I don't think is right to slap your boyfriend or husband. if he does anything wrong to me, I prefer giving him the silent treatment. my reasons are:
1.my face might end up turning black and blue
2.he will not have respect for me again
3.he will see as a lady that nag
4. he will think that he has done nothing wrong
5.when you don't slap your boyfriend, he don't have any right to hit u.




we live in a world that is okay to slap a guy but when a guy slap a girl he is wrong. what am trying to pass across to ladies is, not matter what don't lay your hands on your spouse, and expect he will not slap back, u might be surprise to receive a bomb blast on your face.

I think we should get married! ....only few will agree with this. I personlly believe you should understand your bf enough to kno hr will never hit you.

justmag:
I think we should get married! ....only few will agree with this. I personlly believe you should understand your bf enough to kno hr will never hit you.

dear that is not true. I have a friend that slap a guy and she thought the guy will never hit her back because the guy is so cool headed, to her greatest surprise the guy beat her up. she told me she will never hit a guy again because they are unpredictable

ireneony:
dear that is not true. I have a friend that slap a guy and she thought the guy will never hit her back because the guy is so cool headed, to her greatest surprise the guy beat her up. she told me she will never hit a guy again because they are unpredictable

When I say understand I don't mean "assume" he will not hit you because he is cool and maybe quiet or whatever attitudes that cud possibly make u believe he will not hit you! You have to have a dialog! Talk about it! Make sure he understands you will not stand for it no matter what! If he hits you for whatever reason. You will be out the door. Make sure he understands what that can do to a woman emotionally and physically!

There is so much to consider if a man ever hits you! I personally believe there should be no forgiveness after a man hits a woman for whatever reason. You are not a child that needs discipline! You have to understand that You are a woman who chose to be with this man out of the billions and millions of people in the world! He needs to understand what he can lose and what he has. Just like you chose him you can chose another no matter how wonderful he is. This perspective will only make sense to people who are deep in a relationship!

vizkiz:
i wonder why a lady will wanna slap her bf...These Naija girl sef don't wanna have respect anymore

They aint Loyal

No one shoud lay hands on anyone, be it male or female, not even on kids, there are more civilised and better ways to pass messages across.

ronald4lif:
No one shoud lay hands on anyone, be it male or female, not even on kids, there are more civilised and better ways to pass messages across.

Broz..
It's a Capital No to lay hands on one's wife...
But kids... ..
Why won't I lay hands on my kids...

so, I shld nuture a child who will see it as a norm to tell me Dad... U r craziey like those oyinbo kids..

Even the bible ssupports training a child with moderate flogging and temperate words afterwards.

I had some observation some yrs back with one theory that reigned be4 it subsided. It may still be happening but its a lady that 'Propounded' it--

"A lady has every right to slap a man, but a man MUST never attempt slapping a lady. Or else he isnt a man"


luckily i changed her mentality in time, but her friend no go gree. To dey slap just dey sweet her. She enter univ. She slapped and then: Gbam!

Her response when asked after been beaten on why to slap comes easy " I dont know. It just comes and i cant control it"

cc: Afrok

justmag:


When I say understand I don't mean "assume" he will not hit you because he is cool and maybe quiet or whatever attitudes that cud possibly make u believe he will not hit you! You have to have a dialog! Talk about it! Make sure he understands you will not stand for it no matter what! If he hits you for whatever reason. You will be out the door. Make sure he understands what that can do to a woman emotionally and physically!

I also hope she won't hit me... I am an ardent believer and adherent of the Mosaic law of an eye for an eye... If a lady slaps a guy, he should bless her in a hundred fold.

The law of effects and consequences,
You can't slap a man and not get slapped back,
You as a lady if you hit a man and feel because am a female therefore he won't hit me back is the mentality of a follish lady. If you want to be respected then you have to respect others.

daveP:
I had some observation some yrs back with one theory that reigned be4 it subsided. It may still be happening but its a lady that 'Propounded' it--

"A lady has every right to slap a man, but a man MUST never attempt slapping a lady. Or else he isnt a man"


luckily i changed her mentality in time, but her friend no go gree. To dey slap just dey sweet her. She enter univ. She slapped and then: Gbam!

Her response when asked after been beaten on why to slap comes easy " I dont know. It just comes and i cant control it"

cc: Afrok

I hope after the beaten, she was able to look for her remote control, put batteries inside it and started using it coz next time, she might not be alive (healthy enough) to say "I dont know. It just comes and i cant control it".

