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Must everything hit FP, #bringbackournairaland

There's nothing wrong,if the housemaid does not av any interior motive ,also if they both live in peace in the home and d madam doesn't scold the maid anyhow,den i dnt see anything wrg #my opinion#

What the hell is the responsibility of a wife that she can't serve her husband in his household

Mutuwa:
Familiarity breeds contempt.
I don't even laugh with my house maids.Over time if they become so used to the family,u may notice some dissenting attitude which if not properly addressed may escalate to a state of contempt..This is why some people torture their maids,sometimes d maids themselves contribute to their assault,coz of their recalcitrant attitude.

That is kind of dangerous. She will vent the anger on your house hold.

I will rather treat my house maid as one of my children.

Check out ma house maid....

God forbid.

Very wrong

Won't take that risk at all.

lai lai. i dont really bliv in maids but if i have, 2 hings she dares not do
1. cook and serve my heartrob
2. wash his clothes.

na only me fit do those.

Mutuwa:
Familiarity breeds contempt.
I don't even laugh with my house maids.Over time if they become so used to the family,u may notice some dissenting attitude which if not properly addressed may escalate to a state of contempt..This is why some people torture their maids,sometimes d maids themselves contribute to their assault,coz of their recalcitrant attitude.

exactly, no dey folo them laff oh....#beware of rat poison tho...

It is a good thing.

assana:
There's nothing wrong,if the housemaid does not av any interior motive ,also if they both live in peace in the home and d madam doesn't scold the maid anyhow,den i dnt see anything wrg #my opinion#

You mean ulterior? [s]

assana:
There's nothing wrong,if the housemaid does not av any interior motive ,also if they both live in peace in the home and d madam doesn't scold the maid anyhow,den i dnt see anything wrg #my opinion#

You mean ulterior?

NaijaOptimist:
She would eventually serve him "every other thing".

hahaha definately

ABSOLUTELY WRONG!! !

dammytosh:


That is kind of dangerous. She will vent the anger on your house hold.

I will rather treat my house maid as one of my children.

Yea i get your gist..but i dont mean treat them with disdain ofcourse they are sm one else's kids.but the key word hia is dnt be too familiar with them..let it be a fiduciary relationship.My maids are well fed and to an extent my guests mistake them for my sister or wife's sis,coz of their looks.they are not malnourished and putting on rags like others treat them..but out of experience i tell u dont be familiar with them..

Very, very, very, very, very wrong. Don't even think about it. Reason; They can pass through the housemaid to manipulate on the husband. I can neva allow a maid to cook or serve me my meal, neva.

[color=#770077][/color]I disagree with the assertion. It is definitely wrong... Before it gets out of hand and she starts eating with the husband.

#Nsogbu di

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Won't take that risk at all.

Where have u been?

Not good at all cos from food serving wil turn to another thing.

#LadiesBeWise

hell no

Guys dey say 'wrong',


girls dey say 'not bad'

Different strokes for different folks.

To avoid stories that touch......it's not a safe idea

NaijaOptimist:
She would eventually serve him "every other thing".

Some women can be lazy and stupid at same time.

if a househelp should serve me den wat is de work of mi wife.

Its very wrong especially if its a female househelp, b4 u know it,Oga will ask for his food in the bedroom wen madam is not around and then the opportunity to touch her...., will start buying her undies,roll-ons etc. Men whose wives are working should try to learn how to heat up their food, get themselves a drink of water when thirsty, run batting water etc, without acting as if they're handicapped, expectn the housemaid to even wash their undies.Many a female house maid have been put in the family way by Oga of the house, who discovered that such a'beauty' in his home shld be 'tasted'.Wives shine your eyes.and don't expose your husby to hawks.

Mutuwa:


Yea i get your gist..but i dont mean treat them with disdain ofcourse they are sm one else's kids.but the key word hia is dnt be too familiar with them..let it be a fiduciary relationship.My maids are well fed and to an extent my guests mistake them for my sister or wife's sis,coz of their looks.they are not malnourished and putting on rags like others treat them..but out of experience i tell u dont be familiar with them..

I am touched by well fed and they looking like a family member already.

The discipline can then be added. That is wise and balanced then. Thumbs up