Ghostlady:
lol its true especially the small boys thou

Hi Ghost. Hp our grandparents are doin' fine? Lol

TheSonOfMark:



Exactly missy.

Twice I've been vilified by females who wanted more. I had feelings for both at different points but they both acknowledged being in thriving relationships and they still acknowledged they fancy me and consistently get in between the sheets with me so I suppress my feelings.
Months later, they quited their relationships and wanted to start one with me. I mean, Missy,you stated the rules, why break it?

You fell in love with me along the line? Well, I made an earlier offer and you turned it down. No way. Next thing I'm accused of USING them as sex objects. Hello! WE WERE USING (ENJOYING) each other!

lol,I feel your pain,love is a very complex thing,I guess they were not ready to drop their relationships and they got ready,you were tired of waiting

peekeeks:
..Lol..someone wants to knw. Used to av a friend i hung out with,we were practically jst friend not until she started fallin for my male perks and ofcourse she was engaged,we really had some crazy fun,went to parties 2geda,had some greatsex wt no strings. I sometimes act as her bfrnd to some dinner parties..Until she couldn't handle it,she became emotionally attached and driven,she wanted something serious.

And you were not ready to commit ba,well,am with the school of thought that thinks its better to fall in love with your friend/best friend.the only problem is that most people aren't ready to. Take the risk and see if its works out,because if it doesn't, then the relationship wouldn't be the same.girls are complex creatures sha

shyshally:

And you were not ready to commit ba,well,am with the school of thought that thinks its better to fall in love with your friend/best friend.the only problem is that most people aren't ready to. Take the risk and see if its works out,because if it doesn't, then the relationship wouldn't be the same.girls are complex creatures sha

..Take the risk??,did u miss d part wia I said she's engaged wt some guy.

peekeeks:
..Take the risk??,did u miss d part wia I said she's engaged wt some guy.

Ha,sorry I missed that,then I wonder why she wants to get married if she's not ready to be faithful

Babe2sure:
Rubbish! Utter rubbish!
Benefit ko, detriment ni.











I know, its men that will read and digest the five benefits. The benefits is for them. Na their stock in trade.
Won ti gbe nkan ti e mon je de.

but still ladies do FWB..... It just depends on ur kind of person.

Ekiti state government pay me my state allowance.

Nairaland is bowing.

That moment when Barack Obama's daughter wants a FWB with you.
Well, I'll just tell her...




























































































































I don't do such.

Sowi, buh me can't handpick even a benefit frm all u've posted.
Bros, abeg if u nid sex go marry. Stop turning our gals 2 'Okrika' b4 dia Tym!

That awkward moment when you av so many frnds with benefits but you can't tap into the benefit of them coz the fear of madam is d beginning of.....



Abi wetin i talk phlakes

like me

What about the disadvantages.

1) Spiritually, that is pure fornication. Your friend with benefit will most likely also have other people he/she is sleeping with. Since sex is not just a physical but also spiritual exercise, every one you sleep with you leave a bit of yourself with them and also assume a bit of them. It follows dat every time u sleep with dem u r assuming so many unknown characters into ur body.

2) Flowing from the above u might be exposed to diseases n infections.

3) What if she gets pregnant. How can u be sure u r not d father of d baby

4). Often times it ruins genuine friendships. It is easier to graduate into friends with benefits than it is to downgrade back to being just friends.

Only, atimes, they are difficult to let go of. And hinder you from seeking a definite relationship

Hmnnn....

Been there,still doing it.

justmag:
Girls can't handle friends with benefit.

So,who do u now Bleep? Boys?

ajuwarhodes:



So,who do u now Bleep? Boys?

Lol! Girls of course. I am just saying that girls may entertain the idea of friends with benefits for a short period because of the fear of being treated like a hoe, friends with benefit never last long! Men usually want that to last forever.

These days we comfortably topify abominable nonsense in the name of civilization and 'style cum class'..an empty young generation exhibiting emptiness in the most disturbing of ways...

Ghostlady:
lol its true especially the small boys thou

who told you that. Grownassmen do fwb cos is so good save both parties alotta things

akinsadeez:
What about the disadvantages.

1) Spiritually, that is pure fornication. Your friend with benefit will most likely also have other people he/she is sleeping with. Since sex is not just a physical but also spiritual exercise, every one you sleep with you leave a bit of yourself with them and also assume a bit of them. It follows dat every time u sleep with dem u r assuming so many unknown characters into ur body.

2) Flowing from the above u might be exposed to diseases n infections.

3) What if she gets pregnant. How can u be sure u r not d father of d baby

4). Often times it ruins genuine friendships. It is easier to graduate into friends with benefits than it is to downgrade back to being just friends.

Please how does one assume another person's character by sleeping with them? Is this a religious fact or a scientific one?
I have always thought the traits and characteristics go to the offsprings produced from the act and not to the parties involved in the making.

d males benefit alot from dis tin called frnds wit benefit

good one

shyshally:

Ha,sorry I missed that,then I wonder why she wants to get married if she's not ready to be faithful

...Some ladies does it for the fun of it.

martin92:
good one

Thanks man

Ewizard:
Yea dats kul.. I knw u'd feel gr8 wen u realize ur serious date is ma friend wit benefits.
Anyway,lyk u said we jus fwends "no strings"....
Clueless homosapiens drownin in d missisipi of self delusion!

Lol. I admire the very intelligent way you pointed out his foolishness .

Ewizard:
Yea dats kul.. I knw u'd feel gr8 wen u realize ur serious date is ma friend wit benefits.
Anyway,lyk u said we jus fwends "no strings"....
Clueless homosapiens drownin in d missisipi of self delusion!

Lol. I admire the very intelligent way you pointed out his foolishness .

The fear of madam is the beginning of faithfulness

@op,u jst talkin bout sex.if frnd wit benefit is al bout sex, i rather nt hv 1.wat happend to odar benefits u can get lyk:a good job,good advise,financial assistance e.t.c.
E b lyk say u 2 lyk sex oo.

PRINCEHPXP:
d males benefit alot from dis tin called frnds wit benefit

proof yr point.

I don't like it wen I see stuff like diz, we both benefit at the same rate.

NAwa o and this made front page...talk about moral decadence