When the smiles start fading away and it seem you ve now become a total stranger..when no matter how deep u dive, you still end up in shalow waters...when ur hugs and greetings becomes disturbance and when ur romantics antics constitutes a nusciance to him/her...and he/she starts acting weird around you.

He nologer has time for you all of a sudden, and he shows little or no concern about ur looks and barely make coments on ur cooking..it could sound trival but he who wears the shoes knows where the pain lies..

Strange attitudes could be as a result of resentment or repulsive behaviour or maybe a hidden behaviour that is waiting to be unleashed or trying hard to conceal a secret he/she heard about you.

Although i may not well present it as interesting as it should sound but if u get the picture of what i'm trying to bring out you could as well contribute your qouta

Can't make out a head or tail about this post. Nice topic but poorly presented.

...then things have fallen apart.

^^ the center cannot hold.

mutter:
...then things have fallen apart.

andromida:
^^ the center cannot hold.

Mere anarchy will be loose upon the family...

Hmmmn... one smallie is using his head as talking drum somewere

mutter:
...then things have fallen apart.

andromida:
^^ the center cannot hold.

Jayne2014:

Mere anarchy will be loose upon the family...

...........
Surely some revelation is at hand
Surely the marriage is irretrievably broken and they are headed for divorce

veave:
Hmmmn... one smallie is using his head as talking drum somewere

on point! That is usually the cause.

Thats when small small issues that once upon a time could be resolved easily now become things that cause world war 3 in the home
Nothing you do or say is right and everything is war.

It is only the grace of God that can turn that marriage round at that point cos once they have tasted being in anothers arms, they carry on until catastrophe stops them which doesnt always happen.

Zeemoor:



...........
Surely some revelation is at hand
Surely the marriage is irretrievably broken and they are headed for divorce

Not necessarily divorce but surely some revelation is at hand.

andromida:


Not necessarily divorce but surely some revelation is at hand.

That's if the wife can 'handle' the revelation

VERRRRRY TYPICAL of married men.
Dem go just wake up begin dey swell face. . . BUT KEEP PHOCKING!

I ignore his azzzze of course!
The reason EVERY woman should work.
Just spend time enjoying myself till he comes to his senses!

Especially, all these Nigerian NIGGAS with generational PSYCHE issues, poor communication skills and ineffective coping mechanisms from financial stress!

I nor dey look dem face o!
Na so 'abuse' dey take start.
If you cannot discuss your problems and concerns with me. . . Like a reasonable adult. . . . .I WILL BANISH YOU TO YOUR ROOM FOR LIFE.
If you come near moi. . . I CALL THE DAMN COPS on your azzzzzzzzzzzze!

Simple!

Abi I resemble im MAMA?

That would mean a lot of things. For example, he has come to the realisation that he doesn't need his wife. There's no greater distress than for a spouse realising that they aren't needed, and this usually comes as a result of their own making.

It's time to reset your husband's brain. Arrange a vacation and do whatever it is that you did or used to do that made him eat out of your palm. Or you can chuck up deuces and move on.

veave:
Hmmmn... one smallie is using his head as talking drum somewere

Meaning??