed my trust. I was willing to place her pics on my DP for every girl in my life can see but she was un willing on her side.

GboyegaD:


I understand your point of view however, if you put a girl's picture on your DP and she doesn't reciprocate, that doesn't suggest she doesn't love you.

gnykelly:


in love I don't think we should hide anything. she was hiding something as I suspect.

gnykelly:
there is this girl that caught my attention earlier this year. love her, love her attitude. perfect example of wife material. wooed her and she agreed.
after some time I discover that there is another guy at the end of the table. she never told me, but was able to figure it out. I asked her she replied she is her friend. and he is based in dubai. I told her she should put my pics on her DP and I will do the same. she refused flatly.

I waited and study the whole thing. one of the possibility that came to my head was that she wanted to use me as a buffer in case that guy fail him. so I decided to ask her this question' if you and I are walking on the street someone ask you who i was'. she said just friend'.

then I told her I don't want her friendship again. she was furious but I wasn't bulged because I will be at the loosing end if I invested time and money.
do you guys think I've been selfish with my attitude or acted right in my best interest.

herdeythoun:
...u acted the best way,is she not happy and proud to have you.?

Wonderlands:


you talk like a fool.

GboyegaD:


It depends on how you choose to see it. He is just her boyfriend and she is not obliged to live by his dictates. It is her phone and she chooses what she is comfortable with as her DP. If he isn't comfortable with her decision, he should move on as he has. Trying to run someone else's life because you are dating the person is highly selfish and a sign of insecurity.