temitemi1:
What's big deal about virginity...

The typical response of those who have cast theirs
to the dogs.
Hence they put up/console self with a pseudo virginity-is-not-a-big-deal air/attitude
Deep down within, if given a 2nd chance, they'll like to be virgins again

If it's not a big deal, sit your children down [that's if u hv any]
and indoctrinate them daily;

You see, my kids, virginity is not a big deal.
Lose it at the first opportunity you have to be alone with the opposite sex
If you can't wait for such an opportunity [or if one doesn't present itself],
Just use ur fingers, candles and any object u deem fit ok?

And don't forget to pass this family tradition to my grandchildren, biko
Cos that's how I, ur dear mother [or father] did it oo

chimerase2:
Op even tho u fingered ur self or not
Is not necessary u must bleed during disvirginity
Not all gals bleed

Expert la la
I hail ooooo
Abeg school them jare

deor03:


Take note that not all virgins bleed. Girls involved in sporting activities might not bleed.

Besides, it will be myopic for the guy to marry her because of her kitten alone.

Why marry someone you don't believe

Oh. Here comes another cop out.
sports activities, horse riding etc blah blah blah

Experientially[Boarding secondary sch and University]
Very few Nigerian ladies get involved in sports[ even as simple as jogging in the morning for the sake of keeping fit]
let alone vigorous sports.
If u were Blessing Okagbare, I wud agree.

U go see them for everywhere flabby, lazy and physically unfit.
The next cop out go be

I feel and landed with my bum bum on a blunt object pointing
upwards from the ground*while she's crying*
That's how I lost it.

Just like that. From nowhere.
GIRLS, EHN.
Nothing hard una to talk or do
Man wey no fear una Cockk-a-doodle-doo story
na im take hand kill hmsf

ammyluv2002:
Virginity is a big deal

christabeli:
Another virginity thread? Atimes I wonder if people deliberately open this threads so that e-war will ensue between virgins and non-virgins. You don't keep your virginity just for a husband. Rather keep it for yourself.To Op can you stop this nonsense please? You are not married and you know it. I saw your post where you talked about your fiance less than 3 months ago. What is wrong with some people in this forum?

christabeli:
Another virginity thread? Atimes I wonder if people deliberately open this threads so that e-war will ensue between virgins and non-virgins. You don't keep your virginity just for a husband. Rather keep it for yourself.To Op can you stop this nonsense please? You are not married and you know it. I saw your post where you talked about your fiance less than 3 months ago. What is wrong with some people in this forum?

Lorlaahlozz:
Is ur husband on nl?...If no,then y posting it here?

iceberylin:
Thats cause you gave yourself your virginity

okiezman:


LoL....who loses virginity without bleeding hearing it for the 1st time...

okiezman:


LoL....who loses virginity without bleeding hearing it for the 1st time...

eckersley:



You see, my kids, virginity is not a big deal.
Lose it at the first opportunity you have to be alone with the opposite sex
If you can't wait for such an opportunity [or if one doesn't present itself],
Just use ur fingers, candles and any object u deem fit ok?

And don't forget to pass this family tradition to my grandchildren, biko
Cos that's how I, ur dear mother [or father] did it oo

lilmax:

sweteny:
Not all gals bleed when been disvirgin. I never bled as well. All dat matter is to be happy with urself. Forget d hurt and move on

angelsing:
Do research buddy!...I disvirgin my ex without her bleeding cos have read extensively about disflowering a girl which I carefully follow step by step guide I read on it..She din't bleed just little bruises. Its so possible for her not to bleed

Platnum1:

I just wished my husband will do his own research and not be so stiff necked.

Platnum1:

I just wished my husband will do his own research and not be so stiff necked.

angelsing:
Do research buddy!...I disvirgin my ex without her bleeding cos have read extensively about disflowering a girl which I carefully follow step by step guide I read on it..She din't bleed just little bruises. Its so possible for her not to bleed.

andraina:

Nt every body bleeds,lk girls dat tks part in sporty activities get their virginity broken cause of the nature of what they do.

okiezman:


Thanks for educating me didn't know till now

skillet:



What you have here is a very serious problem as his insecurity in that aspect will
Spiral into paranoia if not nipped now. I think what you should do is "show" not tell him.
You have been "telling" him about your self servicing before he met you.
This is the time to "show" him. Possibly use fingers and "instruments". Maybe
when he sees the actual act of self service, he will not feel insecure ova ur
past lovers. He will realise dat you only have eyes and legs for him and ur fingers.

By the way, I deflowered my babe without blood. Till today, its hard to swallow, hook, line and sinker. But whenever I see how nonchalant she is towards guys in general, I feel there is some truth in her claim.
So, show him. Stop telling him.

okiezman:


Alright man

andraina:
im not a guy

okiezman:


LoL....who loses virginity without bleeding hearing it for the 1st time...