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Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Lordabas: 2:31pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
A husband has rights over his wifes body and similarly a woman has rights over her husband's! Sömetimes wives deny sex to their husbands to blackmail them forcing them to take this step. Its better to rape your wife than to visit a prostitute or have extramarital sex. If a woman dutifully fulfills her responsibilities, such a situation wont arise where a husband has to force himself on her. I feel marital rape shouldn't be regarded as a crime, and the courts should see the reason why the husband was induced into taking this drastic step! Pls Share Your thoughts
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Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
Marital murder should not be seen as a crime since the wife has rights over her husband's body as he does hers 13 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 4:00pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
Lordabas: if your wife doesn't want sëx, go & fùck someone else. i doubt she would complain about it. marital räpe is a crime. even if it's not listed as a crime, it's ethically & morally disgusting. why will i want to have sex with a woman that doesn't want me? how do some men get to do the deed knowing the woman resents the act? 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by SAMBARRY: 4:07pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
coogar:same way your colleagues do @n@l sek with goats and sheeps chilli sauce where's that pin shore again sef 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by bamidele029: 4:26pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
Lordabas: Why would any sane man force himself on his wife. How can you enjoy the sex when your wife is in pain and crying There is never any justification for marital rape. If your wife has been withholding sex why not communicate with her and find out the problem? If the situation persists after that then you can call in parents to mediate or your religious leaders. Point is there are always better ways to resolve the issue without hurting your wife just so you can have your way. No one has any right to ever rape anyone regardless of if she's your wife or not 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by cococandy(f): 4:49pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
I di phoolish That's my thought. Lordabas: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by zeb04(f): 4:54pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
cococandy:seconded 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by edwife(f): 5:49pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
Onye iberibe of the highest order..... 6 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 9:29pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: and your own colleagues don't shäg horses & pigs? is bestiality restricted to men? sambarry, you need nutrients! 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by mutter(f): 12:06am On Dec 10, 2014 |
in most cases the women bear it silently. A woman that speaks out must have suffered terrible and sometimes constant abuse. When a woman gets raped by her husband it is a terrible thing because she is constantly confronted with him and is constantly in danger of it happening again. It is a traumatic experience. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Nobody: 1:43am On Dec 10, 2014 |
I'd bet $1000 bucks you came over from that "My 'Husband' Ra.ped Me On Our Honeymoon" thread. 99.99% of the comments there were abysmal. Dark continent, indeed. It's no wonder when even the small effort it takes to put yourself in your own wife's shoes proves futile, much less collectively understanding and attempting to fix the more complex social/societal, environmental, and structural problems our continent currently faces. Well, at least you're not alone.. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Nobody: 4:34am On Dec 10, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: I keep telling myself that I can't be surprised anymore by what I read on NL, then I read that thread on FP and this one, and I get disturbed all over again. There's no doubt that continent is doomed forever. Imagine what an actual fellow human being is saying? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by jemsi(f): 6:54am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Nah. Under Nigerian Criminal law, spousal rape is not a crime. It is clearly spelt out in the criminal, penal, and sharia penal codes. It is the english law that makes provision for spousal rape. Although Nigerian law does nt want to evolve. They are men who are animals with wide sexual appetite. Personally, I think spousal rape should even be criminalized in Nigeria, regardless of the implied consent of the wife because of the contract of marriage. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Nobody: 3:02pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
ileobatojo: I don't know what to say. I'm right there with ya 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 3:16pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
Can there be a situation where a woman forces herself on her husband to have sex without his express consent? I'm just asking, not supporting anything... Would this be termed r.ape as well? |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Nobody: 3:27pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus:I'm not sure men and women see raape the same way. This doesn't change the meaning of raape, though. If a woman forced herself on her husband, what do you think would be going through his mind? |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by adebisicutie: 3:53pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: Absolutely yes . Rape is rape regardless of it's perpetuated by a man or woman 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 3:56pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
adebisicutie: a woman cannot rapë a man anywhere on the planet. she doesn't have the tool required to perpetrate rapë....even her fingers don't carry the same weight as that of a man in the legal perspective. #genderequality 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by cococandy(f): 3:57pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
coogar:a woman can rape a man. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 4:04pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
cococandy: not in nigeria, USA & the UK. the worst she can get is sëxual assault - the only time a woman can be charged with rapë is if she is an accomplice to a man räping another woman. so for a woman to get charged with rapê, a man has to be charged with her. a woman can commit murder, lie, kidnap, do drugs, drive under the influence, cause grievous bodily harm, etc but somehow the court don't agree she can rapë a man. at some point, the coming generation would question our IQ when we are old & grey. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by adebisicutie: 4:08pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
coogar: A woman can rape a man, she can give him drugs that will make him not fully conscious but he'll have a hardon. |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 4:13pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
adebisicutie: the courts don't believe in that nonsense. only the gender with a penetrative tool can commit an act of räpe. your explanation is a lay man's perspective. legally, no woman can räpe a man. she only gets a sëxual assault charge even if she confesses to what you wrote above. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 4:16pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
Timbuktou:In other words, it's not really r.ape when a woman forces herself on her husband...yes? As for what would be going on in his mind, well I'm pretty sure it's clearly not going to be 'hey, I'm getting raped', he most probably would be enjoying it. For a woman, I think that the idea/notion of a sexxual romp (with her husband) getting the r.ape tag, only kicks in after the fact and not entirely during the session...and this will only be so if there's already a strain in that relationship, hence citing r.ape will be a suitable excuse. I honestly don't think any woman that shares a loving, passionate, and healthy relationship with her husband, will claim r.ape whether or not she was coerced to have sex with him. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by adebisicutie: 4:17pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
coogar: As a feminist,that is rubbish . Unfortunately a lot of laws are outdated and need to be updated. We want equality all across, if a woman commits a crime she needs to get the same treatment as a man would. Gradually we are getting there, laws are getting updated everyday and soon we will have real equality 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 4:20pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
coogar:I have a feeling you're getting the underlying motivation for my question. It's not really that a woman can't r.ape a man...but because it is believed that women are physically incapable of it, the idea won't hold water. |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by adebisicutie: 4:20pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: No one in a loving, passionate and healthy relationship with his wife will coerce her to have sex with him.the way a woman's body is built is such that once she's not mentally and physically in the mood for sex, she will be dry and there will be friction which leads to tears and pain. You cannot claim to love someone and inflict pain on her 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by coogar: 4:20pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
adebisicutie: only the gender with the pënis can commit an act of räpe. feminists can't do shyte about that cos it's not in the interest of the women. interest of the women is the main priority of feminism, not gender equality. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 4:22pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
adebisicutie:In an ideal world, this would be the case - but is it an ideal world we live in where equality can really exist? #Rhetoric |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by adebisicutie: 4:24pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
coogar: yes gender equality is what we stand for. Also a lot of ridiculous laws have been changed over time and this is one of them. Before it would be near impossible for a woman to rape a man but now with the emergence of certain drugs things have changed and the law will catch up with the changes soon |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by crackhaus: 4:25pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
coogar: |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
crackhaus: Technically, it is. Really, though, I wouldn't know what to call it other than her doing her thing. Pretty much or just get it over with biitch, depending on the state of his vitality at that point in time. True. Then again, there would/should be no need for coercion in such a marriage. |
Re: Why Is MARITAL RAPE Considered To Be A CRIME? by cococandy(f): 4:29pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
Big lie. Hyper sensationalism coogar: 2 Likes |
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