ireneony:
op, don't be desperate to get married. pls remove that mentality of you having job for your lack of suitors. with a job u have I think social media will be the best place to find a suitor. I know what am saying, pls don't look down on the power of social media and I know that u have lot of guys that ask u out on your social media.
sis, the truth is no man have that time to toast a lady this days. if u like trek from Kaduna to sokoto no car will stop for u, even when they stop, the arrogant one is what u see.
most gentle guys don't even have the time to woo a lady except on social media.
don't be desperate your time will come

Cinderluv:

my ideal partner:
a good christian, has a good university degree, Good spoken English, sensible, compassionate,hard-working,morally upright
older than I am, taller or same height with me, has a good job. Am i asking for too much?

veevean1:


I de wait too oh, maybe nairaland will b the answer to my prayers

Cinderluv:

my ideal partner:
a good christian, has a good university degree, Good spoken English, sensible, compassionate,hard-working,morally upright
older than I am, taller or same height with me, has a good job. Am i asking for too much?

jauntty:
No. U are not. Sound like u wuld like the corporate kind of guys...like 8-5 office job guy, the calm/gentle looking, comfortable type, ready to settle type.........

marvelousabah:
On a more serious note.i dont recommend u coming online with the hope of meeting the man which u desire becs all this E-dudes,will just play to the gallary.get what they want and move to the next catch.am not saying,u can't find them here but the chances of getting a real dude is 0.1%

Cinderluv:

my ideal partner:
a good christian, has a good university degree, Good spoken English, sensible, compassionate,hard-working,morally upright
older than I am, taller or same height with me, has a good job. Am i asking for too much?

Cinderluv:

wow! you're so smart. You got that to the tee.

Cinderluv:
Hello all. Please I need advice on how to meet my ideal man. I must admit that I have a problem and that is I can't see myself marrying someone I don't like just because I want his ring on my finger. I have a job that is highly demanding and doesn't give me much time to socialize. I know that some people may want to suggest leaving that job for a less time-consuming one, but honestly with the job situation in the country I don't see myself doing that because I have a lot of responsibility for now. But I also need a good husband. Everybody reminds me about that now and besides i know my biological clock is ticking away. I don't party neither do I attend clubs but I go to church on Sundays. Please I need suggestions on realistic ways to meet the man of my dreams...Thanks in advance

Cinderluv:
I appreciate all the advice I have received but nobody has advised me on how to meet my ideal man. I've thought of going clubbing with friends but as I'm not used to it, I've found it hard to do. I'm a social recluse so to speak.

Cinderluv:
Hello all. Please I need advice on how to meet my ideal man. I must admit that I have a problem and that is I can't see myself marrying someone I don't like just because I want his ring on my finger. I have a job that is highly demanding and doesn't give me much time to socialize. I know that some people may want to suggest leaving that job for a less time-consuming one, but honestly with the job situation in the country I don't see myself doing that because I have a lot of responsibility for now. But I also need a good husband. Everybody reminds me about that now and besides i know my biological clock is ticking away. I don't party neither do I attend clubs but I go to church on Sundays. Please I need suggestions on realistic ways to meet the man of my dreams...Thanks in advance

Cinderluv:

my ideal partner:
a good christian, has a good university degree, Good spoken English, sensible, compassionate,hard-working,morally upright
older than I am, taller or same height with me, has a good job. Am i asking for too much?

Cinderluv:

Thanks for the above. I'm not desperate really. Just that I feel that void these days and I continually yearn for the bone of my bone. Besides, I'm very closing in on thirty so I think time is going.

Cinderluv:


I'm not complaining about a dearth of guys. I've gone on a handful of dates with a few guys just that I haven't met that person that will make my toes curl in my shoes. Someone with whom I will fit like it's meant to be.

ted1741:
Here is my no, 00915195624127 or email, eziefulec@sympatico.ca, maybe we can get to know each other because am interested and I don't mind visiting the country for us to meet if we connect. I live outside the country. Am single and eligible bachelor (seriously).

Cinderluv:

my ideal partner:
a good christian, has a good university degree, Good spoken English, sensible, compassionate,hard-working,morally upright
older than I am, taller or same height with me, has a good job. Am i asking for too much?

A good university degree

Good spoken English

Older than I am

Taller or same height with me

Has a good job

tpia5:
Tell your friends and family you're looking for a partner.

And stop emphasizing "ideal" when doing so.

Freest:

Wait are you kidding me
Ok, am sure you need to check again who you quoted... I hope the holy spirit isn't speaking to you about me

Cinderluv:

Hi vevean. How's the sail going? Guess we're in the same boat?

veevean1:


I de wait too oh, maybe nairaland will b the answer to my prayers