Why won't i sleep him whenever he cross his boundary

"To every action, there is equal and opposite reaction" Newtons 3rd law of motion. Law of behaviour says that " To whom much is given, much is expected". So any lady that gives a guy a slap, expects something equal, bigger and opposite, I think the guy shouldn't disappoint her .

If a guy am dating slaps me............ll just slap him back*in a cool&cold voice*

justmag:


When I say understand I don't mean "assume" he will not hit you because he is cool and maybe quiet or whatever attitudes that cud possibly make u believe he will not hit you! You have to have a dialog! Talk about it! Make sure he understands you will not stand for it no matter what! If he hits you for whatever reason. You will be out the door. Make sure he understands what that can do to a woman emotionally and physically!

There is so much to consider if a man ever hits you! I personally believe there should be no forgiveness after a man hits a woman for whatever reason. You are not a child that needs discipline! You have to understand that You are a woman who chose to be with this man out of the billions and millions of people in the world! He needs to understand what he can lose and what he has. Just like you chose him you can chose another no matter how wonderful he is. This perspective will only make sense to people who are deep in a relationship!

STORY FOR THE GODS

Hmmmm

many nigerian girls will be watching film cos whites act weak to their wives, in real life dey even beat their wives more than us........curlled from observationc

many nigerian girls will be watcing film cos whites act weak to their wives, in real life dey even beat their wives more than us........curlled from observation

ireneony:
I don't think is right to slap your boyfriend or husband. if he does anything wrong to me, I prefer giving him the silent treatment. my reasons are:
1.my face might end up turning black and blue
2.he will not have respect for me again
3.he will see as a lady that nag
4. he will think that he has done nothing wrong
5.when you don't slap your boyfriend, he don't have any right to hit u.




we live in a world that is okay to slap a guy but when a guy slap a girl he is wrong. what am trying to pass across to ladies is, not matter what don't lay your hands on your spouse, and expect he will not slap back, u might be surprise to receive a bomb blast on your face.

my sister thank you jare. Pls can you send your home address here so I can send her to you so you could help me counsel her

ireneony:
I don't think is right to slap your boyfriend or husband. if he does anything wrong to me, I prefer giving him the silent treatment. my reasons are:
1.my face might end up turning black and blue
2.he will not have respect for me again
3.he will see as a lady that nag
4. he will think that he has done nothing wrong
5.when you don't slap your boyfriend, he don't have any right to hit u.




we live in a world that is okay to slap a guy but when a guy slap a girl he is wrong. what am trying to pass across to ladies is, not matter what don't lay your hands on your spouse, and expect he will not slap back, u might be surprise to receive a bomb blast on your face.

Lol. I love this

Why would any sensible and normal lady wanna do that?

ireneony:
I don't think is right to slap your boyfriend or husband. if he does anything wrong to me, I prefer giving him the silent treatment. my reasons are:
1.my face might end up turning black and blue
2.he will not have respect for me again
3.he will see as a lady that nag
4. he will think that he has done nothing wrong
5.when you don't slap your boyfriend, he don't have any right to hit u.




we live in a world that is okay to slap a guy but when a guy slap a girl he is wrong. what am trying to pass across to ladies is, not matter what don't lay your hands on your spouse, and expect he will not slap back, u might be surprise to receive a bomb blast on your face.

Talking from experience I figure. Too bad to see you in that state then.

9ja girls nd hollywood.......am just waiting for the day my gf will slap me.......

andyanders:


Talking from experience I figure. Too bad to see you in that state then.

why are u so anti-ireneony.

ireneony:
why are u so anti-ireneony.

I am not my sister. This is a place you can have fun with some posts. Hope I am not hitting u hard. You are my beautiful sister.Nothing do you. Just following your posts. Hope you dont want me to port? I can take a leave.

Afrok:
I hope after the beaten, she was able to look for her remote control, put batteries inside it and started using it coz next time, she might not be alive (healthy enough) to say "I dont know. It just comes and i cant control it".

lmao, she don repent

VickyyB:
Why won't i sleep him whenever he cross his boundary

But then, you must make it clear to him what his boundary is!

ireneony creating sensitive threads since 2013

lilmaxfidel:
ireneony creating sensitive threads since 2013

who are you?