if your boy friend  dont know how to make love what will you do

though it is bad, but i think i will teach him or advise him to look 4 any book concerning that

teach him or better still get him the kama sutra book or video and we go thru it together

i wil pretend cos i cant tell him its too embarassing

i believe they have the book sex for dummies. he should read and learn.

@iice
How would you know that he's no good before dating him
or u dey sample first before agreeing.
@topic
Sex is like good food to me so it has to be good to keep the relationship going if not fashee

@iice
To talk no be to do ooh!
Asking abut it doesn't give you the real picture and also room for
FUCKUPS dey on a first date as in over excitment.
Anyway loks like we share the same ideals as in
GOOD SEX MAKES GOOD RELATIONSHIP

Nice one iice. ENJOY.

like manakins said sex is like good food, soul food so if he can't hit it he better hit d door

Phew!  May be that's the reason my girlfriend's been postponing it, lol.  Well, how do I convince her that I've really learnt it (without having to try it out with someone)?  Reading about it and seeing videos is one thing (though they would help), but the real practice of the act must start with someone, and like they say, practice makes perfect.  If I can't practice with ma girl (and I really want to), then I'm better off without her.

I believe Bola has a nice idea.
@Blacknbold, pretending he's good when he's not would rather be more devastating to the relationship than letting him know how poorly he performs, the embarrassment despite.

why is a man asking this question?

@diddy4

Good question. Very good question

To all the egbons and sistas on the thread lets allow neophytes the oppurtunity and chance to make use of our experience.Can you imagine how many pple are been healed form what ever diagonisis we give.
Must confess maybe we've become SOCIAL DOCTORS/ENGINEERS.

we learn 2geda, it's even better dat way
i think,
but i'm thinkin i wnt sum1 wiv experience dat cn drive me nuts lol
did i just say dat?

oh i dint, my fingers did lol
cnt say it wiv ma mouth lol

@ man2man
are u a gay??

whoa!
maybe he's a novice n his girlie is experienced, who knws?

or boyie??

lol teach him i fink itz more fun dat way

my point exactly

Simple - Teach him

We are in the "women's liberation" days. Gone are the days when a woman would just lie down there and take it. Most women I know will school a man if he isnt "handling his business". It's a 2-way street.

On the other hand, and I don't mean this in a bad way (please forgive me in advance o) - on what grounds do you know he isn't good at making love? Previous experience? Based on what you have heard or seen on TV or in a movie? There is no "Mr Right". You could get a guy who is good but a jerk in other facets of life and vice-versa. If you love him, u may have to make do with wat u hv. As I tell pple, I will take a peaceful married home anyday to a woman I married just cos she can make me go 10 rounds in one night. After a while, letz face it folks, sex gets boring and if you want super-sex earlier in ur life, can u sustain it as you get older?

Something to think about

he needs 2 go learn cos i sure can't av sex with a man who can't make me screammmmmmmmm

iice:

@Douzy, man are u saying that you have yet to do it? or that you have but you having been oiling the wheels?

@iice, yeah I've never done it before, but I think my gurlfriend is now the only one delaying me from crossing the rubicon.

@2cents WORD bro

he needs a sex manual.

sex manual they got that?

yes, i believe they do.