Considering the westernisation of marriage relationships in nigeria now where wives claim to be equal in authority and control , I think it is safer for men to use their children as next of kin, regardless of the age.

merieam16:
He can use anybody he likes,he gat his money...moral lesson wife should also work hard 4 her money so wen d so called husband dies, she doesnt suffer

Baby I love you for this..hardly do we see women that reasons like you just did..been lookin for someone like you !

pickabeau1:
You too are looking for the married men

When will the obsession with married men end on this forum

First it was looking for the happy ones, then the faithful ones, the contented ones, now those with Next of Kin

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Next of Kin should be someone you believe can handle your affairs in the event of your demise
That should be a wife for a married man
But some are blessed with end time wives in end time marriages so they resort to other people
Other forget to update their information upon marriage

Well as for muah , if my spouse has an issue for me, i'l make her my next of kin. But in the absence of any issue (and pending when she gives me a child), either my dad or mum will be my next of kin

Nonso23:


How many married men hang around here anymore?
The women on here have 'nagged' them away.
I'm sure it's the scarcity of married me that is inspiring these threads.
This section exemplifies proverbs 21:9.

It is better to dwell in a
corner of the housetop, than with a brawling
woman in a wide house.

Aggression is the order of the day.

O.p I don't know.

I know the site a married man like u can go

It is wife of course, she is the only true companion you will have in a lifetime..

limamintruth:



Well as for muah , if my spouse has an issue for me, i'l make her my next of kin. But in the absence of any issue (and pending when she gives me a child), either my dad or mum will be my next of kin

If I may ask
Why did u link it to having of issue?

fuckerholic:

Baby I love you for this..hardly do we see women that reasons like you just did..been lookin for someone like you !

here I am....lol

pickabeau1:


If I may ask
Why did u link it to having of issue?

Its simple. I believe whatever i have as my possession or wealth belongs to my kid(s). Also my spouse, who is the mother of my kid(s) is the best/right person that can effectively manage, on behalf of my kid(s), what i must have left behind for them upon my demise. This means that the only reason i'l make my wife next of kin is to manage my possession on behalf of my child(ren).
Thus in essence, no kid(s) in the union = no need to make the wife next of kin.

ok..

limamintruth:



Its simple. I believe whatever i have as my possession or wealth belongs to my kid(s). Also my spouse, who is the mother of my kid(s) is the best/right person that can effectively manage, on behalf of my kid(s), what i must have left behind for them upon my demise. This means that the only reason i'l make my wife next of kin is to manage my possession on behalf of my child(ren).
Thus in essence, no kid(s) in the union = no need to make the wife next of kin.

limamintruth:



Its simple. I believe whatever i have as my possession or wealth belongs to my kid(s). Also my spouse, who is the mother of my kid(s) is the best/right person that can effectively manage, on behalf of my kid(s), what i must have left behind for them upon my demise. This means that the only reason i'l make my wife next of kin is to manage my possession on behalf of my child(ren).
Thus in essence, no kid(s) in the union = no need to make the wife next of kin.

that authomarically means your sole reasons for marrying her is to bore you children
chei, god!!!!

Lumiworld2020:
It is wife of course, she is the only true companion you will have in a lifetime..

that is if there is love

AfricanApple:
that authomarically means your sole reasons for marrying her is to bore you children
chei, god!!!!

Not really
its just that the criteria for her to qualify for d next of kin post is that she has to give me at least a child first; simple.
Its not a difficult condition naaa.

merieam16:
here I am....lol

pls let's be friends...are you on twitter or facebook ? Add me.or you pm me pls

limamintruth:


Not really
its just that the criteria for her to qualify for d next of kin post is that she has to give me at least a child first; simple.
Its not a difficult condition naaa.

not a difficult condition uhn? what if she has no child, whose fault

AfricanApple:
not a difficult condition uhn? what if she has no child, whose fault

No one's fault really, but the condition still stands

BTW, life generally aint fair

merieam16:
here I am....lol

I see..let's talk on facebook na ? Need to chat with that inspired,informed and intelligent mind of yours

Who ever does that?
Your wife should be your primary next of kin...
After your wife and kids come your parents and sibs...