coogar:


you are a bush woman!
statutory rapë is primarily centred on the age of consent, nothing to do with boss/employee relationship. if the employee is over the age of consent, statutory rape does not apply. do you know the meaning at all or which school had the gall to grant you a certificate with this level of illiteracy?

coogar:


i think it depends on what each individual classifies as force or coercion. i used to know a dude who told me his girl likes it violently. they must scuffle, tear each other's clothes to shreds before she can get her "high". she needs a bit of adrenaline to enjoy sėx. now - in the eyes of the law, it could be argued it's rapë. hell, if she walks to a police station after the act, the boy would get a räpe charge.

one just needs to be careful - get everything behind closed doors on tape.

crackhaus:

does that make you a dimwit also?

cococandy:
primarily centered around doesn't mean limited to. Did you also know that having sex with a disabled person even if they are of age is judged under statutory r@pe laws?

Do you know that an above 18yr old plus student who is having sex with her/his professor can sue him/her for statutory rape and win because the judgement is that the victim could not say no because person involved is in a higher position of power and thus they felt intimidated?

Abeg park well bush fowl.

coogar:


ok - statutory rapë is having sex(either forced or consensual) with anyone under the age of consent. it has nothing to do with being a boss or an employee. the age of the victim is the key.



if the victim over 18 consents, it's not statutory räpe. his attacker has only abused the position of trust & he's committed an error of professional judgement. it's not & never can constitute statutory rapë. stop making your own bush opinion & forcing it on others.

a victim has to be under the age of consent for statutory rape to apply. so much for your güguru & epa education.

crackhaus:

That right there in bold is the fulcrum of this issue.
Some women will claim r.ape after the act if there's a strain in that relationship...just to spite the husband/bf.
I'm not totally eliminating the fact that there are beasts out there who force their way violently, but the treachery and cunning of some women can not be overlooked.

cococandy:
Did you also know that having sex with a disabled person even if they are of age is judged under statutory r@pe laws?

mutter:


..and I know a woman who had a baby and was stitched under the husband raped her the next day and bust the stitches. He came back late in the night with condoms in the pocket, he had obviously had another woman out there before.

coogar:


judged where? in owerri?

having sėx with a disabled person isn't statutory rapë if the victim is over the age of consent. the charge is still rapë, not statutory rape cos the victim lacks the mental capacity to consent, not the age of consent.

age is the only key issue to statutory rapë.

i won't give up educating you

cococandy:
And I give up on you.

coogar:


ada owerri!!!!
the last authentic ada of owerri. you know you can't give up on me. education is necessary in this day & age. the fees for next session has been increased - 20% increase.

mutter:


..and I know a woman who had a baby and was stitched under the husband raped her the next day and bust the stitches. He came back late in the night with condoms in the pocket, he had obviously had another woman out there before.

cococandy:
dont worry the people that have the energy to educate you and type epistles are coming.

Meanwhile in all your posts I'm yet to come to your point.That feminists are responsible for men not getting justice as r@pe victims?e pass like that? No?

cococandy:
she told you ?

mutter:


When the woman tried to seek help by reporting to his family she was warned never to raise it again because it was an abomination. Even her own family people reacted that way. In Nigeria there are some things that must remain silent.

In the past she had sought advice (also from christian mothers) and had been told she should be happy and thank God that the man was so active, they wished their husbands where like that

mutter:


When the woman tried to seek help by reporting to his family she was warned never to raise it again because it was an abomination. Even her own family people reacted that way. In Nigeria there are some things that must remain silent.

In the past she had sought advice (also from christian mothers) and had been told she should be happy and thank God that the man was so active, they wished their husbands where like that

coogar:


and your own colleagues don't shäg horses & pigs? is bestiality restricted to men? sambarry, you need nutrients!

coogar:


that's fücked up!
if i ever get the chance to rewrite nigerian laws, any man convicted of rape would be manually castrated! i don't condone any kinda räpe either marital or campus rapë. it has to do with the morals & the ethics that men were taught while growing up.

i was raised with the sound belief that i am a superior gender. my swag alone would bed 9 out of every 10 women i want.....even with that, i have learnt to console myself that the one that refuses my advances has to be a witch, ogbanje, HIV/HPV-positive, etc and her refusal is because my ancestors are protecting me.

with this in mind, why would i force any woman on this planet to have sėx with me when there are thousands of others queuing up for me?

Mondisweets:
Marital murder should not be seen as a crime since the wife has rights over her husband's body as he does hers

Timbuktou:
What I find ridiculous is how they get an eerection in thje face of rejection. My pride's too much for that.

coogar:


aren't they the same ones women love to have around. the ones with little or no self esteem. na dem dey help women carry bucket for village cos they want to toast. some would wash undies sef to sweeten the toasting process.

they are the ones that give us real men a bad image. if their offer still gets refused after sacrificing their pride & ego, they resort to violence thus rapë. a man who knows there are other babes queuing up to shäg him will not use violence.

AfricanApple:
rape is a crime against humanity no matter who you are doing it to. the fact that i married to you do not give you the right to force me when I don't want.



your wife refused you sex all the time, go eff someone else, thats tit for tat

5minsmadness:


And the moment you do that the wife screams infidelity and asks for a divorce; then blames the man for being unfaithful.

Timbuktou:
You picked my brain for this one. Couldn't have said it better. Of all the pretty ladies fah, you go still go raype one no be virgin sef.

coogar:


that's fücked up!
if i ever get the chance to rewrite nigerian laws, any man convicted of rape would be manually castrated! i don't condone any kinda räpe either marital or campus rapë. it has to do with the morals & the ethics that men were taught while growing up.

i was raised with the sound belief that i am a superior gender. my swag alone would bed 9 out of every 10 women i want.....even with that, i have learnt to console myself that the one that refuses my advances has to be a witch, ogbanje, HIV/HPV-positive, etc and her refusal is because my ancestors are protecting me.

with this in mind, why would i force any woman on this planet to have sėx with me when there are thousands of others queuing up for me?

Stillfire:


Rotflmao! Dude it's not that serious.

coogar:

rapë is the lowest of the lowest offence for me. even hardened criminals like murderers & drug barons in prison detest rapë. convicted rapïsts get beaten up or sometimes killed in prison by other inmates.

chic2pimp:


Paedophilia takes the cake imho

coogar:


i would rather be labelled as an unfaithful husband than be a marital räpist. had hilary clinton claimed to have been raped by bill clinton, he woulda gotten 200 years imprisonment as a president. not even monica lewinsky's semën-stained blouse dented clinton's credibility.

5minsmadness:

All I'm saying is that its quickly becoming a lose-lose situation for the man. His wife refuses him sex (because its her body blah blah). This of course places the man in a precarious position because he still has the strong urge for sex. He is tempted to go outside and if he gets caught he is blamed for everything. The wife quickly demands a divorce (its the reigning thing now, divorce at the slightest provocation....makes me wonder what love is all about in the end).

It still boils down to the devil's plan. The bible admonishes that the woman should not refuse her body to her man and the man should love his woman. The bible teaches unselfishness.
The laws of the west are quite the opposite. They teach selfishness. Your body is your own. Put yourself first. Put your happiness first. You alone are number one, think of no one else but yourself.
This reasoning is going to be mankind's undoing.

5minsmadness:

Like, how can you compare murder to sex? Do you hate sex that much?