Kolade354:
which guy are u currently dating now? Maybe number 9. You excuse is guyz are cheaterz not knowing your fish brain is ruining your relationship.........am a give you money if u want just offer me ur free punny.

kajoula:


Except frm been unconsciously used as an object.

Natasha2:


lool you don land abi? Leave the yeye boy we need to gist.

marveangel:
Seriously.......guy abeg grow up....you're making a fool ou of urself.

AgapeCharis:
Truth b told

It's either Kolade354 likes Natasha2
Or

Kolade354 is just a dumb kid nigga

Kolade354:
see big fool what concernz u btw wat is going on between me and natasha........this habit has been in you since kid and you transfer it here to embarass urself. Grown up guy indeed.

marveangel:
Really......that's Sad....how u holding up?

voodoo85:


Well... Not talking since 15th of november. So what can i say

marveangel:
I'm sad to hear that.......maybe you should seek professional advice(say a marriage counsellor or something)....I really wish you the best dearie and hope things work out well for U.

Natasha2:


It is to be frank, but if I should rate, I think my long distance relationships were better than the one time short distance although they didn't last for more than 2 months. My first lasted for close to 2 years although it wasn't really long distance per say but we hardly saw each other. I think its about having a relationship with the right person, presently I'm having a long distance relationship and it has been nothing but blissful, Its actually the best choice I have ever made in the relationship line. I think the distance gives some sort of quality to the affection in the relationship.

iamord:
well my long distance relationship lasted for long. I was the one that called it off cos at that moment I was on a cross road in life and I didn't want here to follow me on that journey. I know she won't understand. But it Did teach me a lot about patience, and how to keep the relationship sizzling with letters ,calls and gifts.. I learned a lot .

awww, I understand that feeling, but if it lasted for long how come you don't wanna try it again? You know we are not always in control of who we fall in love with. You might just go back to it

lilmaxfidel:
NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE I HAVE REGRETTED....BCOZ I HAVE DATED ONLY ONE GIRL AND I AM STILL DATING HER

Natasha2:



awww, I understand that feeling, but if it lasted for long how come you don't wanna try it again? You know we are not always in control of who we fall in love with. You might just go back to it

iamord:
what's ur age grade?

Kolade354:
your humen ke? Shebi u be hottest babe for town everytin na time......you go soon fade away.........successfull women should be of great example to you like Mrs alakija,okonjo iwela and many more. They dont change men like slipperz because dey are dreamchaserz. Will you be ever successfull? Ask yourself this and change your foolish mentality.

voodoo85:


i offerred. he doesn't want. thanx though

iamord:
. LoL . Am glad you understand! we don't know what the future holds. But however it goes. Am sure to bend with it. I still got an open door in the relationship , but I feel its better we just stay as friends, and I wlll do my best to always be there. For her, you said you are in a long distance relationship too . Is it your first time?

Yeah I do cos I've had those moments and when it happens normally I just hibernate, no one gets to hear from me at all. Its good to know you guys are still friends. And no its not my first time its gonna be the third and I'm really hopeful about it, cos the guy in question has been my best friend for a very long time, he knows almost everything about me, from my very first relationship. We've had our fights, our split ups, our happy moments, love and all, Its actually wonderful dating him, but part of me is scared, cos if anything happens I'll not just loose my partner, I'll loose my best friend and confidant. Oh did I mention we met here on Nairaland

marveangel:
sorry about...that's a pretty difficult situation you got on your hands......u guys still leaving together?

Natasha2:



Yeah I do cos I've had those moments and when it happens normally I just hibernate, no one gets to hear from me at all. Its good to know you guys are still friends. And no its not my first time its gonna be the third and I'm really hopeful about it, cos the guy in question has been my best friend for a very long time, he knows almost everything about me, from my very first relationship. We've had our fights, our split ups, our happy moments, love and all, Its actually wonderful dating him, but part of me is scared, cos if anything happens I'll not just loose my partner, I'll loose my best friend and confidant. Oh did I mention we met here on Nairaland

iamord:
wow!! That's nice,! The guy must be lucky to have someone like you , its only normal to be scared, its a plus that u two have known each other for quite a while.. Just clear your doubts and insecurities, trust him,but at the same time use your heart and not your head and to will be good to go!

awwww thank you so much dear, I'll take your advice right now I'm just looking forward to see him in January,haven't seen him since July. I might go crazy when I see him lol.

voodoo85:


Yh.like room mates

Natasha2:



awwww thank you so much dear, I'll take your advice right now I'm just looking forward to see him in January,haven't seen him since July. I might go crazy when I see him lol.

iamord:
you welcome dear... my goodness!!! I just saw my mistake!! its use you head and not your heart ooo!! I hope it was not so misleading!! may the new year bring u guys good tiding too damn 6 months!! That's long enough

lol I knew it, it wasn't misleading... thanks dear,a big AMEN to that I pray it also brings you joy, success and everything you wish for .

marveangel:
oh dear....that is sad....wish there was something or someway I could be of help.

voodoo85:


Life goes on

marveangel:
I like your spirit.......if u ever need someone to talk to, just know u have a friend in me....No one should have to go through such difficult situations alone......Wish u the best love and hope things work out well for U.

Prettiepearlz:
@valdes. Lol,my brother,na true talk u dey yarn jare,na real war. But come to think of it,if we human learn to mind our businesses,maybe peace will reign. The topic indicates that u should comment about your own experience and leave,shikena and not to insult someone who talked about his/her own experience. Its free world,we are allowed to do what pleases us.

voodoo85:


Thanx again

marveangel:
u're welcome.....stay strong....I hope to keep in touch with you...are u on any other social platform where we could discuss privately?