What is this moniker saying now

Biko, don't confuse my already saturated brain.
Let's face the topic at hand.

benebaby77:

Is blowing a vocabulary makes one an intelligent person? English is just a language just Igbo, Hausa, Yoruba and other languages. So if I dey speak all those conky Yoruba, I don turn to intelligent one be that? Don't misconstrue vocabulary for intelligence........ Admit that you are crushing on her

EstarKeys:
...lol..funy one! Wisdom is nt bein taught,its gotten frm above..mayb u can go up dr nd ask for one..lol....i can see ur really short of words....get bk to sleep

ilori1930:


Oh cretin, I can see it's your blood to talk mannerlessly. How I wish that a psychiatric evaluation certificate will, one day, become one of the requirements to register here on NL. At least we will lesser number of fvvcktards to worry about here. Where were you when ebola was killing your kinds

ilori1930:


Oh cretin, I can see it's your blood to talk mannerlessly. How I wish that a psychiatric evaluation certificate will, one day, become one of the requirements to register here on NL. At least we will lesser number of fvvcktards to worry about here. Where were you when ebola was killing your kinds

ilori1930:


Oh cretin, I can see it's your blood to talk mannerlessly. How I wish that a psychiatric evaluation certificate will, one day, become one of the requirements to register here on NL. At least we will lesser number of fvvcktards to worry about here. Where were you when ebola was killing your kinds

iceberylin:


Just admit your crushing on her rather than using Big grammer as excuse

MizMyColi:
Estarkeys
Ilori930

Make we no derail thread na
Biko nu

We still searching for answers.
We need a consensus.

EstarKeys:
...hahahahahahah...lmao! Caught ya boy...so na dis tin de bother u since...lol...i for don knw na...u don vex sef..lol...dats wot av been working on since...lol..now i got u! I don grab ur weakness..lol..funny guy!...*tongue out*

honeric01:
I remind my babygirl at least twice a week how i feel about her and the response have always been satisfactory...

When i buckle in, she begins to feel maybe i am losing interest in her, as soon as i give her some re-assuring words, she illuminates and glows.

If you like your babygirl, do not hide it, tell her often but not like a memory verse o.

ilori1930:


mtchew!!!... and why are you interested in grabbing weakness when you can channel your energy on working yours... woreva

MizMyColi
post=28896065:
Estarkeys
Ilori930

Make we no derail thread na
Biko nu

We still searching for answers.
We need a consensus.

MizMyColi:
Estarkeys
Ilori930

Make we no derail thread na
Biko nu

We still searching for answers.
We need a consensus.

MizMyColi:
What is this moniker saying now

Biko, don't confuse my already saturated brain.
Let's face the topic at hand.

Who is talking to this thing Did I quote you initially? you are seeking for my attention. Thank gods you have it.


Those who try to impress, actually don't know and those who know don't impress rather their intellectual knowledge do.

Urine:
Firstly, I don't think it's a form of emotional abuse.

Secondly, we will all agree that men and women are totally different, we don't and will never think the same way. Men are practical, women tend towards making decisions based on emotions.

For example when a man falls in love genuinely, he probably has seen some solid traits in a woman eg intelligence, respect, how she relates with other people but for a woman this is slightly different. Their decisions are based on emotions and emotions do 'fluctuate'. So to create a sort of balance, a man has to be bold and not give in to his emotion @ all times.

There are times to show a woman love and there are times to be 100% frank with a woman.

So to answer your question, a woman shouldn't do that or better still a woman can't do that.

So, what you're saying, dear sir is that it is okay for a guy to ration love and not the ladies?

You stated that women tend to act based on emotions, I quite agree with you. But don't you think this women and emotions ish is being over hyped. In our climes today, there are women who haven't discarded their emotions, yet they try to remain objective in their dealings.

Fact is.......we're all emotional beings. We just express emotions in different ways and that doesn't make one gender less than the other y'know.
I'm actually an advocate of mutual respect when dealing with people of all gender.

But when you say 100% frank with her, could you please expatiate on that?
Do you mean.....you really don't care whether she hurts or not? Seeing as you need to be a man and be so frank with her?

Whatever happened to correcting people in love? I guess I'm misunderstanding you tho'........

Honerico1 made a valid contribution, imo.

Women thrive on what they hear, how you're able to express your feelings of affection towards them.

For me, it's as simple as this.
If you know what your partner likes, if you know what sets your partner on the same page with you;
*Be it words of affirmation, physical touch, gifts, qualitytime, or acts of service*
As much as you can.......keep doing it, don't try to hold back.

