Have you checked yourself? Have you made
adjustment(s) towards the noticeable error(s) of
your last relationship which have prompted him/
her to have coined you to be the wrong person
he/she has ever met?
Despite the fact that the two parties may not
want to accept the fall in the relationship, one
will be claiming to be the Mr/mrs right at the
expense of the other to anyone who cares to
listen, you must have learnt one or two lessons
which should help in your next relationship.
The obvious truth is that he/she might have been
the worst man/woman you have met but he/she
is the best to his/her spouse in his/her present
matrimonial home.
Have you ever ruminated about the fact that all
the things/people you come across are not
meant for you even when you think or make them
to be for you? This however, is the worst thing to
do because regret precedes it. N o matter how
you
make somebody/something to be for you when
you are not meant to be associated with the
person/
thing you will just run a race of no finish lane,
though it might not be our fault but that of
nature's.
The first time you come across him/her which
ever the case may be, he/she will be the best
you have ever met, when things moves smoothly,
you think you are destined to be together not
until the unthinkable starts pushing itself to
reality. Then, you will start pondering if this is
the person you knew forgetting that life has its
own way of inculcating morals into us which will
always be by force.
It's a must a man and a woman go into courtship
before marriage for familiarity purpose. After you
try making it work and its not working out then
the door is still wide open since its not been
sealed, not in a childish manner, but with a
heart-to-heart talk by the two mature minds to
put a dot to
the relationship before it gets out of hand or
when it will be problematic to be dotted(you
know when i
mean). With this, the two parties have learnt
something which will make each of them to be a
better person in the future relationship-wise
rather than still managing, hoping an angel will be
molded to come down from heaven to perform
miracle so as to make the relationship work.
Though, tolerance is one important
characteristic of a good relationship, hope of
changing makes tolerance to be powerful, but
once the tolerance is taken for granted more
than required then
somebody isn't meant for the other, but trying to
make it work when the seal is done is the
biggest problem because the two parties knows
that it will be difficult to desolve the union and
know in fully well that there is something at
stake for the losing party in the court of law
(court marriage) the two parties may now want
to rely on the other to make the final move to
stopping the union when it is becoming
unbearable.
There is a man/woman for everyman/woman
who will tolerate you in any circumstances you
find
yourself, but because you dont want to be a ball,
you dont want to risk because may be you think
you might not cope emotionally then you want to
endure the pain forever which isn't meant for you
anyways.
There is no rosy relationship. All relationships
come with its own ups and downs but the way
you and your partner deal with it is what will
make
or mar your imaginary family. I know a great
couple that had mutual misunderstanding when
they were courting, the issue lasted for almost a
year but later things came back into shape and
they got over it. The two were ready to depart
but
naturally they are meant for each other. This is
to say that, when two people are meant for each
other, no matter how hard they try to separate
each other it will never work because they are
meant for each other.
Risk taking is another characteristic that
makes a unique family. Don't be afraid to take
risk(s) because once you are afraid to take the
risk then you will face the danger associated with
not taking the risk for the rest of your life. Don't
feel he/she will think you are a bad person
simply because you want the best for yourself,
but the truth is that you want the best for him/
her also since the two of you might not be happy
being together in the boundage for the rest of
your life..
Many man/woman have been termed bad by
their ex, go to their matrimonial home now they
are the apple of their spouse's eyes and the best
mum/dad in the whole universe by their child
(ren). Don't make the mistake that will ruin your
life by not taking risk(s), the bad boyfriend/
girlfriend to a woman/man now can/will be the
best man/woman to their ordained husband/wife.
NOTE*
* No matter how you
make somebody/something to be for you when
you are not meant to be associated with the
person/
thing you will just run a race of no finish lane
* W hen two people are meant for each other,
no matter how hard they try to separate each
other it will never work because they are meant
for each other.


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