Amya:
dDon't know why though. But at this time of my life, life looks completely meaningless.


maybe I need friends.

Highflyer3:

Last time you were miserable, now you are depressed. what kind of guys have you been dating?

Amya:


You just go right to the jugular don't you. Thanks, you've been a lot of help.

kelvine:
Maybe cos December approaches and u haven't achieved your goal for 2014. Cheer up there is hope.

Highflyer3:

Never meant to hurt you. Just trying to know the root of the problem

carefreewannabe:
Thinking that one's life is meaningless can lead to feelings of depression.

Do something meaningful to get rid of these feelings.

Helping others in your environment will give your life a meaning and you a sense of fulfillment.

Amya:


I'm still dating said guy. Really don't know the root cause of my depression. Can't pin it to any thing in particular.

Amya:


Like? Please in details. Thanks

Amya:


I'm still dating said guy. Really don't know the root cause of my depression. Can't pin it to any thing in particular.

carefreewannabe:


I don't know where you live, how old you are and what you are good at.

I was thinking of some kind of charity work every now and then, give an underprivileged child private lessons for free, regularly. FOR EXAMPLE.

By doing something for someone who is less fortunate, you will discover that your life is very meaningful.

That is just one idea.

cirmuell:
Well if you can't pin it on anything...then I suggest you join us at Forum Games section, we CAN cheer you up.

#4Real.

Amya:
thanks a lot! I'll try out your suggestions

okirewaju:
For you to be alive is a blessing. Do something you know will definitely give you joy. Help someone, take a stroll, etc

Stay strong!

Amya:

I'm still dating said guy. Really don't know the root cause of my depression. Can't pin it to any thing in particular.

Amya:


Expect me. Thanks a lot!

KanwuliaJara:
Being on NL will always tempt you to be depressed.
Too many 'sad' creatures.
Hang in there. . .
YOU DIE. . . THE HOKORO-HUMNGBATI 'WEASEL CLUB' WINS!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VeiYFijwH3I

Chubhie:
Maybe, you need to understand that your happy state of mind is never dependant on anyone. Expect little from humans so you won't be disappointed. Guard your heart with all diligence. Take an objective view of how you have led your life so far. What lessons have life taught you so far? How have you applied such lessons to become a better you? In what area of your life are you currently feeling a loss of your personal power? There's a positive feeling that comes when you know you are in absolute control of your life. Going by how society have imprinted it into our collective subconscious mind, you will find it difficult to enjoy true happiness in today's world save, you are willing to pretend and smile to the camera while you die on the inside. Break norms, break traditions and find what works for you a unique individual and give expressions to it. Dare the world and live your truths. If you need a friend I'm here.

bennyrazz:
money and emotional stress is the root cause of all depressions in Nigeria. Life in Nigeria is very hard. No light, Bad roads, bad healthcare system, bad everything, . You come across people waiting to dupe you of your earnings, your boss refuses to pay salary, women and men keep toying with your emotions. Mechanics, Taylors, plumbers, electrician frustrating you and you go to bed at nights only to hear gunshots from men of the underworld sing you to sleep. You drive flashy cars, you look flashy but deep down in your heart, you scared of kidnappers and their likes. A lot of Nigerians are depressed that is why a lot seek greener pastures outside the shores of Nigeria just to live a peaceful live, they don't care doing menial jobs so far it puts food on their table, they gladly pay their taxes. @Amya, take care of yourself jare. Don't let anything shake you. By the way some topics on NL can send you to depression, avoid them. Look for positive topics

KanwuliaJara:
Being on NL will always tempt you to be depressed.
Too many 'sad' creatures.
Hang in there. . .
YOU DIE. . . THE HOKORO-HUMNGBATI 'WEASEL CLUB' WINS!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VeiYFijwH3I

Amya:


so true! lol at some topics in NL causing depression. I sometimes avoid some topics so as not to increase my bp.

Chubhie:
Maybe, you need to understand that your happy state of mind is never dependant on anyone. Expect little from humans so you won't be disappointed. Guard your heart with all diligence. Take an objective view of how you have led your life so far. What lessons have life taught you so far? How have you applied such lessons to become a better you? In what area of your life are you currently feeling a loss of your personal power? There's a positive feeling that comes when you know you are in absolute control of your life. Going by how society have imprinted it into our collective subconscious mind, you will find it difficult to enjoy true happiness in today's world save, you are willing to pretend and smile to the camera while you die on the inside. Break norms, break traditions and find what works for you a unique individual and give expressions to it. Dare the world and live your truths. If you need a friend I'm here.

carefreewannabe:


I don't know where you live, how old you are and what you are good at.

I was thinking of some kind of charity work every now and then, give an underprivileged child private lessons for free, regularly. FOR EXAMPLE.

By doing something for someone who is less fortunate, you will discover that your life is very meaningful.

That is just one idea.