I am saying this under the assumption that you've found someone you really love o.

As far as I'm concerned, if I'm not sure that I really love a person, I have no business being in that relationship.......that'd be akin to delusion.

I'm coming to understand love from another paradigm and I can say unashamedly that I've never really loved while dating........even though I thought of myself as the best lover there is..........

One thing I know is that Love gives........in every ramification it can. It trusts. It applies Self Control

If you had said something about Guys and Ladies Applying Self Control, not because they want to maintain a certain level of control in their relationship, or to prevent them from being seen finish or devalued --- but because.......they have this spirit in them which guides them as to when they're overdoing things and just smothering their partner unnecessarily, then I'm with you on that.

Truckpusher:
How do you ration body languages that naturally betrays your feelings without you noticing?

na that one dey hard o

Kachisbarbie:


na that one dey hard o

Urine:


Ok, I'm really crazy about you, I've been watching you for a while and I have a strong feeling you're the one. Should I open up to you totally in one week or tell you bit by bit in a month (I might start like a person that's not really interested in you)?

Unibenstudent:
welcome back mummy.

lolz
So you can actually be a sweet heart like this?
I have been back since last9t na, just that I had a busy day today.

Kachisbarbie:


lolz
So you can actually be a sweet heart like this?
I have been back since last9t na, just that I had a busy day today.

MizMyColi:


So, what you're saying, dear sir is that it is okay for a guy to ration love and not the ladies?

You stated that women tend to act based on emotions, I quite agree with you. But don't you think this women and emotions ish is being over hyped. In our climes today, there are women who haven't discarded their emotions, yet they try to remain objective in their dealings.

Fact is.......we're all emotional beings. We just express emotions in different ways and that doesn't make one gender less than the other y'know.
I'm actually an advocate of mutual respect when dealing with people of all gender.

But when you say 100% frank with her, could you please expatiate on that?
Do you mean.....you really don't care whether she hurts or not? Seeing as you need to be a man and be so frank with her?

Whatever happened to correcting people in love? I guess I'm misunderstanding you tho'........

Honerico1 made a valid contribution, imo.

Women thrive on what they hear, how you're able to express your feelings of affection towards them.

For me, it's as simple as this.
If you know what your partner likes, if you know what sets your partner on the same page with you;
*Be it words of affirmation, physical touch, gifts, qualitytime, or acts of service*
As much as you can.......keep doing it, don't try to hold back.

I am saying this under the assumption that you've found someone you really love o.

As far as I'm concerned, if I'm not sure that I really love a person, I have no business being in that relationship.......that'd be akin to delusion.

I'm coming to understand love from another paradigm and I can say unashamedly that I've never really loved while dating........even though I thought of myself as the best lover there is..........

One thing I know is that Love gives........in every ramification it can. It trusts. It applies Self Control

If you had said something about Guys and Ladies Applying Self Control, not because they want to maintain a certain level of control in their relationship, or to prevent them from being seen finish or devalued --- but because.......they have this spirit in them which guides them as to when they're overdoing things and just smothering their partner unnecessarily, then I'm with you on that.

MizMyColi:

LoL
That's on a different pedestal na.
Wisdom is always profitable to direct in matters like this.

I have been guilty of it tho'
But when it comes to relating with people, I want to rid my life of Conscious Mind Games

MizMyColi:

Let's Have Your Take On This Please.

I saw a post on here. An Nler was admonishing another NLer, saying that, it is better for him to give a lady, "The More You Look, The Less You See Syndrome"
(That's just the summary of what he was trying to pass across)

In other words, He should make the lady want him more by not always admiring her or making her feel like she matters so much.

In other words, As a man, He shouldn't be "too expressive" --- so the lady won't see him finish

Even though I strongly maintain that this is a form of emotional abuse and manipulation, that's not what I'm here to talk about.


My question is, should the lady in a relationship be advised thus? May we also tow that path?

If yes please state your reasons, If no, let's know why too.

If you're in support of the Nler's opinion, please let us know why, if you're not, we'd like to know why too.

Let's contribute objectively

Cheers.........

Acekidc4:

I don't c any reason Why a Lady will tow dat path! Comin frm a Lady she will over-do it and dat will definately ruin d relationship.!!!!!!!OW U DEY MADAM!!!!

Fine thanks

MizMyColi:


Fine thanks

Acekidc4:


The Queen of Nairaland Reply me back!! Datz a good Omen 4 me!!! Season's greeting to u!!!