SEE THE 24 Words of Wisdom FOR
ALL LADIES...
• My daughter, don’t cause a
separation between
your man and his siblings; it could
be dangerous for
you when they finally speak with one
voice.
• My daughter, I know that some of
you girls don’t
wish to marry a man whose mother
is still alive,
don’t ever think like that, if you do,
well, I think your
son’s
wife-to-be should start wishing
you're
dead now.
• My daughter, listen to me, when I
married your
father, he was as tiny as his salary
but I chose to
grow with him and today, those cars
out there are
some of the results of what we
started so little,
together, and
we’re proud looking at them.
• My daughter, there is this thing i
see happening in
your time, some of you girls now get
pregnant
before the wedding day, well, it
never happened in
our time because no matter what,
we never opened
our laps
before the wedding.
• My daughter, well, yes, I once
locked up the cloth
of your father because I got to my
limit of patience
and that was the only thing I could
do, but one
thing I haven’t said was that we
settled the issue
that same day and that was the last
time I tried
that.
• My daughter, look up there. That’s
the wedding
picture of your father and I, look at
him smiling, I
know you've seen it many times but
what you did
not know is that your father was
angry before
taking this picture, I hope you find a
man whose
anger
doesn't last till the next day.
• My daughter, when your Father
was riding a
bicycle, I was always happy to hop
on it and ride
with him, not because I didn't see
those men in
their little cars but because my
eyes also saw those
men trekking to their farms.
• My daughter, if you and your
husband eat a little
food with
love, you both would be satisfied.
Times
are not always the same; support
him in every phase
he’s passing through.
• My daughter, don’t ever close
your laps to your
husband in
bed , the day he paid your dowry
was the day you
lost your
will to do so, don’t be stiff and
try to satisfy him even if you were
angry with him.
• My daughter, a man would respect
you and be
more proud of you if you’re learned
and not totally
dependent on him. Strive to make
your own money
and while you're at it, be humble.
• My daughter, under the cocoa
tree that I did meet
with your Father was open and
good enough for our
discussions, yes; it was open and
good enough if you
understand what I mean.
• My daughter, in our time, we had
sexy legs and firm
bosoms to show our men , in fact,
we had the finest
ones,
yet, when we dress, we cover those
parts of our body, not because we
were not civilized
as you people would call it, but
because we know
that the eyes of men are hungry,
many of them
would only come, touch and go their
way.
• My daughter, there is this thing
you girls now
practice, they
say it’s feminism. Well, you can
prove
to be equal to a man in the society
but please, not
in your marriage because at my old
age, I don’t want
to start counting your husbands.
• My daughter, marriage is not a
Rehabilitation
Centre, if he’s not good enough for
you before
marriage,
nothing he does would be good
enough
after marriage.
• My daughter, you can see I still
wear my night
gown , yes,
because to my husband; your
father, I still want to
look sexy.
So, take good care of your
body, look good for your man and
don’t look like a
grandma after giving birth.
• My daughter, I’m your mother and
still, I'm not
interested in you coming to me
always if anything
goes wrong with your husband.
Though nowadays I
see some
mothers controlling the homes of
their
sons and daughters, I would only
say; shame on
them!
• My daughter, for you to have a
peaceful home and
well-trained children, have one
voice with your
husband, join him to say NO when
he’s saying NO
before the
kids but later when you both are
alone,
you can plead with him for a YES, if
not, the
children will see a loophole to
misbehave, either to
you or their father.
• My daughter, if you chose to live
together with a
man that
you’re yet to be married to , and you
are complaining
that he
hasn't proposed to you, oh, he
already did. Whatever he said that
made you start
living with him was his proposal.
• My daughter, your generation
does not see any
pride in been a virgin before
marriage, it’s a shame!
Your father met me a virgin and he
brought more
yams to
my parents and up till today, he’s
still proud
of me when we discuss in that
direction.
• My daughter, I know that no man
out there is
complete, but when you are looking
for your tall,
slim, fair and handsome, if he’s a
woman-beater,
please, go for the short, fat, dark
and ugly that will
give you
the respect you deserve as a
woman.
• My daughter, know, learn and
respect the culture
and
lifestyle of whoever you chose to
marry . In some
part of
Africa, you knee down to greet your
man’s parents while in some part
outside Africa; you
can even call them by their first
name and ask for a
handshake. Whatever they believe
in, if you've
chosen him, believe it with him also.
• My daughter, don’t ever try to
date a married man,
whether
his excuse was that he doesn't find
happiness with his wife or he would
have married
you if he had met you first, if you
ever try it, I curse
you already.
• My daughter, when I say over 52
years of
marriage , it
wasn't that I did not see any reason
to leave
your father, I saw a lot of them but I
bear his faults,
i forgave him to stay married.
• My daughter, these are part of the
wisdom i have
gathered over the years. and If I
had taken my time
to tell you all these, and your
marriage doesn't last
like that
of your father and I, then I had
wished i
never gave birth to you.

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